Have you ever preferred a sexual partner’s mouth or hands over penetrative sex?

Oddly enough, I still enjoy being fingered more than anything. The finger can go deeper, it can twist/turn/bend etc. Plus fingers can multiply lol. I prefer taking just one, the middle finger, but there's still the option to take as many fingers as the receiver wants. DingDongs unfortunately don’t multiply unless you have more than one guy around and well im not into threesomes nor toys. However, with fingering, it still depends on the person doing the fingering. Some people can be too rough and I dont like feeling stabbed, no matter how wet i am. So yea, i’ll take a helping hand over a dingdong anyday 🤷‍♀️ I’m probably one of the few to say that lol. Yet, I dont want to finger myself because Im not really into self-masturbation
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Yes i like receiving oral more than penetrative sex
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Yes i like giving oral more than penetrative sex
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Yes i like being fingered (ladies)/jerked off (fellas) by them more than penetrative sex
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Yes I like to finger/jerk them off more than penetrative sex
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No, I like penetrative sex more than oral and handjobs
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I haven't experienced any of the above
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  • What is the best parts about making love or having sex is the way you started out you can look into a girl's eyes read the color of her cheeks way she breathes the way she moans and she will tell you everything that she wants in that moment and you can either give it to her or you can go to the complete opposite way which I like doing a lot of times
    I absolutely love for playing I think it's just as important or more important than sex the way you touch is very sensual The Way You Kiss is even more sensual The Way You Make Love is even more
    Sensual everything you do you have to be one if I was laying in bed with you slowly kissing your lips from your lips to your chin to your neck in slow motion the rest of my body would be flowing with my kiss the way that I would take my hand and brush that hair from your face or the way that I would slide my hand down your arm to your hand or to your belly are to your inner thighs slowly squeezing right in the center have your inner thigh are just barely rubbing it with one fingers I glided up to the bottom of your panties circling the elastic band around your panty leg sliding it over in between your wet spot and just barely touching just barely tapping my finger
    If I was to start finger in you you just feel the very very tip of my finger tip in slow motion I mean very slow motion it might take me about 3 minutes to even get the tip of my finger in you what's that guy that at least halfway in I would move my finger like emotion like come here in slow-motion just teasing you the way that I would slide my finger all the way in I would want you to feel nothing else but my finger very very slow and then I would motion again come here very very slowly as the rest of my body just flows with yours everything has to move together as one
    There's nothing hotter than making a girl soaking wet I mean soaking wet it to where she's holding on so tight and she wants to fuck right now and you say no LOL not until I'm ready
    the seduction of foreplay is so hot
    And one of the best feelings in the world is to get her to come have an unbelievable orgasm just by your touch and then after that you start the same thing getting in between her legs and doing the same thing with your cock Making Love is Beautiful and I'm never in any hurry I like slow motion and deep or depending on what her eyes tell me what was your question again LOL I think I just got turned on

    • I hate a tease

    • Of course everyone does until they're finished and then they're in love new experiences dizzy there's something magical about new experiences

    • @DizzyDesii I think you would love it. @ohshee knows what's up. He's no spring chicken lol.

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  • I get off on penetration the most. Kissing her moist, tender lips with the tip of my cock and pushing my head through. Feeling her sphincter pop closed around the neck of my cock. Forcing the closed folds of her vaginal canal open as I push deeper. I'm inside her warm, juicy body and getting the coziest most intimate hug.

    I'm not just fucking pussy, I'm fucking HER. Her legs, thighs, hips, ass, tummy, tits, shoulders, arms, neck, ... and her facial expressions and sounds.
    She's alive, she moves, jiggles, bends, responds, and changes positions, all while my cock is churning, digging and thrusting deep inside her slippery, wet, elastic cunt. We're fucking each other as a team.

    My legs and body can press and slide against her smooth flesh. My hands are free to hold her legs, hips or waist. I can swat her ass, pull her hair or grasp her wrists. I can kiss her, fondle her tits and tease or suck on her nipples.

    So, for me, penetration is a full body thing.

    A bj only involves my cock and balls. I sit or lie back to enjoy the pleasure. And some girls are true masters at the art. Their lips and tongues can do things that a pussy can't. And using all their skills just for my benefit is the sweetest thing ever.

    But even when she is giving me indescribable, aching pleasure, there are times when I need more. Of course her earnest face is adorable with my cock in her mouth. Looking at her naked body - boobs, thighs and the curves of her hips ass - is also highly desirable. Fingering her or playing with her tits ups the game. But all the while, I am fantasizing about fucking her. I can usually cum from a BJ, but there are times when I wind up begging to come inside her.

    As I said, though, she can do things with her mouth that she can't do with her pussy. So it can be fun at times to fuck her to near climax, and finish with her eagerly sucking my pussy juice-covered cock when I cum. That's actually amazing.

    Hand jobs are okay I guess, but they don't come close penetration or bj. One thing that's a lot of fun, though, is to lie on my back as she kneels behind me, leans down to lick my nipples while danging her tits in my face. In that position, she can brace herself on one arm and use her other hand to jack me off. My hands are free to play with her tits and I can even reach back and finger her.

    When it comes to pleasuring a woman, it's so much fun to tease all the erogenous zones of her body until she's aching to cum. Then it's time to enjoy licking her pussy and working her nub until she explodes.

    Fingering is also fantastic. Touching that super squishy pussy, penetrating her warmth, feeling her squeeze, and getting my hand all wet and slippery is a wonderful feeling. I've actually came before from simply fingering a woman. It's a miracle to give her such pleasure while skillfully working her clit and G spot. Making her cum is the ultimate. It's absolutely amazing to feel her pussy squeeze, spasm and pulse around my fingers as she cums. But that's the point when I crave sticking my dick inside her.

