Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Have you ever mutually masturbated with a friend?
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If you did was it the same sex or opposite sex? Did you look or watch them masturbate?
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Nope
Yes I watch my male friend hump him self. And it got me started fingering my self really hot moment.
How did this all start?
Could you see each other naked?
I dared him.
You liked his penis?
Yes we could see each other naked.
Yes he has a nice small penis.
How small?
When his penis soft it's two inches when hard it's four inches and it's even smaller when it's shribble up the genitals and penis.
Damn that's small
Yup and Love it.
I think my toddler is bigger lol
Nice.
Yeah
I have with female friends
Yes I have
How did it happen?
No but my future suite mate has.
nope
No, but I did with my cousin.
Is your cousin a boy or girl?
Girl. She's older than me and taught me what to do, but we were really young and we didn't get naked.
How did you do it without getting naked?
She told me to rub my pussy on the thin, circular sort of tube that holds the back of an office chair up, but she didn't tell me to get naked, and I don't think I would've listened if she did. Anyway, it's not hard. I still masturbate with my clothes on by rubbing my clit, because I can't be bothered to get naked.
Like full clothes or your panties? Did she masturbate too?
Full clothes; women can pretty easily masturbate over their clothes. Yes, she did. We had two of those office chairs in my room. Anyway, after she taught me that, I started doing it on my own and a bit differently...
Did you get turned on more in front of her or did you watch each other?
No, I really don't think I did (not that I can clearly remember), but we did look at each other sometimes, obviously.
Would you have been ok if she taught you and you not being naked? Like would you been weirded out having you both be naked in front of each other or looked as much
I'm not sure, but I probably wouldn't have been okay with that. I was okay with what we were doing because I didn't know what it was, and being naked would probably feel too violating.
Makes sense since you're family.
I do that sometimes with my boyfriend. It is a total turn on.
How did you guys do it?
I lay on my back while he is on his knees in front of me and we...'do it'
So he jerks between your legs?
well a little over me yes
Do you keep your eyes closed or do you look at his dick?
I look at him.
😊😊😊
Where does he cum if that's ok to ask
stomach or boobs
How are his cum loads? Bigger than during sex?
Yepp, same gender.. didn't look it was a sleep over and we were uncomfortable... it wasn't so much mutual as just at the same time in the sae room since neither of us cared to move and we were getting ready for bed and watching a rom com.
Were you under blankets or exposed naked to each other?
Neither one of us penetrate or have any nudity involved when masturbating. one of the big reasons neither of us saw it as a big deal at all-lol.
Lol just curious if girls compare vaginas lol
uncomfortable (like couldn't sleep) not uncomfortable with eachother... obviously or someone would have went into the bathroom and we would have just took turns in the room... but that just seemed silly since we were just doign the same thing.
No... I've seen all of my friends naked. Boobs girls will compare but vaginas, no. Not with any of my girlfriends anyway-lol.
How do you compare boobs? And when you see your friends naked have you guys looked at each other's vaginas at all? How did you guys start masturbating together?
Like I said I've seen all my friends naked... completely naked so I saw it but there really isn't much to see honestly... One of my girlfriends thought she had an STD once I saw hers once up close to see if a bump she was was a pimple or a std... it was an infected pimple. The boob thing it's usually who has the biggest highest ones. And it's like an awkward compliment thing-lol. I've had my friends touch my boobs too since I was the first one to get big wants and everyone wanted to know what it felt like-lol.
Was everyone naked when they felt your boobs or how did that come about? Lol Of course there's something to look at with vaginas. If naked with other guy friends I look not in a sexual way but just look how everyone is.
Well I've seen all my friends naked and if they aren't spread eagle there really isn't much to see-lol. At slumber parties when I was a kid we always ended up naked. I was dared to streak and I did then someone asked and then everyone ended up feeling them... when and after I breastfed I had friends feel them... just not a big deal-lol.
No I was naked once and topless the rest of the times that's happened.
Ended up naked as a kid? Like how old before puberty? I mean when there's no hair there's a lot more to see obviously. And yes I'm guessing you haven't seen your friends spread eagle. After breastfed feel them naked or with your bra on. Would have been awkward I imagine if milk came out lol. I have a kid so I know about that stuff lol
Do most of your friends shave? Or you?
