Guys, Have you ever paid for sex?

[AviatorTom]

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Guys, have you ever paid for sex? Did you enjoy it?

If you haven't, would you pay for sex?

[Staximus]

Got a hooker about 15 years ago. I was in the biggest whorehouse in Tijuana with a couple friends. My friend said "pick a girl, I'll pay for it". I sat there for a while and watched the guys pick girls for about half an hour. Nobody picked this one girl who was hanging in the background from the rest and was dressed very conservatively compared to all the other hookers. I looked at her a few times and she eventually came over and sat next to me. She was absolutely beautiful, in her early 20's, brown skin and Aztec looking features. I bought her an orange juice or something like that and we talked for about a couple minutes before she said "let's go upstairs". When I got to the room and she took her clothes off, her body was unreal. I couldn't believe that I was about to have sex with a girl that hot but it happened. I went back downstairs and she came down a few minutes later. Nobody picked her for another half hour so she came back over to me and we hung out for a little bit, then went back upstairs and did it again. I don't feel bad because I treated her well and she seemed to really enjoy it. She was rubbing her clit furiously while banging away on top of me. It was fucking great.

[razelove]

I did once at an Asian massage place in Vegas, that was really enjoyable. It wasn't something I had planned, just kinda happened, the girl was attractive, and though the massage itself was not good at all, the happy ending was.
Another time there my friend wanted to buy hookers because he fell in love with one, that was just sad and not enjoyable at all, also the one time I tried out the happy ending down here in New Orleans, they did not look as advertised at all.
Really you're paying for an attractive woman, also for a complete lack of consequences or ties once she leaves. Whether you can pull women or not isn't an issue, it takes elaborate planning to cut off consequences and ties when you simply want to. If you don't want to go through that effort, though you won't have any relationship or intimacy, a hooker is a decent alternative in a pinch. I do not get those who would go for the GFE...

[PositiveFlight]

Sex should never be something that someone has to pay for. True sex and making love is only something that can be given. Where a man and woman give of themselves, their heart, and their body because they love each other so much.

It’s horrifying to think that someone would pay money or receive money and make a mockery of something that is special. Even on these websites such as only fans, it’s despicable!

[yallxisxtrippin]

Not everyone lives in a fairy tale.

[PositiveFlight]

@yallxisxtrippin How is what I wrote a fairytale? That really is the reality of life if you want to have any sort of half way decent self-respect or to give respect to the other person. You call it a fairytale but I call the opposite angle of it a delusion where so many people think it’s OK to the humanize or objectify another, or allow themselves to be dehumanized or objectified!

[yallxisxtrippin]

Not everyone is relationship material, and some people don't even want serious relationships. What's good for your life isn't necessarily plausible or even good for all 8 billion people on this planet.

[Leapfrog00]

Nope! I would never get that desperate. I could imagine it wouldn't even feel as good as being with someone who actually wanted it.

There was a girl around the area I live that asked me to pay her $40 one day to eat her out. I said to her, "If I'm going to be making you feel good, shouldn't you be paying me?"

I can't wait to be away from this place!

But yeah, I would never give a girl money for any sexual act.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have never negotiated and directly paid a price for a girl to perform a sex act on me, but I have “paid a price” for having sex with a few girls!

[RobT312]

Never have and never considered it

[EricSummer]

When it really boils down to it, I paid for sex in my relationship that lead to a marriage of 16 years. However, we had two wonderful kids and here we have to be careful not to mix up things. For example, when a man pays for his kids he does not pay the woman and it would be cynical to still see this as an extension of the sex.

Anyway, without my resources I would not have had this woman or our common children.

At school and university I had several girlfriends who were in it without financial interests. In a way that's purer.

My current girlfriend is an artist who has not yet had a commercial breakthrough. Am I paying for sex again? I did pay some of her medical bills... Anyway, at my age money is now less of a concern and if I spend it with a woman it is well spent.

[zeitgeist057]

I'm reminded of a patron of the bar I used to tend who once told me: "I've spent thousands on women and partying in my life. The rest I just wasted."

[nolabels]

I paid for sex my first time.

I was so blitzed on alcohol and other things that I just barely remember it.

I don't even count it as losing my virginity. I was that fucked up.

So, yeah, I lost my virginity twice.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I picked that I've paid for sex. Yup... I've bought hookers.

I would argue that I've paid less than most of the people that voted that they'd never pay for sex. Nope... you dudes paid more. Have fun being on your moral high horses though... you liars. $160 is way cheaper than you paying her car off and supporting her ass. Gold diggers are just high-class hookers in the end.

[msc545]

This !!!

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Bunch of times. Never regretted them unless the chick was just a total bitch.

All in all, it's not such a bad way to get something quick. Didn't have to manipulate anyone, didn't have to deal with much drama. Easy.

[OfMiceandMen]

It's not something I would do right now or plan to do. However, if I was alone later on, possibly.

[TheUniqueOne96]

No, and I never would pay for sex