    • 😲😲😲🥺

    • What's the matter, Des?

    • That was beautiful 🥲

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  • I don’t even like to finger myself as I don’t really get anything out of it. I bring myself to climax by squeezing my thigh and buttock muscles whilst rubbing my clitoris and usually fantasising about someone I find attractive or watching porn. I am a virgin so I don’t know if penetration will bring me more pleasure than this method but I guess for now I will prefer fingers and mouths over dicks.

    • I also dont finger myself. I cum from mental stimulation or nipple stimulation or grinding and using the thigh muscles like you mentioned. I can't fantasize but i do like watch porn or be talked dirtily to

    • I love that word "dirtily." Great word. 😄

  • This is tricky, cause foreplay is super important, which I really love but actual sex is a great finish. Get me like 75% there before actual sex, since guys tend to have self control problems once that part starts.

    • Lol self control probs how?

    • Once we start sex they don't last very long, then say sorry they couldn't help themselves.

    • @Aerissa_Jade You're a pole dancer. You have a strong core. You can't really blame them.

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  • Depends on the day.

  • I still prefer penetrative sex the most, but there are times when a good handjob is just f-ing amazing, especially if she takes her time, and edges me.

    I love that way she sometimes just explores my penis, like she's fascinated by it, and loves playing with it.

    Blowjobs are "meh"

    • I’ll never understand how guys enjoy edging lmao. If a guy wanted to tease me, i’d be tempted to slap him and tell him to speed itup cause i like being fingerfcked 😂

    • Maybe it just takes a certain kind of person, I guess? My girl loves being edged, too, so it's kind of mutually beneficial. It's like, once you orgasm, then that's it; you've reached the peak, and now it's all downhill. With edging, though, you can prolong the buildup, and get about 90% of the orgasm feeling, but for much longer. The difference between a short roller coaster, and a long one. 😁

    • Not for me though. I can orgasm several times in an hour and it doesn't slow me down. I get wild and want more and more and more! I legit have to have my lights fcked out to fall asleep. With edging, i’d get bored and fall asleep lmao. Its no build up for me. Waiting 6+ months to have sex is build up enough 🤣

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  • When it's good I like penetrative sex the best.

    • I feel ya

  • My first choice is still penetrative sex. it’s a different question for women I think

    • You never know :)

  • Oral is great and once in a while fill the need. But pnentration of the vagina is my number one preference.

    • Hott

  • I'll be 46 years old tomorrow and I've yet to have a girl and I've been with a few in my lifetime and none of them to this point have ever made me come from a blowjob that they gave me without fucking their mouth and helping them out so I would definitely prefer penetration having sex not that I don't love blowjobs but yeah

  • Hi Desi,
    Much like your comment about why you prefer a guy's finger in your vagina, I happen to prefer a girl's mouth on my penis for similar reasons. You said a finger can 'go deeper, twist, turn, bend etc', and a penis can't do that. I totally get that. I prefer a girl's mouth on my penis because her mouth can 'twist, turn, suck, alternate pressure, make hot sounds' (you get the idea)... all things the vagina can't do. Don't get me wrong, I love vaginas! lol And they offer their own form of pleasure for sure. But for me, nothing turns me on more, looks hotter or feels better than a female mouth wrapped around and bobbing up and down on my erect penis!

    • Oooo i love the comparison

    • Thanks!

  • Intercourse is better.

    • Possibly

    • To me, oral sex, handjobs & fingering are just part of foreplay which is the necessary appetizer to the main course, sexual intercourse.

    • I agree that its the appetizer. But the finger just does something more for me.

  • I would rather be masturbated than have sex. During sex I was doing all the work in missionary while she just laid there.

    • 🤣😂😂

  • Naah girl finger and oral aren't enough for me and I don't really need them both, I choose a dick over both of them

    • 😂😂😂

  • I'd much rather lick her to the big O. I last much longer.

    • Ahh i see

  • Depends on my partner. But sometimes yeah

    • Yea cause one of my exes couldnt finger for crap 🤣

    • Fingering makes me super damn nervous. Good lord lol

    • Lol why

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  • I wrote this forever ago.
    Faster than sex, faster than oral. Explosive orgasms.
    Four-fingering. Turning foreplay into the main event.

    • Lmao

  • I definitely love a good handjob once in awhile feels awesome. I love. it when she is side by side w me and my finger is in her ass, then when I cum I slowly slide it out. Feels so good!

    • Hot damn

  • If she gives really good head then yeah there’s times I’m gonna be more into her mouth than her pussy as long as she lets me go down town also

    • Haaha

  • I don't mind having a girlfriend who loves to be fingered, I just like a girl who can tell me how it feels, tell me if something is wrong, tell me what she wants, My last girlfriend all she wanted was clitoral pleasuring and maybe I'm wrong but I wanted to give her more?

    • Yea you werent sexually compatible then

    • @dizzydesii Yes I totally agree

  • Oh dear lord.. you all need Jesus...


    However I still like only hands stimulation half the time and full on sex the next.. and a lot that I forgot about...

    Oh dear lord... I need Jesus..

    • 🤣🤣🤣

  • Nah... not really

    • Lol ok

    • U know i am a fun loving n joy riding person lol

    • Hahaha

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  • Yes to both, giving and receiving. Not that I mind penetrative sex at all, but my ideal preference is to use anything and everything to get my partner off without risking pregnancy, so Fingering, eating her out and best of all using sex toys and or light bondage gear / role play on her to get her off.

    It's not like I don't like my penis, or lack /confidence/ in that department... I just like the power of being able to sit back and enjoy giving my partner orgasms and of course for me, getting blow jobs / hand jobs is great, really great.

    • Ahh okay

  • My dingdong multiplies.

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