Have you ever met or dated someone you thought were gonna have sex with to find out your not compatible sexually?

[Paulalove98]

I met this guy for the first time from online today we planned to possibly have sex, and things were going well at first we chatted and had nice conversations then made out and things slowly heated and i was going down on him although he wasn't teasing me much beside grabbing my ass, we went to the room and tried to continue but neither of us were feeling turned on anymore.. compared to the last guy i had sex with i didn't feel a spark with this guy. It wasn't even that he was ugly its just sexually i didn't feel into him.

[DaveJord]

Yup... but we still had sex. I dated a girl on third date we went on a weekend trip. So obviously sex was going to happen... we got to the hotel and we started in. She wasn't really heating up. I mean I have had a lot sexual successes... but this some was like a zero to me. I didn't orgasm and like there was nothing remarkable or memorable. She even apologized to me after saying she could of done better, and honestly even though I appreciated the apology... it didn't make me feel any better.

We did it a second time the next morning, but I was ot expecting much and I didn't get much out of it. I got off but it felt more like a jerk off session. I was definitely doing just for the sex.

It didn't work out between us, honestly it just happens like sometime. You think its their for you and when get going its just not. Nobody to blame for it, just no vibe. I mean she was attractive and all but she was lame as hell in bed. She wasn't giving me anything as far as passion to feed off of.

[Paulalove98]

Very true. To you she was lame, maybe to another guy she's perfect and connects with better. There is someone out there for you better im sure and someone out there for her who clicks on her level. I definitely felt something with the last guy i had sex with... i guess i just didn't see this guy sexually on that level.. he wasn't bad but he wasn't great but i was feeling dull and bored

[DaveJord]

Totally my next girlfriend who happens to my current girlfriend is real firecracker... she's not as good looking as the previous one, but don't get it twisted she's 10 times better for me all the way a round. She's my 10.

[Anonymous]

sort of was this girl i knew and though for sure we'd end up doing something like that but it just never happened. it was like she just wasn't ever feeling it with me or wasn't interested in me sexually but perhaps still liked me on some level? i don't know it was weird and she had even asked me to do drinks with her when at the bar a couple times early on when we were first getting to know each other

but we never ended up having sex or doing anything like that

[Paulalove98]

Thats how i felt toward him but it was the first time meeting so I don't know maybe we need time to be comfortable before sex or its too soon but i just wasn't feeling him sexually... I wasn't feeling in the mood and he wasn't getting hard after awhile anymore like he stopped, i stppped. he's the first guy I've had that experience with going dull.

[ArtemisSilver]

I've never actually gone to be alone with someone for the purpose of sex and have it fizzle out like that before no.

[Paulalove98]

Tbh this is the first guy i didn't feel the spark with.. the other 3 guys i did. But I don't know maybe we can build a connection if we give it time but if its meant to be ig it'll happen. can't force stuff tho.

[ArtemisSilver]

Did you do anything to build a connection. I find trading massages and even a drink helps

[Debbie14217]

wow yes!!

[TotallyAlmost]

Yes. I'm very well endowed and it has ended more than a few potential relationships.

[EaterPeter]

Yes.