Have you ever purposely looked for a One Night Stand?

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Smashingdoozy · Accepted Answer

Yes, I had just gotten over a terrible relationship and I wanted some fun no strings attached. Was living with a bunch of friends at the time in an apartment. We went out to a club, found a hot af guy, like way out of my league, he was flirting and dancing with me all night even though I'm a terrible dancer. Decided to invite him back to mine. Friends came back home too for safety. Dragged this man into my bedroom, put some music on. We start getting down to business, making out, touching each other, getting undressed the whole shabang. He starts moving down, I'm expecting oral, but no he whips out a condom, I feel myself, I'm drier than the Sahara desert. I ask him if we can just yah know makeout and stuff for a bit longer, he's touching me and we are making out for 5 or so more min and I'm becoming less and less aroused. Which like how is that even possible. I realize that I don't know this person at all and that starts freaking me out. So I push him off me say sorry I can't do this, there's no emotional connection and I just can get turned on. He has the audacity to ask if we can just use lube. I ask him politely to leave, he says "well aren't you at least going to blow me" no, not after that comment. I tell him to get out. My friends open the door to him butt neked standing there all arms crossed like she said get out, time to go.

He leaves, I cry my eyes out because I felt so weird.

And that is why I never go for one night stands *bows*

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

Not deliberately, however a usual Friday or Saturday night does carry the risk of meeting a girl, then having sex. Obviously guys can turn it down if they don’t feel like it.

JBlade · Accepted Answer

No, I hope I don’t ever get that desperate. Would literally be compromising my values.

loves2learn · Answer

Nope. I have not.

summiter · Answer

Yup when I was young and horny. Most of the time I came up empty and had to jerk off instead but sometimes it worked and it was fun!

JackSmy · Answer

Never purposely, but with some close female friends, and too many drinks, it happens. No babies, and I actually don't regret any of those times.

NathanDavis · Answer

never looked for it no, but "opportunities" showed up and didn't do it, is just not my thing

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

Dozens of times

es20490446e · Answer

Yes. There's nothing wrong about one night stands, but there's nothing amazing about them either. The best sex is that you have with a long time partner you love.

Dvchill · Answer

Hell yeah when I turned 21 I was in Afghan so when I got back I went straight to the bar and hit on everything that was sexy due to my then ripped body and big 🍆 tore it up for like 3 months before I met my now ex wife who stopped slutty me… but I slept with like 25 girls in like 90 days and that is like a low ball number… like 25-35 great short burst of time that was just fun and blowing off steam from a stressful year before

Luckycharms12 · Answer

No went out to have fun with friends. But yes had few one night stands

anylolone · Answer

I haven't looked for it, they just found me, lol!

msc545 · Answer

Yes, of course I have - many times.

Diya010 · Answer

Yes, and I am glad it happened

jangya122 · Answer

No I have never and I don't think I would ever do it. I'm just a guy who loves to feel love. And I would like to have sex with a girls who I don't love.