Have you ever had a one night stand?

If so, how did it make you feel? Was it originally intended to be a one time only thing?

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  • I never did but I had some that could have been ONS. I even surprised the girls when I wanted to go on dates after. I was into clubbing and drinking a lot in my early 20s so sometimes I got drunk, danced with girl, kissed, got a bit too frisky, and one thing lead to another and we'd end up back at my place.

    I really wasn't interested in ONS though. I thought after all that we shared that we should at least try the whole dating and boyfriend/girlfriend thing out. It never made sense to me to part ways after that. I mean, at the very least if the sex was very good, why not at least have a go at it a few more times?

    • Also I think I just can't grasp the concept of casual sex. I invest a lot of emotions into every sexual encounter. It's always, on some level (even when drunk) a very emotional and intimate thing to me and never casual. So I think I'm totally incapable of being happy with an ONS even though I had multiple cases where I could have parted ways after.

    • There's also a lot of adjustment to me to get used to a new woman, like the way she kisses, smells, the way her body feels, everything. It's not actually all that exciting to be with a brand new girl. It's like an adjustment. I suppose for some guys it's not like an adjustment and you can just have fun with any new girl, but for me it was always a big adjustment so that's another reason I never saw the point of parting ways after I made this huge adjustment to have sex only one time.

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  • Oh, dear friend, you caught me off guard with that one! You see, I lead a life of a thousand odors, mingling with all sorts of characters and scents. And, just like anybody else, I have had my fair share of, shall we say, 'intimate encounters.' You see, sometimes after a long day of discussing and being surrounded by decaying flesh, I find solace in the company of a stinky sock or a waft of decomposing vegetation. And let me tell you, these affairs are nothing short of passionate and, well, fish markety.

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  • I almost did but I stopped him and told him no. He was really mad at me and even slapped my hand away. We laid there for about 10 minutes in silence then he got up and drove me home. We ended up dating for a year after that lol.

    • Did you wind up staying together?

    • Nah, we only were together for a year.

  • Yes.
    They’re exactly what they say they are. One night.

    • I know. What I was asking in addition to the primary question is was there ever a case when you intended to stay with someone longer after the first encounter, but it just didn't work out, so that first encounter BECAME a one night stand.

    • I don’t know about anyone else, but I am clear from the get go that’s it’s a one off. It’s like a business deal. However, If I met someone, and we had that special connection where I want to get to know them properly with a view to dating etc, I would never be intimate on the first date. Likewise, if one thing did lead to another on a first date, and a one night stand occurred, I would never see them again. I don’t date anyone who I’ve slept with on the first date/meet. If I liked that that much it wouldn’t have happened.

    • We should go out sometime.

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  • Once - but never again.

    not my cup of tea at all - I regretted it for quite a while, in fact I still do if I think about it.

    • Why?

    • I just really didn’t enjoy it. I found that without actually being in a relationship that’s not for me. Lack of emotions… heck even leaving next morning was odd - And i think the guy I was with and me just weren’t compatible that way either. Might have been different with someone else, but I never tried again outside of relationships

  • Yes, and it made me feel great in the moment and obviously once after. Sometimes, the one night stands, wasn't intended when the conversation begun but as the evening and night progressed it turned out that way.

  • Three, when I was younger. The last one was about 40 years ago. My attitude about sex then was different than it is now. I rationalized that I got what I wanted and she got what she wanted, so there was no harm done.

  • That never remotely interested me.

  • I've had several that were intended as ONS but I think all of them converted into at least a 2 or 3 night stand. Maybe there was one in there somewhere... but not coming to mind at the moment.

  • Many many times, but that's neither here nor there

    • Sounds like a lot of fun

  • Never

  • 200 plus women in my life, I imagine at least 25% were one night stands. Back in the day it was fun, wild times... But I over did it.

  • never

    would never

    • Why not? It's not a criticism. Just curious to know.

    • against my morals

    • Are your morals the product of your faith or personal ethics? Again, not meant to be critical. Just nosy.

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  • Many times over the years, some instigated by me, other times by her.
    It was fine.
    Quite often the sex was great, and we both moved on.
    A few times it actually lead to something.

  • Yes I've few and It works well.

  • a few

  • Sure! My one nightstand is pretty useful for my lamp. I was thinking of getting another one.


    Oh, wait. Wrong nightstand 😂😂😂🤣

    • You dork lol

    • @peridot25 Hey wait! I think you are on to something there ! I need the night stand lamp. The one I have is cheap.

  • Yes multiple times and most of time we both know it just a one time thing. We make sure we both know it’s just sex and that’s it. I don’t really regret it or feel bad about we just need some fun and relieve some stress.

  • Well. I almost did. And at the time it felt like a whole mess of trouble was starting along with a devilish (for lack of a better word) desire for WILD abandon and freedom. But fortunately, I did NOT. Thank God.

  • Ngl. I’ve only had one night stands… I kinda just want something real. The first one I got with we actually did it three times. But she had a boyfriend at the time and even though she talked hella shit about her boyfriend but stayed with him. Then she later regretted it big time. Let’s just say I learned my lesson. Then the second one that I thought about trying to date didn’t work out, kinda just felt like we ruined the friendship. But for all the others it was just a one night stand.👎🏻

  • Yes. Several

  • Nah doesn't feel right to get intimate with someone and never talk to them again

  • Yes quite a few and I enjoyed them. Almost all of them we both knew it was a one nighter.

  • hahaha Answered this one like three times from others. yes, a school mate one time who may have been with someone else when we graduated.

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