Girls, Have you ever felt guilty immediately after reaching an orgasm when masturbating before?

[Darkened77]

[Anonymous]

Can't say that I have. I only feel sad because I wish it wasn't caused by masturbation but by real sex.

[IAmAzzurra]

No. That’s the whole point of masturbating

[Darkened77]

Post nut clarity is a huge thing for guys though. I think that it stems from the fact that what we are doing is very wrong and so we feel guilt when we feel amazing after doing it. You feel zero shame?

[IAmAzzurra]

Why would you feel bad for fulfilling a need? If it was wrong, it would be illegal. It’s your body: They’re a few better physical feelings than cumming: We’re too busy finding the next one to feel bad. When we’re done, we either go to sleep, or back to what we were doing

[Darkened77]

I suppose the fact that guys should not be doing it because it "wastes the seed". Well that logic creeps into my thinking. I guess that is why I feel this way. But you are right. It is a need. I should not feel this way.

[Darkened77]

Oh wait. Females can achieve multiple orgasms. I suppose that is why guilt never occurs for girls.

[IAmAzzurra]

You won’t ever run out of sperm, so worry about that. Exactly. The more orgasms we have, the better they get, so why waste the opportunity?

[IAmAzzurra]

*don’t* worry, I meant to say

[Darkened77]

I actually think that cumming is the greatest physical feeling in the world. I know that might differ from you and most girls but I believe this to be the case.

[Darkened77]

Would it be okay if I could talk privately?

[Darkened77]

It is okay if you want to talk here too. I can't get over the fact that girl's can get multiple orgasms. I am in awe of that and jealous of that. It must be a hugely intense experience. I do worry about that. I worry that I will "waste my seed".

[IAmAzzurra]

It doesn’t differ. Everyone can agree on that. The only difference is that our first one is rarely our best. We need a couple of orgasms to get going Whenever you see a girl squirt, she’s been going at it a while

[IAmAzzurra]

Guys can’t waste anything: anything that gets spilt gets replenished

[Darkened77]

I have a feeling that guys rankcumming as the greatest physical feeling in the world but that girks rank it lower despite it feeling greater for them because of the length. Oh right. So it is very rare then that one orgasm would occur in one session of masturbation or sex for example. The third and fourth ones are the strongest usually. That is interesting.

[Darkened77]

So when a girl squirts that is not necessarily the first orgasm then?

[IAmAzzurra]

I can’t think of a better physical feeling. It’s hard for us to be one and done. The first couple are a warm up Our orgasms are much, much gentler than guys’ but it’s still fucking amazing

[IAmAzzurra]

Squirting is the highest peak of sexual pleasure. It need some patience though

[Darkened77]

I followed you by the way. Oh right. But you were saying earlier that there a few better physical feelings. I do agree with you though. Cumming is the greatest physical feeling in the world. Nothing comes close. One orgasm is never enough so.

[Darkened77]

For guys the pleasure is short and extreme.

[IAmAzzurra]

“Few better” was just a turn of phrase. There is no better feeling, physically

[Darkened77]

I've always believed this to be the case. That when a girl squirts that she is achieving her greatest possible orgasm. It is great that you have confirmed it. Oh I get you. Sorry. I misunderstood you.

[IAmAzzurra]

It is. It doesn’t get better than that

[Darkened77]

Have you squirted much before when masturbating?

[IAmAzzurra]

Sometimes I do. Sometimes I feel done, even though I know I can get to that point if I kept going, and sometimes I can feel myself getting closer and I can’t stop until I do. It was my ex boyfriend who got me to squirt the first time. I wouldn’t have thought about it otherwise. I would have just assumed that some girls could and some couldn’t. I think all girls can

[Darkened77]

Oh so you are able to squirt pretty easily when you masturbate so? That's great. How did it feel when you squirted for the first time?

[IAmAzzurra]

Sometimes. It’s different to when you have an orgasm where the intensity builds and you respond to it because you want to get to that pleasure. I have to be completely relaxed and not chasing an orgasm. It’s a pleasure that comes in rolling waves that builds up and up and up, and instead of tensing in response I have to be completely at the mercy of it. Those waves keep gradually building until I’m over the edge. Squirting feels like a natural response. Like my body is just doing its thing. The first time, I didn’t expect it. My boyfriend and I were just chilling and he was fingering me & I wasn’t bothered about an orgasm. It was just nice. That was the first time I was getting these waves of pleasure rather than a intense build up straight to orgasm, and when it got to the point where I was I was thinking how fucking good it felt, it was this sudden release, there wasn’t even a peak moment like there usually is, it just happened. It felt satisfying. Natural.

[Darkened77]

I see. It comes naturally. You are not pushing yourself towards the orgasm. It just happens. And was the orgasm when you squirted longer than a normal orgasm?

[IAmAzzurra]

It’s longer, and the feeling lingers. Our body stays in a pleasure state that can only be resolved by another orgasm until we’re done. With a “regular” orgasms, there is brief moment of over sensitivity that’s quite painful afterwards. It only lasts a couple of second and then you have to build it up again. When we’re at the squirting stage of orgasms, we don’t get that over sensitivity. We feel the same as we did when we were almost at the brink of orgasm, the slightest touch takes us back to the brink and we can literally have one orgasm after the other, but it can’t be “pushed” it happens when we just let our body respond to touch the way it wants to.

[Darkened77]

Oh right. So the pleasure when you squirt during an orgasm is more sustained and extreme and to pull yourself away from that extremity you have to reach an orgasm again. And it all comes naturally you are saying. Interesting. Are squirting orgasms much harder to achieve because of how natural that they happen?

[IAmAzzurra]

It takes a lot longer to get there than an average orgasm, but when it’s happened once, it will keep happening until we stop and it will only take seconds make it happen after the first time, because the pleasure doesn’t subside, It just tops up & that’s what takes us to the next one.

[Darkened77]

Can I message you?

[IAmAzzurra]

I guess so

[Darkened77]

Can you follow me?

[mandyfire98]

Not really

[Darkened77]

Post nut clarity seems to be primarily a male thing.

[AlexisDiani]

No, I never have.

[HonestHannah]

Never. I feel tired and ready for a snack

[Darkened77]

Oh feeling guilt and shame is a big thing for guys post orgasm. It is interesting that you girks never feel this.

[HonestHannah]

Why do you feel guilty?

[Darkened77]

I suppose the fact that guys should not be doing it because it "wastes the seed". Well that logic creeps into my thinking. I guess that is why I feel this way. But you are right. It is a need. I should not feel this way.

[HonestHannah]

Where does that "wasted seed" idea come from? I haven't heard of that

[Darkened77]

It stems from the fact that when we were young we hid ourselves when masturbating. It is such a forbidden act. So it would be better used when making love to a woman. I guess I also am religious and masturbation is a sin in religion.

[Shedzij567]

I have yes

[Amishaxx]

Never has happened to me before