Have you ever invited your partner to watch you masturbate?

[Anonymous]

For many, it's taboo and forbidden. A good boy or a good girl shouldn't do such things! It's naughty. But it's also fun and may be very educational for your partner. Is there something they are missing when they finger you or give you a handjob? You're the expert on the subject of what gets you aroused so show them how it's done.

Ever tried it?

[razelove]

So I had one partner who was a virgin, and several others who were just, well, terrible in bed. A picture is worth a thousand words, so I guess showing a girl how you want your pork pulled is like war and peace.

On their end, they were terrible in bed because no one had made any effort with them past mounting, humping and leaving, so I had to have them do the same to not only show me what they liked, but to figure that out in the first place. Also it breaks up a lot of tension. Many men and women are ashamed of their bodies like that's something normal. Hiding under blankets, wanting lights out, such a turn off unless you have a friend waiting in there as a surprise.

Anyway, I don't think it has anything to do with taboo, but everything to do with self-esteem.

[Anonymous]

I play with myself while laying in bed waiting on my wife to finish in the bathroom before coming to bed. Sometimes the doors are partially opened to the bathroom and I can see her there sometimes just watching me and sometimes feeling her pussy. I'll continue my self-enjoyment and fap fap out a full 10 minute masturbation while she casually watches.

Other times when she is working my meat in a fast and furious pace, and I'm just not "FEELING the Moment"; I'll move my hands down meeting hers, and slowly work my hand in onto my shaft and I'll take over the action... as she again watches; and I masturbate myself for her

[IronLady6354]

No. Why masturbate when we can have sex?
The closest we've come to is giving each other hand jobs, but that's me masturbating him or him masturbating me.

[JackSmy]

@ironlady6354 She can show him what she likes, specifically, and where. Or, do you just want him to fuck about, and say "my last girlfriend liked this"? Especially, if you want him to go down on you.

[Anonymous]

Not just asked him outright but I have started doing it for him and he watches.

[Red_Arrow]

Nice. Lucky guy!

[The_Maphio]

I'd rather do it mutually. But watching her stand there while I jack off... Nah. I'm teh only one having fun.

[wankiam]

i have in all my past relationships... i like it to form part of foreplay

[The-Senko-San]

A few friends but not my partner

[Syrian_survivor]

I've invited my partner to play some Jenga before does that count

[Guardian45]

My girlfriend and I do it regularly for each other if we can't be together.

[JamieLoves]

No... but my X wife and some girlfriends asked me to do it in front of them. They liked me watching them too..

[Justaguy30]

It's more fun to have both parties doing the same thing

[Asker]

Agree, but watching your female partner get herself of can be quite educational, since every single one of them is different, and none of them come supplied with an operator's manual!

[Justaguy30]

Very wise words

[Harleyguy]

I have done that in the best with a girlfriend. Also had a friend watch. But that’s a different storey.

[Extreamgold]

B but I think it’s more of a fantasy for me I’m to shy to ask

[Asker]

Then don' ask; just do it!

[Anonymous]

Yeah it's one I've also done it in front of some of my female friends

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend masturbates as part of our regular foreplay. It's something we both enjoy a lot. I find it super hot to watch her pleasure herself and see the look on her face as she cums, and she likes me to finger or toy her ass while she does it.