Have you ever had sex on the first date?

Have you ever had sex on the first date?
If you are against sleeping with someone on the first date, let us know why below!
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I would if given the opportunity
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  • I've done it more than a few times. Connected over the internet, talked then got together.

  • What... you're not supposed to have sex on a first date? I thought the date was about accessing if we want to phuck or not...

  • No definitely not

  • No way.
    Even if I was strongly attracted to him and there was a connection, I would make him wait.
    I want him to respect me and not think of me as "cheap"
    Plus, if a guy waits patiently, that means he likes you for who you are.

    • Number of dates til a girl sleeps with me makes absolutely zero difference to how much I respect her.

    • Will you wait till marriage?

    • I always thought this too. I recently had a one night stand with a guy I was head over heels in love with. We didn't speak for months until recently we started talking again to hangout. Turns out he was embarrassed about not lasting long lol. I think it's just a myth. I mean some guys think a female is a whore after sex on the first date but it's okay for them to do it? If you want it get on it! We need sex too and shouldn't be judged for it.

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  • I mean it technically wasn't a date but I did sleep with someone after just meeting them. It was more of a friend with benefits type of thing though.

  • Usually sex on a first date sets the tone for the rest of the "relationship". For me, sex on the first date automatically denies any potential future with the girl and becomes a fuck buddy or one night stand, nothing more. When looking for a relationship sex is something to work towards, and sex on day 1 says a lot about her. If it was someone else, the she probably would have slept with him. And this is also something she probably does often which is a huge turn off when looking for a girlfriend (or more).

  • I did just the once, I didn't regret it but I didn't do it again.

    • So gives us some advice what does a guy need to say to get action on the first date?

    • @milantb1 no way m8 you can work that out for yourself.

    • Thats gonna cost a lot of money for all those dinners. Cheaper to just buy a hooker. Hookers have been banged less times than todays women anyway

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  • Gave him a bj. Regret it. I was drunk.

    • Why do you regret it?

    • The simple reason is that I could have caught something from him. I didn't, but I could have. He was a complete stranger. (It was also dumb to bring him back to my apartment at all. Again, he was a complete stranger. I met him online.) The bigger reason is more complicated, and I'm likely to be misinterpreted if I try to explain. I did it, but even as I did it, I didn't want to. It showed me that I had some real self esteem issues.

    • Where did you meet him? When was this? Were you young?

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  • The answer is a big NO. First of all I am asexual and I find "sex" as totally disgusting and second I have never been on a date.

  • Never have done that, and never would, i only sleep with people i'm in exclusive relationships with.

    • Flowers for the ladies, and dick for the hoes

    • @dothejohnwall97 You got it, pal 😎

    • @Unit1 🤙🏽🤙🏽🤙🏽🙏🏽

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  • I have. We ended up dating for 2 years

  • I never had nor would i ever have sex on the first date and the reason is that i take sex seriously i would never do it with anyone whom i don't or who doesn't love me back

  • Never and never will. Not my cup of tea. I don't want to give someone the impression of me being very easy to get. It's emotionally not healthy too.

  • Yes I have, but it was with the guy I'm currently in a relationship with. We have known each other for like 8 years so we were pretty familiar with each other, we just took it to the next level on our first date.

  • About 10-15% of my dates have led to sex on day 1. And about 80% of those dates came off Tinder

  • Has happened before, yes.

  • Usually cause of chemistry or that I knew them prior to going on a date.

    • Nice

    • so you are saying it's happened more than once and no one is downvoting you but i got 8 downvotes? peculiar.

    • @COCOCHANEL I’ll get downvotes soon. I literally get them on every comment no matter what I say. And yeah more than once because I’ve dated friends.

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  • most of the time actually

  • Everyone I've been with from the age of 24 onwards have put out on the first date... despite saying they wouldn't.
    Think 99% of women are closet sluts.

  • I never have and never will.

    • Why?

    • @liTeWave It doesn't interest me.

    • Care to explain why? (To be honest I feel the same way, just trying to understand how you think about this :) )

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