Girls, have you ever been with a guy (sexually) who had a very small penis?

[Anonymous]

I was dating a guy in high school who was very attractive, he was about 5'10 with green eyes, dark hair and a very nice style.. The only thing I disliked is that he was kind of arrogant and immature tbh (he was 16, I was 17). Anyway he was a virgin & I wasn't but he wanted me to be his first.. it felt weird, a bit awkward, but it went down and I was a bit disappointed in his size. I couldn't feel him in there! I hadn't been with a bunch of guys (only 2) but they were average and this was a first. It didn't work out I think I kind of lost interest. Has this happened to you?

[Anonymous]

yes, unfortunately. it was about 4 inches and he felt really self-conscious about it.. when he confessed to me, he broke out in tears, and I would never cut down a guy for something can't control. i slept w/ him out of pity, and it makes me feel like total shit that i was turned off by it, but it reminded me of the kind of guy who gets trashed by other guys in the locker room and mocked w/ the pinky gesture by other girls, and as shallow as it might seem, no one gets falls for the bullied kid. it's a status thing again, he can't help it, but I can't help what i'm attracted to either. i felt like such a bitch. :(

anyway, he put it inside me, and was really sweet and everything, but I just couldn't feel anything. we broke up a few days later and he knows the reason, but we're still friends and I hold him when he's sad.. i feel so sorry for him. he cries because he can't keep a girl and has lost at least one to a bigger guy. i can't imagine what it's like to be a guy w/ a smaller dick.

[Asker]

Aw, that's pretty fucked up for him. Really nice of you to still be a friend to th poor guy. I felt like a total bitch at first but he moved on really quick so I felt glad he wasn't my problem anymore.. he was kind of an asshole.

[Janice25]

Dated a guy for 3 months with a little dick (3 inches as well). I tried to make the best of it, but it was definitely a downer. Not the least of which he was so small that either he would keep slipping out of me when he tried to do anything more than mini strokes, or the condom (the smallest ones available) would keep slipping off and it would cause too much friction inside me.

I don't need my man to have a huge dick, but something at the 6 inch mark feels best. On the opposite end of the spectrum, I did briefly experience a "huge" (in length) one... it was uncomfortable.

[Asker]

Omg 😂 you just cracked me up so hard! The mini stroke thing happened with me too I was like wtf is this for real?😒 And he came after one minute when he pulled it out I couldn't even tell the difference, I was highly disappointed sex isn't everything but it's pretty major for me. You know your situation is messed up when the tiniest condoms slip off...

[Asker]

And so true, we don't need anacondas an average penis will do!

[Janice25]

Thanks for the MHO! :) And I'm glad you can relate lol. The only difference is that this guy wasn't really cocky, so I tried extra hard to be sensitive to his insecurity. But in the end there were only so many times I could tell him "Oh you feel even bigger today!" or "Isn't 3 inches about average?" before he knew I was full of shit.

[Asker]

LMFAO 😆 bless your heart child ❤

[rosa30]

yes i was once n i didn't even enjoy it i m not saying i like huge penis but not too small

[Candy_Girl]

yes, but i prefer them smaller, so i'd be glad if that were the case.

[Asker]

This is a first, can you explain why? I meant like really small about 3 inches hard...

[MackAttack97]

I agree, small isn't always bad. Large is ok every once in awhile

[Asker]

I'm not into anything huge but realistically that was too small for me. 5 inches is fine but 3? He might as well be a schoolboy... I like men.

[Candy_Girl]

3 inches is probably a bit small even for me, but I would give it a whirl. you don't need much more than that to get certain type of orgasms, but maybe not others.

[Asker]

Maybe I'm a bitch but just being real... part of what turned me off also is that he was awkward and inexperienced and I didn't want to show him the ropes, and he was disgustingly cocky so the dick thing was like the last straw.. maybe if he was different I'd have made an exception.

[Candy_Girl]

a cocky guy with a 3 inch penis? wow, thats a new one. I'd give him credit for that.

[Asker]

I now know he was just highly insecure.. for good reason too he did not please me oh and to top it off he came after like 1 minute... worst sex of my life

[Candy_Girl]

Yikes, i'm sorry hun. do you find that guys with smaller penises cum faster?

[Asker]

I don't know... it was his first time so that probably had a lot to do with it but he definitely had a 40 year old virgin moment 😕

[emerald77]

Yes. Let's just say it didn't work out and I left after about a minute.

[Asker]

We're terrible x)

[emerald77]

Lol what are we gonna do? xD