Have you ever broken up with someone and gone for (or been approached by) their friend?

I’m watching this show and the kid is said his girl dumped him. He was like “I’m the one thats sad, she looks fine on social media. I liked a couple of her videos.” The dad was like “son don’t do that. You’re supposed to shop for a new outfit and then go for her best friend.” Its sad how many folks I know that have given this advice to others 😂

Have you ever broken up with someone and gone for (or been approached by) their friend?

But I can’t even front, I’ve had my fair share of friends, cousins, brothers. I rarely do it as a revenge thing. I just simply liked them before I liked him. And now that we’re over 🤷‍♀️ Fair game right? Wrong. I always made this odd pact with my exes that we wouldn’t date nor sleep with eachothers friends/fam. I mean he still did. I just enjoyed making out, getting my t—ts sucked on and getting fingered. I ain't fck em tho 🤣 #FeelFreeToList

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there's a reason I can’t be someone’s friend. I might strike her ex man or flirt with an ex’s friend at any time after 🤷‍♀️ Here lies no loyalties
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  • yeah i have n i did go on with them

  • Nope, I've never had 2 women I liked in the same friend group before.

    • Thats good

  • once i dated an ex's bff's friend out of revenge. turned really weird when about a month later, said reveng girlfriend, my ex, and ex's bro's girlfriend started to initiate a 4some. was not long after loosing my dad and a certain song came on the radio which soured my mood into changing my mind about the 4some and leaving. strangely that was pretty much tye end between me and revenge girlfriend too.

    • this is one of my things i do occassionally wonder "what if" about. seeing as i also suspected (even when they were offering) that it was a setup for something like a prank. so i wonder what if about it.

    • Damn I hope it wasn't a setup

    • will never know. no clue where 2 of them are now and the actual ex i seen once in the last 10 years and it wasn't good as she was cock blocking me while sitting with her hubby. was in the dmv, seen my ex and ignored her. about 15 to 20 mins later, after i seen a nice looking woman come in and started making small talk with her, then my ex decided to start calling out my name loudly over and over even after i acknowledged her presence.

  • Nah I haven't done and probably won't. It just feels wrong.

    • It is wrong. You’re a good man

    • Thanks 😅

  • When in school it's almost unavoidable. I've had the situation with sisters

    • Yep lol

  • nope

    • Thats good

  • I’ve been approached by an exs friend after we broke up. I didn’t go for it.

    • Well at least you said no

  • I've never had that happen

    • Thats good

  • Yes.. I got approached by her friend... At the time I wasn't for it... but i changed my mind quickly

    • Lmao

    • It was such a crazy night lol

  • lol I just realized how disgusting my past might seem to others. In high school I dated three sisters. Two of them were twins. Then after high school I dated two other sets of sisters.

    • I would normally judge but i’ve talked to brothers, cousins and friends 🤣 So you’re safe this round mate haha *hides my sister from you*

  • Interesting. Well, as you know by now, I haven't had a relationship. My friends also live far enough away where I barely see them. I've never met my coworkers significant others. My closest experience to this all is that a friend of mine dated an ex girlfriend of a friend of his at one point, but they all grew up together.

  • Never targeted a friend’s ex nor been targeted by a friend’s ex.

    While in college (a fairly large college), I broke up with my girlfriend and then went out with another girl (who ultimately became my girlfriend). After some time passed, my new girlfriend realized that my previous girlfriend was one of her best friends from back home……. I nor she had any knowledge before going out / becoming girlfriend / boyfriend. (They had different personality and didn’t interact / didn’t live near each other on campus).

    • Lmao yea I've been through that before too. This classmate kept trying to get with me but i wasn't interested. At the tailgate he introduced his girlfriend but had the nerve to tell her “im his baby” and i was lookin confused like wtf. She was too. We then told him we knew eachother from High school and he legit gave no fcks. He kept trying to hit on me and i brushed him off and his girl ran off crying. I didn't chase her but that idiot accepted his marriage proposal some months later

    • Wow…that’s crazy.

    • yes broke up with my first real girlfriend in the 1980's she was hell on wheels she was smart witty cool and had CP and scolious we had a study group about disabilitys and one day i was barried into a book and she came over with coffee and after that i met her rat pack at the time i was working 2 jobs we dated and hooked up and i just got off a 12 hour job shift partied on her couch lights off we some cluthes on lights got on she screems dad what's up he said you have a bedroom dear so we dated and one day we wen't out and she said get a full time job to date me ! started really dating a few years later wen't out she said we need to break up and why our business and we had the fight in front of her parents a few years later she hed her Mfcc and her Phd in psych worked with kids from her wheelchair and her leg braces a few years later we had a family pass i was at the viewing everyone was gone i hear a door open and a wheelchair she had a bottle of really great wine. she siad you look like hell into her car wen't to her fokes house drank wine hung out six momth pr a year later she passed could not go to her service sent her fokes 2 doz yelloiw roses and had then put one her desk at home SCARRED

  • nope and nope

    • Thats good

  • yes many times... too many to count

  • Uhhhh. No.

    • Lmao thats good

    • (*takes a bow*) Thank you very much! (Announcer: GUARDIAN HAS LEFT THE BUILDING!)

  • I’ll never ever break up with a girl that I’m dating and start talking to any of her friends

    • Thats sweet

  • In my entire life I have only been in one relationship and I didn't go with her friends or her sisters. I need a time to forget about everything and move on

    • Yes move on :)

    • Well right now I feel much better that was more than 4 years ago and I'm completely relaxed and trying to find someone new

  • That is funny 😄

  • No, but her friend came after me as soon as we split up

    • And what did you do

    • Fucked, of course. She was good, too.

  • Yes, a long time ago and I did not go for it. She was not my type any way!

    • But if she had been your type?
      Have you ever broken up with someone and gone for (or been approached by) their friend?

    • Not sure. There were too many complications, so most likely not,

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