Girls, have you ever had a guy unexpectedly cum in you without your permission?

[brianna12303]

What was your reaction? Do you think he came in you on purpose? Did you start making him wear condoms after that? How long was it before you started trusting him again?

[Anonymous]

Yes but it was mostly when I was young and not on birth control yet. Guys would of course promise to pull out. Most of the time they did, but a few times they either didn't, or it was obvious they were already cumming when they clumsily pulled out late. It's a long wait for your period in those instances. It doesn't do much good to get angry. The damage is already done. Plan B and waiting it out is all you can do. I don't know how I got through those years unscathed.

[brianna12303]

Would you make them use condoms after that?

[maceygirl]

Yeah that happened to me way back when I first got on birth control. I was trying to be extra safe by making him pull out but he didn't. I didn't get really pissed but I asked him why he did that. I made him wear condoms for a while, but I didn't like how it felt, so eventually we went without a condom again.

[brianna12303]

Do you think he did it on purpose?

[maceygirl]

Yeah, I think he did it on purpose, because for him, it felt better to cum in me

[Cmasterson]

YES and it was when I didn't take my birth control pill, he did it as a sick way to get back at me for punching him I think. Anyway- I was really pissed and I freaked out. After that he didn't cum inside of me

[hiskitty]

No. Even on birth control, if I didn’t want a guy cumming in me I would insist on a condom. If I let him inside me bare, then I was wanting him to cum in me. With my current boyfriend we never use condoms and he always does it inside me.

[bombamboum]

It never happened. I never tell my boyfriend not to cum inside of me. I like it that way. We both got tested, I trust him and I'm on birth control.
It didn't matter with my past partners because I would always use condoms.
I never needed the pull out method because I was always on birth control and in a relationship or using condoms.

[linds34]

No, it's always been ok with me if my partners came in me.

[EyeAmNiceGirl]

The answer is no. But it's because I fully expect a guy to cum if he is having sex with me. I mean, that's what happens when a guy has sex with a girl -- he is going to cum. If he's wearing a condom, the cum is caught by the condom and doesn't end up swimming around inside me. But, if he's not wearing a condom, I full-well expect that he's going to cum inside me. So, if you have sex with a guy and don't make him wear a condom, the you should EXPECT that he is going to cum inside you. That's what guys do.

[KimmyB]

Only one time when I *specifically* told the guy not to cum in me, and he still did. I was more shocked than angry... and we never did it again.. :o/

[Miss_Behave]

No. The only guy who has ever cum inside me is my current guy and he'll always ask me if it's ok before doing it. Or we'll talk about it before our sexy time and Ill let him know he can cum inside me when we do it.

[brianna12303]

How long has he been cumming inside you sometimes? He still asks everytime?

[Miss_Behave]

He's only cum inside me about 3 or 4 times. He asks me sometimes (not often, and also depending on my period cycle) but most of the time, I'll tell him in advance if it's ok to or not.

[Miss_Behave]

Come to think of it, we've used condoms only once. He usually pulls out and even then, he'd pull put and cum outside and then penetrate again. And he likes to do this thing where he'd penetrate and then stay inside me for awhile (and cuddle after sex) until he gets limp and falls out. So i make sure I'm very on the ball with my pills and such!

[brianna12303]

If you let him back in while he is still oozing cum, why don't you just always let him cum in you?

[Miss_Behave]

Lol... I guess you got a point there. I don't know... Never thought about it that way.

[Shibbi]

no not really. if I let him go without rubber then he can also cum inside. I had one condom break but that was during anal sex and he used it only for that, for vaginal sex we did without. so it didn't really matter

[Miau97]

If he's doing it without a condom I don't really care, though some of them didn't ask and did it anyway.

[kathylogan85]

Yes! And I made him wear a condom as punisment. LoL. I only have sex without a condomto guys I dated for a while and trust.

[brianna12303]

How long did you make him use condoms as a punishment?

[kathylogan85]

Like for 10 fucks