Have you ever fooled around with a friend (same or opposite sex) in a sexual way, if so how was it and what did you two do?

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  • Oh boy, this is gonna be a steamy one, so I hope you readers are ready for what's to come. There was one time when I was 10-12 years old and undergoing puberty. I had a female friend at the time who was 8-10, and we'd sometimes mess around while playing. At first, it was just unintentional harmless acts, like me sometimes smacking her chest while we'd play fight, or her poking me in my crotch in return, but then, it escalated to more.. stuff.

    Bear in mind, neither of us had any idea what sex was at the time, but we liked the feeling of being touched and it excited both of us. One day while it was just us two alone in the park near our house, I took her by the hand and pulled her with me to some remote spot behind the public bathroom that was secluded by trees, so we had plenty of privacy. She was confused at the time but didn't question me, so I guess she probably was on board on what was about to happen. Like we'd usually do it, I used to pull down my shorts and let her see me getting hard. She liked the view and would sometimes comment why my "thing" got hard like this and why it would get bigger and stick out in front, then she'd proceed to play around with it, touching, poking and holding it. In return, she'd also pull off her panties and let me look at her privates under her skirt. It always amazed me how totally different we looked down there and she'd urge me to "play with her" as well.

    As I said, we hadn't even the slightest inkling of what sex was or how it goes, as we were still just clueless children, so all we really did was touch each other not-so innocently, exploring each other's bodies and watch each other's reactions. It was that day when I started feeling really weird "down there" the more she touched and played with me, like a sort of heat growing in the pit of my stomach, and I think she felt the same way as well because she was getting really moist down there as well. I thought she was probably peeing herself but this didn't smell or feel like urine, and I didn't feel like stopping either, so we kept playing with each other because it was getting unbearably good. After around 15 or so minutes, I exploded my premature seed, for the first time, all across her chest, while she in turn, gushed like a waterfall all over my hand.

    We were both understandably shocked, surprised and scared on what just happened. She started crying, telling me how I peed on her while I yelled back that she peed all over my hand as well. Regardless, we collected ourselves and helped each other clean off via a nearby watering hose. Things were really awkward after that, so we simply decided to call it a day and head back home. A few weeks later, her family changed houses and I never saw her again after that. Heck, I don't think I even remember her name now either lol, which is a shame.

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  • Long winded sorry in advance 🫤
    I had a close friend from the beginning of elementary school til college we never dated but we always flirted. She joined the military in HS and was gone for months doing training. When she returned she wanted to rent movies about the military so we did that. While watching she kept touching me in random spots I did same. In HS we hung out with other people together usually from sports teams

    I used to pick my younger sister up from elementary school and she told me to come over before I did. It was the first time we messed around but she wouldn’t let me do anything just kissing & touching.

    I don’t know why but afterwards we’d randomly hook up without plans or thought it just happened. Thing is it never got weird either

    First time, both of us had spare class in HS. I don’t remember why but we went back to my parents place to fuck. After that everyday on our spare we left to fuck and come back. I don’t know how because I know I don’t shoot blanks she never got knocked up because she’d tell me to cum in her all the time

    Another time I had a party at my parents place and was dating her friend. She was wearing jeans and felt too hot so asked to wear some shorts. I gave her a pair of my soccer shorts to wear. Began changing in front of me and ordered me to come here lifted leg and pulled my pants down and we had a quickie for few minutes then my girlfriend at time came upstairs so we stopped quickly.

    It was pretty mean of me but I told my girlfriend at the time she couldn’t sleep over but I’d already told my friends + could 🫤 I swear to Zeus we fucked literally until it got light out. In the morning we fucked in the shower had breakfast and that was it. Just friends again.

    She had a steady boyfriend the last year of HS but after he’d leave she’d always call me. I’d question what we were doing both of us would collectively shrug and laugh. My last year of HS I had a serious girlfriend and cut things off although we still hung out.

    One night hanging out with my girlfriend and friends + they were off talking and giggling I walked over to ask whats up. She told my girlfriend how we used to hook up all the time she started asking what we did and my friend described it. I said how about I show you? Ended up having a twosome I guess. Not really a threesome because neither would touch each other they’d just take turns with me. It was awesome but also the last time.