Sorry if too many questions lol.
Most of my friends shave regularly (well most shave a lot less after marriage and kids but did shave normally startingat about 12-13 until about 25-27), I don't shave that area at all. And like I said even without hair in my opinion there is really nothing to see... They felt it while I had my shirt pulled down... no bigs. And yes my friends all saw each other both before puberty and after.. the sleepovers started in 3rd grade and went on until 8th grade. And yeah before puberty I saw them naked but never thought of it and honestly can't remember but in my opinion there just really isn't anything to see there -lol. I saw one friend spread eagle like I said while trying to figure out what the bump was ( it wasn't an std, it was an infected pimple) but she was worried and didn't want to tell ehr parents if it wasn't anythign serious (it wasn't)-lol.
Before puberty when you guys were naked did you guys masturbate or why did you get naked when you were kids?
For the same reason we mostly did later.. we were either getting dressed together or playing dare...
Ohhh I thought you guys stayed naked together for a while lol.
No... I mean getting dressed can take awhile with everyone trying to figure out what to wear and waxing and stuff now but when we were kids it was usually pretty quick and when we camped we usually took showers 2 by 2 and all got dressed really quick because people didn't want to miss anything-lol. And truth and dare (esp. when young) you usually did the dare real quick so you didn't get caught by adults-lol.
What were the dares?
totally depended on the age and I had sleepovers every weekend and there were 12 of us so I can't remember most of them... it all seems so lame now -lol.
but my friends were always super open... help I have even helped wax some of my friends lady bits... none of it is a big deal it's a body really who cares someone beign naked doesn't make me feel any which way.
Well I guess I was trying to figure out why all 12 of you were getting naked as kids lol when I was a kid before puberty we would show each other our penises on dares lol.
I don't know what level you are cuz you're anonymous but can you PM me mostly cuz you're a mom and I'm a single dad.
If you can't i understand.
I guess that ended the conversation. Sorry about that.
I'm a 9 but I don't pm people on here. I am a mom... I have 2 boys.
Yea I have boys too which would help if you could PM me but I understand you don't. I'd ask you here but it's kind of a personal question and not sure you'd answer here. My boys are 5 and 3.
But you can respond to my other things if you want lol. Sorry hard finding other moms to talk to being a single dad.
Mine are 11 and almost 7. Since you mentioned being single I should mention that I am married.
Yes well I'm not trying to hit on you. I assumed you were based on your previous answers. The private messaging was about parental stuff not trying to hit on you plus that's dumb in a place like this.
I'm sure it's a no but what about email?
Just wanted to be clear -lol. My Husband grew up with all of us and knows hoe open we all are-lol. I wouldn't feel comfortable answering it here I wouldn't feel comfortable answering it in a pm or email either.
Ok no worries is it ok if we talk about what we originally were talking about?
**** if
sure...
Well if you really don't want to we don't have to lol
Oh I don't care-lol
Ok well when you girls were kids when did your dares before puberty turn into masturbating together? And you can't tell me before puberty you didn't notice your vaginas were different before you all got hair
No never masturbating.. it really was never sexual more just what will you do. And yeah never noticed anyone's vagina being different. Even after puberty when everyone shaved for years and I never noticed anything like I said... there really isn't much to see there in my opinion.
Another girl that I wasn't close with but was close with a friends of mine growing up... she had green nipples from a medication she was on... that was the first time I realized how sick she was... after my boobs came in all the way I stopped noticing other peoples though... like it didn't matter and it wasn't a big thing and I never felt a need to compare but I had friends that did.
Green nipples? Like how green? Lol like a crayon?
Like purpley green and she had hair around them... she was dying from a rare genetic blood disease (the one which had ended up killing her birth father... gettign diagnosed was how she even found out she had a birth father... she was in 1st grade), the sleepover was when we were in 5th or 6th grade.. I forget. She managed years later to get some kind of transplant at 16 that was a last ditch effort and ended up living a normal life and as far as I know getting better but ironically another girl from that sleep over (there were 4 of us) ended up dying at 16 from a medical problem they didn't catch in time (her lungs and heart were never developed all the way).
