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11 mo

Have you ever regretted having sex with someone?

I haven't regretted it but I just wish i didn't fall so fast for 2 of the guys I've had sex with hoping something more would've come from it but I've learned that in life you have to put yourself and your worth above and a guy who truly is into me will understand and respect that. The recent guy i liked ( not the ex boyfriend i dated for 11 hours for those who remember) this other guy was 21 and he goes to my college he was the first guy i had unprotected with since we were in the moment and i started to have a crush on him, its a long story im sorry but things didn't go as well since he kept making excuses afterwards with his school and wrestling then i had a mini pregnancy scare and he stopped talking to me. I think that was the straw for me to wake up and smell the coffee that who i connect with intimately should be something more meaningful and special.

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11 mo
I can say deep down i did feel devastated and disappointed i cried but i knew i did this to myself too and i need to better myself so that's why im going to church now and surrounding myself with healthier people in my life and non toxic people/men that only want sex.
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  • Kind of. We didn't actually end up having sex. I had been talking with this single mum, she had little time without kids so we had only had a couple of dates in about 6 weeks of knowing each other (first date was due to be a coffee, turned into coffee, movie and dinner). Our third date, we went out for the day then went back to mine. I cooked dinner, we watched a movie, I then asked if she wanted me to take her home or she wanted to stay the night. She stayed. We made out a lot, neither of us could sleep. Spent all night kissing, cuddling and talking. Was the morning before things turned a little more sexual. We got naked, I started some foreplay but she started to feel uncomfortable so we stopped. We chatted a little after that about sex and preferences, she didn't seem to enjoy foreplay much, generally she came across as a little repressed. Shortly after thing fizzled out, never did find out if it was down to this or something else.
    In the end it was probably a good thing, it would have been quite a challenging relationship. but I moved on, found someone new.

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  • 1.) You did show incredible irresponsibility. A pregnancy scare? Reeks of 'I don't consider my future seriously at all.' It doesn't matter if you didn't "mean to." You, ultimately, know what will happen if you let raw cock into you.

    2.) You don't have to go to church to be a good person or be around good people. It's not a detractor, but it should not be a keystone. Society has changed, whether poeple want to admit it or not. And just saying "I'm gonna be different" is a hell of a lot easier than denying the influences around you. Many motivators for both good and bad are around _subconsciously_ most of the time; many more bad than good. What helps is knowing and controlling yourself. Like you did not do "in that moment" that nearly cost you your schooling, your parent (s)' respect, social standing in the dating market, and your youth.

    Lastly sex is fine IF you are looking out for yourself. Physically with cleanliness. Socially with your reputation; guys do talk if you "do" certain things with just a few guys. And in college you can believe in guys bragging as assuredly as the sun will rise. And Responsibly, taking precautions for sitational sex; i. e. having condoms, oral contraceptives, or 'alternative reception routes' for male reproductive fluids -- 'down the hatch' or the time-tested favorite of women throughout the ages, the "poop-hole loop hole."

    But you seem to be on the right track. You know the problem. Been singed by the fire. And you learned (hopefully enough) to take yourself seriously.

    - Luck to you! -

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, because I haven't slept with anyone and won't until there's some dude who isn't gonna fuck me over and leave every 3 months for no good reason other than being an insecure fuck

  • Yep. I just broke up with my long term ex and ended up hooking up with a friend of a friend. That was the first and last time I ever tried a one night stand…

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I never had the problem... though, in my case, the earliest in a relationship that I slept with a guy was around the 4 month point.

    My now husband waited almost half a year !!!

  • Yes. I paid for her cab fare there and she just laid there, and did nothing. It pissed me off. Total waste of time and cab money. It sucked and was the worst bedroom encounter of my life.

    Unlike some women though, I'm not going to call a sexual experience I regretted or disliked "rape," however.

  • Yes a guy I got tangled up with in college that was a narcissist. Turned a year of my life upside down.

  • never... not in the least

    I've always been quite selective about that stuff

  • No but my advice is don't do these things until you are sure of your feelings.

    In the meantime, I would be happy if you comment.

    Girls, An unfortunate man? - GirlsAskGuys

    #Reigner

  • Im actually glad how uve realised and you are not tryna take lesson from what happen in life n tryna work on yourself to be a better person... appreciated 👏🏽👏🏽

  • Yes, I have regretted multiple times and I happy for you that you're going to church because I did the same thing going back to church 10 years ago and I have been Celibate since then, now I am engaged to a beautiful woman. Follow the Word and be patient for marriage. Be Blessed 🙏

  • Every single one from before I was 21. No idea what the exact number is, but I would hit any willing adult female so far too many.

  • 11 hour relationship? Haha.

    Well, I guess there has been similar things as to what you described. Someone I did really liked and then end up having sex too soon and then get a little heartbroken when they make excuses to why they can't continue seeing you anymore.

    • (I didn't mean to mock you with the laugh, it was a laughter out of shock since I've not seen a post about that to know the backstory)

  • We're all human make mistakes. I would say that you shouldn't be too hard on yourself. Live and learn from it. Flush it, so to speak and bury it in the past. The real you is out there and knows what to do and not to do now.

  • So many times actually but ohh well..

    • I remember our time together! 😂

    • Lmao you wish 😅😅 @mcheetah

  • As always girls have the dumbest instincts and simply fall for the guy who makes the area between their legs wet.

    • The sex was incredible okay not gonna lie but i talked to him for 2 hours in person and thats when it hit me too but i know that was even too sudden, girls do fall quicker than guys tho in my view at least i always have and i need to put the brakes on.

  • Yeah

  • i haven't yet

  • Yes, a friend who said she was into me but we had awful sex and now we don't talk anymore

  • Nah.. Not yet. Hope i dont in future also.

  • Yeah, you could see from outer space that my dick couldn't really enter her.. 🙄

  • Thankfully not

  • Yes,. Should have ran to my car

  • Yes and no

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