Have you ever had to fake interest in sex (not the same as faking an orgasm) when asked for it and you just weren't feeling it?

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  • I don't know about "had to"; I probably could have gotten away with "not tonight" on those occasions when I wasn't feeling it but took one for the team anyway, but I've always been the type to go for it anyway; I mean, it's what you'd want them to do if things were reversed, right?

    [Note that there's a difference between "I don't really feel like it" and "I really don't feel like it"; I'm referring to the former, not the latter]

    As an added bonus, sometimes getting down to it is enough to get the juices flowing; the connection between sex and arousal isn't just one-way.

  • I had to reread that like 4 times to understand it.

    Maybe kinda. Not in general but there were some specific things, I wasn't into, but I humored her because I wanted her to get off.

    Welcome back, by the way.

    You got hotter😂

    • Lmao thank you

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes I have before. I did however take action to make sure I never engage with the man again

  • Nope. If I'm not in the mood, it's not happening

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yes all wives do at some point.

  • I’m always in the mood. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I have a high libido. That being said, I don’t have kids who tire the crap out of me.

  • a few times but i never said no, despite not in mood. ever.

    • Do you eventually come around to enjoying it or do you just go through the motions pretty much?

  • Sometimes you take one for the team.

  • even if I am not in the mood I can get myself into it.

  • Yes, I do sometimes.

  • Nope... not even once. Makes me curious if my girlfriend has though. I'd like to think I could tell, but...

  • if you don’t consent to it, it’s r*pe

    • It's not that you aren't consenting, in this case you are consenting, but you just aren't into it.

  • no never

  • Lol no it’s all Been times I felt like I wanted it.

    howve u been!!! U have been gone for so long

    • Lol I needed a break but I'm back and a bit more active now.

    • That’s good how is ur family

    • Doing well! We just moved to a new house so that has been fun. How are you?

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  • never went forward without interest!

  • Yes at first (she was a bit older than me) but as things progressed. My attitude did a full change and it was awesome