Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Have you ever caught feelings for a friend with benefits or someone you hooked up with?
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What Girls & Guys Said
19 39I don't hook up.
Never even had 1 of those
Awesome :-)
Yes🤷🏾♀️ It's normal I think😅 even if it's just sexting
Totally 😍 Specially if you cum super hard
Ikr😏😍... I mean not that I would know. I'm so innocent 😇
😈🔥💦
🤤😍🌊
Noooope! A best friend on the other hand... Guilty. With any luck, there shall be no mercy and a "Life Sentence" involved.
😂😂😂
Thought you might get a kick out of that.
No that's never happened to me
Yes my baby daddy and one other.
Cool
It has never happened to me. My friends with benefits caught feelings for me though..
Happens both ways in my experience. A lot of times the girl catches feelings for the guy and less often the guy catches feels for the girl. Unfortunately it rarely happens to both people at the same time.
If I told you I've never had a friends with benefits, how hard would you laugh at me? 🤣🤣
Not at all 😊. You don’t need to settle for an friends with benefits unless you want one. You’re pretty enough and horny enough to attract as many real boyfriends as you need.
Awww! That's so sweet! However you are biased for being a friend! LOL I appreciate it though!💋💋💓
Thank "almighty" not everyone has been swooped up into the Tsunami of social decay.
Yes. Happen one time
That's how I got my most recent ex
My friends with benefits i loved. She loved me too. We are there for each other no matter what. Get give advice talk about stuff u couldnt talk about w a boyfriend or girlfriend. We knew tho that we would never be together in a relationship. But that was ok cos we had our friends with benefits relationship. We made it work. Til she got killed in a car accident. Life throws u curve balls but the ones that matter will leave a lasting imprint in your mind. Not a day goes by i dont think about her.
God I'm sorry
Its life. Im privileged to have had her in my life tho. You never no what tmrw will bring so life everyday like its ur last
Totally true
Feelings suck
Not always
Thumbs up for the reality of feelings. I think of feelings now as communicators. If they suck, go the other direction or explore the feeling for what it is really saying. In it... is likely all kinds of distortion and lies and misgivings that need sorted out. good luck!
I have never been lucky enough for friends with benefits. So no for me.
Once yeah.
I have not.
It is possible those who were going to leave anyhow did it before anything happened.
Or they thought I'd leave and didn't go there.
I think the 'catching feelings' part is really an ego struggle to control/keep what is considered theirs. Feelings are by definition mutual - intentions can be different.
Well my first fwbs no. My second was actually my exgf so that doesn't count. So i guess no.
Okay
Lol did you want me too? I still have a chance to make another fwbs and see if love blooms. 😉
The opposite happened and it was quite sad, I told her beforehand how it was and that I would leave the country (7000km away) soon, to never return, so a relationship isn't possible. She still ended up catching some feelings. Turned a bit emotional.
Yeah, it does get emotional when one of you catches feels
Yeap, to the point where I had to tell her that it wasn't a good idea for us to have sex anymore.. and she was super hot and did anything, so that was a big deal 😂
I had a guy like that once. I’ve also been in her shoes once or twice.
Sad times, hope I'll meet someone that likes me as much in Montreal once I moved there, for something more permanent.
Hope so
no and no
Nope but the girl got the feelings for me. We hooked up one night and two days later she texted me saying that she’s in love with me...
She was from other country and it was really heartbreaking to say her no. I felt very bad but i knew the relationship won’t work out
She must’ve cum like crazy to get so bonded to you. Either that or you told her you loved her to get her to sleep with you.
Well she’s the one who initiated the sex. I was drinking on my own. She approached me, kissed me, slid her hands into my pants and made me horny. Then I took her to the hotel and fucked her. Also, till date with whom ever I had sex, I only did it with the girls’ consent only. If she’s too horny and wanna have sex with me then only I have sex. I never make fake promises to get a girl on bed...
Okay
Do you have any such experience?
A couple
If you don’t mind, you can share your experience. You can either pm me or share it here if you are comfortable.
I will later. Remind me.
Sure
In the moment I was being used. With farther information that woman was I can't quite remember. Out of site, out of mind. Looking forward to my next secluded purposes.
Least she got to use you
I... I wanted not to feel that way. I was 39 and she was 23. I really liked her in a very peculiar way. Now facing 50 ? Someone 33 is perfect! Some guys get all the luck. I'm can't complain every flower is a flower. Only a rose by any other name is still a rose.
I'm sorry. That was mean of me. I'm really sorry she didn't like you back.
What is like? When holding a dove is so soft. I'm sure of any details can be overlooked. Sad? No. I'm deaf and hard to handle. Never got to experience the kind spirit, love is made of.