Omg I'm sorry I didn't mean to be disrespectful with the "lol" the green nipples threw me off I feel bad for saying that now. That's horrible.
Yeah surprisingly enough the nudity was kind of like letting guards down... after truth or dare everyone was generally more open and talked about things and their families and things no one could know pretty openly cause it was like you were all part of some club. It was quite bonding actually.
Well I can't compare in the same aspect but at the same ages you were and me and my friends were before puberty and we dared each other to show our penises to each other it did the same thing for us. This was way before puberty and one of our friends was uncircumcised and made us learn a lot
Before that sleepover I had heard my mom talking about her being sick but never knew much abotu it or how serious it was or thought abotu it. that night I learned how hard it was and how she lost all of her friends when she was diagnosed... they were all little and in a way they were scared of catching it or whatever, learned abotu the impact it had on her family, that she had in fact had a birth father (I thought her dad was in fact her dad) and so on. Once everyone saw her nipples and didn't poke fun and just excepted it and asked questions she was happy to answer. She left school after 8th and was home schooled for 2 years because of how sick she got. I visited her once in 9 and it was sooo weird... she had no hair and we had to wear masks and gloves and it had to be approved by her Dr before we went over and they asked for medical records... it was intense but our parents all understood.
Yeah it's eye opening and like I said we did that type of stuff before and after puberty... once we started sleeping over in large groups really.
Hey you are like having me in near tears right now. I'm not joking my eyes are watering up hard. I wish you weren't anonymous so we could be friends.
Yea not gonna lie I think it's totally normal and healthy to get naked in front of your friends before and after puberty.
I sometimes wonder though if because of that it makes me who I am today with how I feel about other guys penises.
Your experiences def. do play a major role with how you view the world now
Well can I tell you more about it even though getting off topic a little? I don't know who you are in reality but talking for the last hour or so I'm really comfortable telling you stuff.
absolutely.
Ok well since we shared penises how they look as kids and stuff I'm not attracted to other men but still curious about other guys penises to this day. I'm straight but it's made me want to have threesomes with girls so they can be with another guy and I can see his penis and her interact with it. But it would be my girlfriend and I'd only be comfortable with her giving him a handjob.
This is bad telling you this though.
Why? It's how you feel... no shame in that.
No im saying it's bad cuz it's giving me a boner. Whomp whomp
I think it's normal to be curious abotu things just the things we are curious abotu change oerson to person. As far as the 3 some thing goes you jsut have to find people who are open minded about that stuff I guess I am sure their are people out there.
Well the girl I'm dating said she would do it for me cuz it's something I'm curious about but I feel bad cuz I don't want to force her or have her do it just for my sake.
finding a guy who just wants a handy while another guy watches may be alittle harder though... have you started looking online or anything?
No this only just came up recently. Let me ask you this if this was your husbands fantasy would you give another guy a handy in front of him?
No, probably not but honestly I don't know.
I guess what I'm trying to ask is it unreasonable what I'm in into? Like I like her more than if that'd actually ever happen but I still would like it to happen.
I guess to some people it's reasonable and to others it's not... everyone has different tastes and comfort levels esp. when ti comes to sex stuff.
If she's fine with it then she probably finds it reasonable enough to some degree.
Ok well I really need to go to bed but I enjoy talking to you and would love to learn more about you and share things with you. I know we probably won't talk again because the only way is through this thread and you may not answer it again. But I do consider you a friend tonight and hope one day we talk again. I have more to say about the stuff we were talking about I just have to be up in order to meet for a new client for my company tomorrow.
I also need to hit the hay! Have a good one, goodluck with the client!
Thanks it will be a big deal for my board company. Is this goodbye though for real? Like if I message this thread tomorrow should I not expect an answer?
I don't mean for that to sound so dramatic lol just find it hard to relate to people and yea you're cool. Your husband and kids are lucky to have you.
Hello
I know I masturbated at the same time as a friend once while in the shower but never together to pleasure eachother
Were you guys in the same shower? Like could you see each other masturbating?
no-no lol she was in the main room and I was in the shower
She masturbated too though?
yeah
How do you know if you didn't see her privates or anything or see each other naked?
she told me lol we were very close
Have you ever seen her naked though?
yes I have
How?