    After that if we ever argued or I didn’t call when she thought I should I got the jealousy bit, “ Were you with HER? Etc. Was fun while it lasted.

    Last I spoke about a year ago her husband cheated on her while she was getting cancer treatment. she's cancer free now and told me she was in an open relationship and wanted me to meet her boyfriend. I declined though.

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  • It was pretty awesome tbh. We had been friends for years and he had this amazingly romantic getaway weekend planned for he and his fiancee planned... Unfortunately she ended things with him, but he already had the cabin (a treehouse) paid for for the long weekend and at that point the $900 for the room was nonrefundable.

    He invited me to go with him as a friend, but I asked him if he wanted it to be more than that, just this once... That I'd be more than happy to fill role of the happy girlfriend...

    We had a very romantic weekend, went dancing, to a concert, dinners, and plenty of time in the bedroom. He was really good there!

    We don't ever talk about it, as a rule, but we now coordinate when we put in for time off for vacation and if we both happen to be single, well, let's just say we definitely aren't those few days.

  • Friends are friends because we are not interested in each other sexually. If we were I wouldn’t be entertaining them, as I’m already happy. So no.

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  • i used to give blowjobs to a friend and that only... he said he liked them and i was willing

    • Friends? Lol

  • Yeah in college I fooled around with a few girlfriends. We just did it for sex, we remained friends and never had a relationship. Recently I have had threesomes with my best friend, just for sex as well, and we are even better friends now

  • I don't understand why people believe you can't have sex with a friend. My best friend ever was my wife. And of course we had lots of sex!

  • In college when I was about 22. A lady friend of mine and I were drinking and started to get a bit frisky. I stopped myself before the clothes came off though. It really wouldn't have been appropriate because of the nature of our friendship. Although she appeared to be game for it... LOL

  • No and if she tried to, I would probably react in self-defense and not talk to her anymore, if not outright call the police on her. This is terrifying.

    • It sort of happened once, and I had to slap her to get her to back off - first and only time I ever hit someone. She understood, was a bit ashamed but said she'd have done the same in my position.

  • I used to hang out with a group of girls and guys. We did all kinds of stuff together. One of the girls and I used to mess around occasionally. One movie night I snuck my hand down the back of her pants and played with her bottom. She seemed to like that. Another time we had sex on my couch after everyone else went home. Once we had sex in a pond after a party.

    lol. I should give her a call. We had a lot of good times.

  • A couple of girls in high school. Went to their houses. General fumbling around and playing with each other when I was around 15. A work colleague when I was about 20 invited me to her house. First real experience of kissing/sucking breasts and my first ever BJ. Had a fumble with her at my Dad's 50th birthday party too in my parents bedroom. Just making out, mutual masturbation.

  • Many times. It's an extension of friendliness

  • friends with benefits for about a year, fucked, sucked him off etc. Still friends and have never talked about it since

    • Why did you end the friends with benefits with him?

    • Bc I got into a relationship

  • She was my roommate when I was 21.

    She would wear these little shorts at night that went right up her ass. One time we were just hanging out in her room and kinda play wrestling a bit. I was getting hard and she reached up the leg of my boxers and grabbed my dick. I was a bit surprised and I kind of tried to get her to let go, but she wouldn't. She ended up sucking my dick and then we just progressed to having sex another day, then eventually we became a couple.

  • Having boundaries is the sign of a healthy functional adult.

  • So many guy friends, So many ex-guy friends :(

    Not a great idea ever! Younger when I was drinking a lot so it was my mistake and they were usually in love already. One night for me but they always expect more 😔

  • Growing up my best friend and I were more like brothers masturbated together daily

  • Got her pregnant.

  • Never happened to me

  • It was cool and fun. I did most of it and she just sat back and enjoyed it.

  • Yeah, had sex.

  • I have kissed a female friend before.

  • It felt a little awkward with a female friend/coworker and we decided to stop after a bit of fooling around and touching each other.

  • Mhmm I have.

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