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  • Of course!

    This question reminds me of a minor conflict that I had as a young man. I've always had trouble sleeping - I have insomnia and rarely sleep more than 6-7 hours, despite wanting more sleep, and I if I get woken up, I often can't go back to sleep. So, I never wanted to wake up my girl, out of respect for HER sleep. Turns out, many women feel VERY differently!

    One morning, waking up with my girlfriend when I was 19, we were cuddling and talking, and I mentioned that I had woken up during the night and that it was all I could do to keep from waking her up for sex. I thought I was being sweet - but to my shock, she was UPSET and OFFENDED that I didn't wake her up for sex. I mean, REALLY upset! And it's not like we weren't having sex - we were having sex 2-3 times a day on average. Still, she demanded that if I woke up horny in the future that I would ALWAYS wake her up and fuck her until I was satisfied. And she was good to her word - from time to time, I woke her up, and she never, ever was anything but enthusiastic, even if she was tired the next day.

    Since then, I've always asked the girls I was with how they felt about being woken up for sex during the night, and while there were a few who were like me - who had trouble sleeping and really valued their sleep - the majority made it clear that they wanted to be woken up for sex anytime I felt the desire. That's not what I would have expected, but it's another example of why you shouldn't always just project your own priorities on your partners or the opposite sex. And it's resulted in a lot of very hot, very dirty, and very satisfying middle-of-the-night sex.

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  • Lol yeah sure
    One day when Kira came over my place stayed till late 9:30 pm we listened to “The Weekend” all through on each song repeat and all she did was shake that ass right in front of me
    Then guess what 🤦🏻‍♂️ I Was horny asf and fr I had nothing to force about because she didn’t wanna do non that day so I just put her in the Uber and she went home
    Hey fams cannot believe I did sleep horny that night like I could literally hear my self talking to my dick saying shit like “Sorry boy not my fault you know I don’t force on that fr”
    Just wanted to say it all in story form of how I did experience it 😅

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  • Almost every night - when I don't find a hole to fuck and cum. I need a girl everynight to rest my dick and mind.

  • So, masturbate. Sext with someone if that helps. I can not imagine why you would have trouble enjoying sexually pleasing yourself or with someone who is not actually with you.

  • Yeah, but I can just jerk off then usually get to sleep

  • Yes. And the easiest way to fix that is by masturbating. There have been times where I couldn't masturbate, so I just waited until I went to sleep, although that can take up to hours (from my experience), so masturbating it is.

  • My hand comes to the rescue, I masturbate and that helps me to sleep faster.

  • Literally ALL the time

  • That's what masturbation is for.

  • Yes, my dick kept rubbing up against my shorts and I had to take care of it

  • I have, lots of times. I could just lie in bed at night and not sleep.

  • Is there an implicit offer anywhere in that question?

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