Have you ever given your partner a sexual favor as a birthday or Christmas gift?

[OlderAndWiser]

Guys, wouldn't you like to find her under your Christmas tree?

You may feel that giving or agreeing to perform a sexual act as a gift for your partner cheapens your sexual relationship. Or maybe to think that giving a sexual act as a gift is a wonderful expression of love. Maybe there is something that he or she wants you to do and you have refused until now - she wants to watch you masturbate, he wants to cum in your mouth, she wants to blindfold you and tie you to the bed, he wants anal sex - and up until now, you have refused.

After months of sexual intimacy, you are feeling closer, probably have more trust in him or her, and maybe you want to do something that shows how much you want to please your partner. Would you agree to doing some specific sexual act as a gift? Have you done that in the past? If so, do you feel that it was appreciated and made your relationship stronger? Or maybe you have some special feelings for your friend with benefits and you will finally agree to something that has previously been off limits, like unprotected sex (assuming that you are monogamous, know that each other is free of STD's, and some form of birth control is in place.) Is it appropriate to give sex as a gift within a relationship?

[Anon_af]

I vote C, D, F and G

[Nachowedgie]

Yeah I gave my ex girlfriend her first orgasm for her 15th birthday

[Grandpapillon]

Er dude, that's statutory rape!!! She's under age!!

[Nachowedgie]

That was over two years ago I was also underage at the time, your point is?

[jiianglui]

Recently my boyfriend has given me a Hismith Love Sex Machine from Hismith. co. uk

[Anonymous]

Never!

[Anonymous]

I was given oral sex on my birthday once

[Anonymous]

No one likes me so I've never had a sexual relationship

[Anonymous]

im jewish

[OlderAndWiser]

Sex as a Channukah gift?

[Opinion Owner]

uh, maybe