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Have you ever had a surprise attraction that you couldn’t makes sense of🤔?

I once found a 92 year old guy attractive. Dude was smooth operator, Poppa got mad game 😂😂😂

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  • Yes , when I get that surprise attraction for a girl my instincts are to try to get her to want me like I want her , so I become a smooth operator the best I can lol without coming off as a creep but I will flirt with her on a level that is basically saying baby I am yours if you want me , even though I wouldn’t mind just ripping her clothes off and having my way with her , but I am not a rapist land I can’t just bang a girl for the hell of it , but my instincts are to try to get her to see me like I see her , get her to want me like I want her , when I feel those butterfly tinglies through my body and I feel like she just makes me melt little does she realize she has me if she wants me , sadly that’s an instinct we possess as humans when we are completely drawn to someone , controlling those instincts can be very hard because it’s something I don’t really experience a lot of , so when I do feel that way about a girl I feel her and I would be an amazing together , and that I would treat her the way I want to be treated , so my instincts is to go for it , In my younger years if I felt that way about a girl I didn’t really care what her relationship status was, even though I knew it was fucked up to do , because I wouldn’t want a guy doing that to me if I was in a relationship with a girl , but sadly this sort of thing happens, so learning how to control it is what matters most , the only way I learned was by experiencing it , meaning I did it then realizing how much of an asshole I was for doing it , Most people don’t know how to control it , they just go for it , it’s a selfish trait that we have in us , why I feel a lot of cheating and affairs occur from this instinct when we come across someone that makes us melt. It’s like you feel like you are meant to be with that person and nothing else matters. But it’s a life lesson because the reality of it does matter , I lost a good friend because I was selfish and totally attracted to his girlfriend , and she was totally attracted to me, her and I had so much in common that it was hard for me not to want her , the same way she felt about me , so one thing lead to another and her and I ended up having amazing sex , we didn’t care what others thought because we were so into each other but we eventually realized it was so wrong to do so i confessed to my friend that her and I hooked up and that we wanted to be together , he was devastated and I felt like such a selfish asshole to the point I ended it with her since I knew it was so wrong on what we did , That experience taught me to never go for a friends girlfriend , there are plenty of fish in the sea, Go find your own , the fucked up thing is , is that girl going to do that for me when she Comes cross a guy that makes her melt?

Most Helpful Guy

  • Game is a practice that is taught and learned.
    Meaning attraction abides by certain laws.
    Some within a person's control some outside of it.

    But the end result is the sum of it.

    So the guy being 92 did not attract you through his youth and vigor but his personality and what he adds to the world made up for it.

    He challenged your frame. And made you laugh. Triggered emotions that release dopamine.

    "Being yourself" and "being nice" never work for the simple reason that most people are nice but they bring no emotional benefits to the people they touch.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes. He wasn't even close to being my type.

    • Did you figure it out?

    • Why I was attracted to him? Honestly he was just a nice guy.

    • That’s how I form attraction 👍🏼 but just being nice isn’t enough… there needs to be some other ingredient 🤔

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I'm head over heels with a midget right now. She's curvy af but probably a jailbait.

    • I love me some gnomes!

  • Yes, an older woman who was 15 years older than me, she was 49 and I was 34. I never revealed that to anyone that I think she is stunning, as she is married, but I still think she is smoking hot to this day.

  • I don't think so, no

    it always made sense to me and it was also clear as to why... lol

  • Was the mans name Hugh Hefner If so that is a complete normal phenomena most women get soaked in his mere presence it still said today women go to his grave and they get weak at the knees

    • 😂😂 Hugh is to obvious for me… I like the type of game that you know is happening but others wouldn’t recognise it even if they were standing right beside you

  • I met a girl who was the polar opposite of all the other girls I ever went out with. We really did not have much in common but I had a real attraction to her. I don't know why.

  • When I was younger. Now I'm very cognizant of women and thier tricks🤣 typically it's not really attraction.

  • Not that I speak of, my darlin'.

  • A lot of girls that are interested in me seem to be 15-19yo and I DO NOT understand why!

    I am just some guy going to work, but some of the attempted pick up's and such definitely surprise me. It's been happening for years too! Who knows

    • Girls are attracted to older men. It's very common! I had a friend who was in Japan and he done 16 year olds, it's apparently common and its fine if its legal and consensual which it is in Japan. Strange, haha!

  • Yes. I've very attracted to older women.

  • Actually I saw a girl on a penfriend site. Well a woman not a girl. I see her photos and I automatically want to say something nice to her. People keep bothering her about her lack of message response but I feel she is just an angel 😇. I hope when I go to heaven I have her around me too. At least as someone whom I can see 🙈.

    Please don't be mean to her. I am not simping. I just want her to be happy. And no she doesn't show her skin if that's what everyone else is thinking

  • I like the friendly senior ladies that get feisty in a fun way.

    • I actually went out clubbing recently… and the 60 year old chick I was with had a pretty strong follow of young dudes

  • Yeah lol she was 16

    • Surely lots of 16 year olds are attractive though🤔 I mean just between you and I we be probably found the odd 16 year old dude attractive. Rare because I’m attracted more to a vibe than a look but the odd youngin has game enough for me to notice them on a different level.

    • Yeah lol I got loads of game but no bitches

    • Anyways I didn't even know she was 16 at the time (it's still not illegal in my country aswell)

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  • haven't we all

    • You accidentally have a sex dream bout your Aunty? … I hate it when that bay! 😂

    • * happens

    • not if she is sexy and is an aunt in-law 😝😜

  • Geriatric game at the level of Boss lol. But was he able to raise the flag?

  • Absolutely

    • Thanks for like!

  • Yeah it’s happened. Older women. Teachers. My old doctor I really had the hots for.

  • Yes I did it was strange it was my friends mom I was 19

  • ya there’s just something about this older woman with a new zealand accent 😋😂

    • Yeah… that’s an odd flex

  • Wow 😳🥺

    Smooth operator as in?

    • He had twinkle eyes and he smelt great and he spoke in a lively way that demanded my attention and was sophisticatedly risky.

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