Have you ever had someone of the same sex hit on you?

Question

I am not homophobic by the way, I support the LGBTQ movement. Getting hit on by the same sex, obviously can be uncomfortable.

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

Last time I went to Austin, Texas I went to the bars on 6th Street by myself. One of the first places I went was all college kids from UT. I’m flying solo, checking out the action, trying not to look weird and hoping to maybe make some friends for the evening to roll with, which I’d always done on previous visits.

A little short guy in his early 20s comes up while I’m trying to get a drink and we get to talking. I told him my name, and within a minute, he did this thing where he was kind of lightly tracing his finger along my upper thigh, and he goes “yo, you’re pretty cute, Steve.” I’m not a homophobe or anything, so I just played it cool, said thanks and that I was flattered, but I just “wasn’t wired for that.” I said “we can definitely be homies though, what are you drinking?” I really wanted to be cool about it, because I just was like “being a physically small gay black man in TEXAS, of all places, must be a rough go.”

I kind of fucked up while we were trying to get the bartender’s attention, because I was trying to be funny and affable, and I was like “HEY! Whose dick does HE have to suck for us to get some service?” And he was like “whoa, whoa, whoa…chill!”, and I learned that he wasn’t even out, so I felt wicked bad, not that anyone could hear us in the loud atmosphere, but I was just goofing around, I wasn’t trying to be disrespectful.

Anyway, we ended up kicking it for the rest of the night. I really wanted him to just settle into a wingman role, lmao, but he was pretty drunk, and he would just periodically take another run at me. He asked me if I ever hooked up with a guy before, I said no, and he just kept insisting that I couldn’t know for sure unless I tried. I’m like “with all due respect, brother…. I’m SO sure”, lmao. It got repetitive enough to where I started getting annoyed, but I tried not to show it, because I felt bad for him. He should be out doing his thing but he’s here in the closet trying to convince a straight guy from out of town to let him suck his dick, lmfao. I didn’t want to be the next guy to storm off or threaten him or hit him for simply shooting his shot. But at some point, you MISSED, stop shooting, bruh. I respected his courage though, he could have easily gotten the shit kicked out of him if I was a different type of dude.

I managed to stick it out til the end of the night, I was very kind, I bought him a Gyro from a vendor because I’ve been young and drunk but too broke to eat something afterwards before. Gotta get a slice of pizza or some street meat in you or it’s gonna be a rough morning, haha.

But this kid just kept trying to get me to let him blow me😂 I was just trying to run out the clock at that point. He kept going “but how could you know?” “Bro, you know how you just know you want to suck a dick? Same thing for me, just opposite”, lmao. Then he wanted to come back to my hotel to charge his phone a few minutes so he could catch an Uber. My hotel was right up the way, so I let him. And of course, he made one last play up in the room. I finally was like “buddy…. I’m all by myself halfway across the country from where I live. I could let you suck my dick right now and no one would ever know about it except you and me, and I could take it to my grave. There’s no outside pressure for me. If I had one iota of curiosity in me, now is the perfect time and situation for me. But I’m JUST. NOT. INTO IT. It’s nothing personal, other than that you’re a dude, and I’m not gay or bisexual.” He finally accepted that, and he went on his way.

And then he texted me the next weekend😂 He asked if I was going to the bars, and I’m like “bro, I’m from Boston, remember?”🤦‍♂️😂 Never heard from him after that, but I hope he finally came out and is living is best life out in the open🙏

MikeInHawaii · Accepted Answer

I’m 59 and can easily count the number of times that has happened in my life on my fingers. I even used to live in midtown Atlanta, the gay section.

Attractive young women probably get hit on more times in a day than I have been in my life.

I was in a Waffle House one night and the waitress, who was cute or average, but no raving beauty, was propositioned four times while I was in there.

At the risk of sounding like a bigot for pointing this out, she was propositioned by four out of four black men who came in.

_Maya_ · Accepted Answer

Yeah and I welcome it. I'm bi so that's the goal for me. With being in my current relationship with a girl I've dated two girls and two guys now. I date the person and not the gender. I would think for the straight women they might either find it uncomfortable or maybe flattering but not interested. I'm always careful about flirting with girls. I don't like to offend anyone that isn't interested. Hard to do sometimes but I just let patience prevail.

Paris13 · Answer

... And Unexpectedly Kiss me. UM.:((xxoo

PositiveFlight · Answer

Nope! And thank goodness! I don’t think I’d ever draw someone of the same sex to like me anyway, because I’m very much a masculine type. I’d let it be known very quickly that I’m into biological natural women only.

Billlewis · Answer

Only to ask me if I'd suck his dick.

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

I don't know.

NudeBella · Answer

Yes and most of the timeIm glad they did !

Wonderingguyy · Answer

Yes, twice… pretty uncomfortable lol

Meropatrick · Answer

They do it to bully or mess with me and not for sexual pleasure. Yes it happened but by Some assholes and bullies

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Sometimes but noy always. 💞💞

Brady · Answer

A few times. One was an asshole who used 2 work at my job. He would also say "shut up, fuck u." 1ce he touched my private. I asked a lady if she saw n she said no. I wish she saw so I could get him fired. He quit long ago.