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Have you ever had your nudes leaked or shown to others by a significant other?

Okay I understand this is a sensitive subject but I would really appreciate if people were honest and not judge others. Also DM are open for anyone not comfortable posting.

How many girls have have their nudes shown to others by a significant other? Did he have permission or not? How did it make you feel and did it end the relationship?

Guys who have done this. I won't judge at all but if you could explain why I would greatly appreciate it. Really want to understand the motivation. Once again I promise not to judge.

Also have any girls ever shown their boyfriend nudes I definitely think this happens more then is generally thought off.

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  • Not leaked, but shown. We went to a strip club with another couple. He said he was installing a pole for his wife to dance on. Then he said he might let some of his friends watch. Later he said he might try and figure out how to video it. So my boyfriend and him got talking about cameras, tripods and lighting. When the other guy went to get drinks, and his wife went to the restroom, my boyfriend asked me if they could come over and see our setup. Then he asked if he could show them a video. I agreed, because it wasn't like they could take it with them. Now they do the same thing.

    • Oh okay so u were okay with that. Did it change anything or bother you at all after the fact?

    • No, because all four of us were in the same boat. I'll use a swinger club for example. Your worst fear is someone will recognize you. But they have the same fear. So if it happens, it never happened. What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.

    • Makes a lot of sense. I may do something simular. Thank I for being so open and honest!

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  • not by anyone L really knew, but when I first had a computer, I thought that everyone was honest, so I sent some through email to a few, then one day, I sent a nude of me doing something and the next thing back came a reply, why did I send these from a porn site, I couldn't believe it

Most Helpful Guys

  • I have had nudes “leaked” to me.

    I hate that term, though. It’s not like there was a secret that the press were able to reveal for the public good. A betrayal of trust has occurred. It’s much more serious than a “leak.”

    And it is more common than I would like to think. Guys brag and show off, and they do it with girls’ most private images.

  • No.

    I have no "nudes".

    You say that as if having "nudes" is just a given thing.

    When did people having a library of naked pictures of themselves stored up become the "normal" thing.

    Anyway, if you take a picture and send it to someone... you can pretty much count on it ending up on the internet one day.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Anyone who does this sort of thing when they’ve been entrusted with something so private is a very horrible person. There are legal ramifications if it can be proven who leaked such content. Slander and libel come to mind.

    • I mean a decent amount have admitted to giving permission...

    • And I agree doing it without permission is wrong but everyone makes mistakes and I would really like to understand the people who have. So if ur only commenting to slander people please don't

    • I’m not slandering anyone. I’m stating a basic fact and common courtesy that it’s wrong to share someone else’s private stuff. It’s wrong! I’ve seen it destroy people’s lives. People make mistakes but they still should be accountable or make restitution. At the very least remove the shared content. Otherwise the real slander is on them!

  • Thats why i wouldn't send one because i expect him to show someone. Girls do it too

  • Hubby has permission to show them, but not to share them if that makes sense. He can't give them copies, or post them anywhere, but he can pull out his phone or show them the album if he trusts them. Anything else he would need permission for. To my knowledge, he has not betrayed that.

    • Can I ask what made you give him that permission? I'm thinking of doing something simular so no judgment

    • I've been called a "free spirit" most of my life. Grew up in the country, only girl in the house, and a daddy that worked himself ragged to feed us all. Skinnydipping in the pond, pool, or sprinkler was common, and being willing to do so was a sure way to get your brother's friends to convince them to let you tag along. Fast forward to grown up me. Skinny dipping still on occasion. The "discussion" about it came after we had some boudoir photos done by a friend. He was looking to expand his studio to do more and wanted to try some things to get a feel for it. Free pics for us, he gets the experience, and we even let him use a couple in his studio to promote it. Queue up next party at our house, my girl friends wanted to see the album, which led to the guys bantering about how that wasn't fair... blah blah blah... haha. Fiancé at the time told them he was fine with it, but it was up to me. Free spirit me "with a little liquid encouragement" said go ahead. Talked more about it later, told him if he liked it, he could show pics he had with people he trusted, but no copies, no phone pics sent, etc... They had to stay in our control.

    • Okay thank you for such a detailed explanation I really appreciate it !

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  • Thankfully I've never had that happen

  • No, but accidentally stumbled on other people's nudes. They were paper photographies.

  • I have had that happen to me. Positive and negative things came out of that. I can tell you in DMs if you want details

    Also had someone show me their SOs nudes and I got mad at him

    • Sure more then welcome to dm the more details the better

  • Not that I know of and never share pics.

  • Yeah by my ex boyfriend
    N then my brother... he had n still has my naked pic as his wallpaper both on his phone n his laptop

    • The brother sounds especially traumatizing I'm sorry. Did the leaks or sharing affect u in any major way?

    • Well it did so much tht i stopped sharing my nudes with anyone... but it was like 9 years ago almost plus he was really a jerk anyways... we were together only for few months

    • Brother says he shows it off in appreciative way n never meant wrong

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  • I've had many nudes released but I don't know why or bay whom. I always try to keep my cock out of sny phooto with my face

  • I don't receive or share nudes from anyone or to anyone. Never have, never will.

  • Yes, and they are still online. Luckily, they are on a blog that hasn't been active for years, but they are still there.

  • If I got nudes of a girl on my phone I usually look at it for awhile then delete it. I would never show a nude of a girl I care for.

  • I kinda happened this to me once. She asked me to take some pictures. My face wasn't in the pictures but my cock was in the pictures. She posted them on a bdsm dating site. Would have been nice to ask first. I would never ask a girl for nudes because I know in the back of her head, she would worry about them being leaked. The girls that have offered me nudes, I have never shared them.

  • We don’t leak it but show ourself

    • You and your man both show them?

    • Yup to friends or so

    • Okay very Interesting I appreciate how open u are

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  • It’s called revenge porn and is illegal in most states

  • Maybe.

  • I've had my nudes shown to girls and guys. Definitely wasn't the most comfortable situation in the world. I've never shown any nudes and I delete them after the relationship is over if I have any, so I can't comment on that.

  • no that's a fucked up thing to do. i wouldn't ever do that to her. it would violate trust. and only childish boys do that shit

  • I Give Full Permission For Anyone Who Wants To Post My Nudes Online Or Share With Anyone. All My Nudes Are Head To Toes, Completely Naked, No Censorship, No Hiding Identity. I Have Had 2 Professional Photoshoots Done, Hundreds Of Amateur Shoot. A Few Friends And 1 Co-Worker Have Found Me Online. However, The Very First Friend Who Found Me, Who Is Female, Was Searching Amateur Nudes And Found Me, She Became Offended And Called Me And Asked To See Me In Person… She Was Very Concerned, Had Something To 5”Tell Me, And Without Hesitation Immediately Told Me What She Found, Hundreds Of Photos Of Me Naked On Dozens Probably Hundreds Of Amateur Websites. She Demanded I Have Them All Removed Or She Will Tell All Our Friends, My Family And Employer… I Laughed And Said, That Will Not Happen, I Am A Consenting Adult, And If You Want To Tell Everyone, Go Ahead, I Don’t Care. The Pictures Stay, She Was So Pissed She Left And I Never Heard From Her Again…

    • You’ve written your whole post as if it were a title?

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