Have you ever had sex with a friend? Did it change your relation with him/her?

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  • i have with a girlfriend... after we stopped having sex we said we'd be friends but never nearly close again... plus i gave her husband a blowjob for his birthday upon her request and that probably hurt her than she thought was going to do good... thing was she caught us in her upstairs room during a barbeque and i was blowing her husband... before it was in front of her which is much different i guess... she got mad at me and threw me out... we did talk on the phone a few times since but nothing deep and since she's had problems like having to have her leg removed so maybe she has deep problems.

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  • I almost did a few times.
    I stopped because I knew it would change the relationship.
    If we could have been friends with benefits's I wish now I would have jumped on it.
    Even if just to wink at them when I got to kiss each of them at their weddings.
    I've jerked off to all of them numerous times thinking about what would have happened.
    In the end I wasn't in a good place to be marrying them. It's what they all wanted.
    I would have disappointed them.
    My wife now was the only one strong enough to deal with my issues and get me help instead of just judging me.
    In the end I would have hurt them and ruined good friendships.

    • Cindy, Sarah and Steph. Went to all their weddings. They all gave me a disappointed smile before we hugged but at least on those occasions I had no guilt or regret for not having had sex with them.

  • Yes and we started dating, moved in together and got married. Been together for almost 30 years and still friends.

    If your friends first, you know what your getting into when you start dating. After all isn't your spouse supposed to be your best friend?

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  • Yes, he is still a best friend, since we where 12 we used to hang and talk at his house and sometimes we started drinking and he would fuck on the restroom then come out and keep chatting about the guy i like or him the firl he likes xD... it was just sex. But i never liked him as boyfriend material dont know why. I never felt inlove with him.

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  • Yes, not a huge amount with one friend, it was a random mutual one off.

    with another it made things awkward and we tried dating but did not work as we were friends more than lovers.

  • Yes, they moved into a new category of friendship

  • YOU ARE ____ONLY____ SUPPOSED TO HAVE SEX WITH A FRIEND.

  • Yes and Yes and it did not end well

  • Yes, in better.
    And it was a threesome, with another friend.

  • No. And if I ever do it will definitely change things between us

  • Yes I have and it didn't change our relationship at all. We have done it several times.

  • I have been with 2 of my female friends sexually. It hasn't changed our relationships with each other. We were experimenting and enjoyed it, but haven't done it again

  • Not all the way

  • Yes , and it was great in the beginning then it changed , we aren’t friends anymore

  • Never.

  • I spent the night in bed with a friend and we did everything except have sex. THe next day she asked me if I regretted what we did and I said no, we were just being there for each other like we always are. I sort of felt better after that.

  • No, but I would

  • Yes , it was s her. And it did change.
    Instead of just coming for tea. we had extras.

  • In order to get girlfriend status, a girl would first need to go from friend to best friend then to girlfriend, so anyone I ever have sex with would already be a friend.

  • Yes I did. It changed

  • Yes, with 4 friends so far. Nothing really changed.

  • I've had sex with i think 3 or 4, maybe 5 of my female friends. And all but 1 of them ended up having sex again after the first time or kinda became just friends with benefits.
    But honestly i was able to stay friends with all of them. Really just made us closer in a way.

  • Yes and yes

  • No, but I sure wanted too. If It had happened, I think it would have messed up our friendship.

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