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Sexual Health Have you ever paid for sex?
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2 64No not at all.
Taking her out to dinner and a movie. Does that count? Even McDonald's got me a bj a few times.
Have you?
I guess I did, but I call her my ex wife. Haha
yes , i am single and internet porn is not good enough for me , i need to bang real person
Nope
Yes... 2 times at a strip club the stripper asked me if I wanted to fuck. We went back to my place and it was unreal lol I
Was the sex enjoyable despite paying for it?
@moviedude714 Yes. First & foremost, I am a man who prioritizes loving relationships, and this was during a time when my ex-girlfriend and I had went our separate ways. Prior to this, we would have likely gotten engaged if I didn't begin working for her company.
Part 2: During this time, I became very depressed & this was a time where I wanted to abject misery to go away for a bit. Was it enjoyable? Yes, but I must explain why as it is not often the case for most men. When I am at my ideal weight/in shape most women find my very attractive. I also have been told I'm very funny and have a great personality and have a great job. I was actively dating during this time, but still single and I just needed an escape. Strippers yes put on an act, but they are human beings and have emotions. I've had sex with strippers where there was no $ involved also, so often they have a thing for me lol The times I paid was not empty as if you spend time and actually listen to them, you can have a really nice conversation; it's like a fake girlfriend experience. They treated me differently when I had gained weight and was not confident when I was much younger; thus, it is not a coincidence that they were enjoying there time before any sex, and it's obvious if you know how to read body language.
The 1st time was with this girl who began making out with me, and we had drinks at the bar and it was really fun; it's easy to tell when they are actually enjoying your company. During the lapdances she got super wet and began blowing me without asking or paying lol Then I asked if she would want to go to a hotel and fuck. I was looking for an escape and it was fun before that! Remember most women have an affinity for me anyway, they just happened to not be the typical classy women I like to date. We went to the hotel, and ordered in food & had drinks like a normal date it was not just paying and 5 minutes later you fuck; presumably that is how it is with weirdos or ugly people. If you establish a connection with them on a personal level it is pretty obvious, they get the best of both worlds and get paid while enjoying it. The 1st time the girl came on me and that you can't really fake. So was it enjoyable?: Yes!! If you treat them like it's a normal date and you're appealing to most other women, than it can be awesome. If I met this girl and 15 mins later we had sex it would've been empty. The same thing happened with the other girl. To reiterate, I have fucked strippers with no $ involved so the notion that it wasn't enjoyable for me or them is nonsense in my case. I'd recommend to try it but you have to treat it like a real date, and make sure you have a connection with whomever it is. If you don't start talking with another one in the club until you find someone who you have an emotional connection with. It's lazy for people to be so negative and use adhominem when they didn't experience it.
This occured after my breakup with a women that I thought I was going to marry, so the immature comments by others don't include any context. I was in a very depressed state, and it really helped me I'm completely serious. I wouldn't pay for it now, but back then I was willing to due to the deep depression.
How long ago was this ex-girlfriend of yours
Would you say it's been easy for you to get a girlfriend most of your life?
yes and it was worth it too...
Not feel weird doing it with a stranger for money?
not at all, it was her job. would you have sex with a stranger? with or without being paid?
No. But I’m only against trafficked prostitution. Which according to stats is majority. So more than likely your prost is being forced by a boyfriend or some person who brought her into the country.
No way ever
No, never have and never will
Nope... never have... never will.
Never will.
a bj when I was 17. $20 paid for itself 😇
Yes, when I was single and wasn't getting any. I see nothing wrong with it.
Never
Not directly no
I've never had the need to pay for sex... It wouldn't be as enjoyable
Yummers
Yes, a few prostitutes I had sex with. ALSO - every woman I've ever dated - they expect it.
Why do you ask?