Have you ever rejected a potential sexual partner after getting your first view of her "parts"?

Okay, THIS is a weird looking pussy!
Okay, THIS is a weird looking pussy!
Recently, I'm seeing a spate of questions about "I can't have sex with anyone because my pussy looks weird." Either it the "wrong" color, or she has protruding labia, or it's not symmetrical, or something else.

I have never dated a girl, finally got her in the bedroom, and then kicked her out once I saw her naked. Never. And I've never heard any other guy say that they've ever done that. . . but maybe it's something that guys just don't talk about, so. . . here's the question:

Have you ever rejected a woman as a potential sexual partner after you saw her up close and naked for the first time?
Hey, I never got that far with a lady!
Vote A
I have never rejected a potential sexual partner after seeing her nude for the first time.
Vote B
I have never "rejected" a potential sexual partner after seeing her nude for the first time. We had sex, but her boobs were too small or weird and I never wanted to be with her again.
Vote C
I have never "rejected" a potential sexual partner after seeing her nude for the first time. We had sex, but her vagina was funny shaped, the wrong color, or smelly and I never wanted to be with her again.
Vote D
I have rejected a potential sexual partner after seeing her nude for the first time. Her vagina was just too weird and I couldn't handle going near her.
Vote E
I have rejected a potential sexual partner after seeing her nude for the first time. Her boobs were just wrong and I couldn't handle going near her.
Vote F
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  • My girlfriends have always been hundreds of times more critical of themselves than I have ever been.

    • Thanks for mho.

  • No one ever looks like the diagrams in the doc's office!

    • Contender for MHO right here! Love it!!!

    • Thanks for the MHO.

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  • I've seen nudes of female friends of mine, but it was years ago and nothing ever came from it.

    I did sexting once or twice with friends, only because they were the horniest ones in our friend group and we all wanted the same thing, so we would message back and forth what we would do if we were in each others room.

    To be honest, I haven't seen enough to be able to make a reliable judgment, I have seen genitals and breasts in porn regularly, but that stuff isn't reliable, it's made to look perfect, I am saying that I haven't seen enough REAL LIFE ones, where I could compare and tell you if I had a preference.

  • Voted A cuz pretty or weird looking, I don't do vagina... 😂😂

    • I intended to restrict this to male responses but forgot to make that election when I was posting the question. I didn't figure you to go both ways! :) :) :)

    • You would be right... Strictly dickly 🙂

    • And I am a founding member of the 100% Heterosexuals Of America club!

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  • Unless your vaginas got teeth no guys going to reject it. It's the same with dicks, as long as not dripping with gonorrhea or riddled with weeping sores it's not going to be rejected.

    • I'd reject yours

  • This is crazy, I have never and would never reject a woman after seeing her naked.

    • I'm with you, jack! But I see these posts all the time!

  • That cat is like, well, WTF? :) Never seen one, like that, before!
    I have Never been with a woman, and thought that there was something 'strange', 'wrong' or 'ugly', EVER, with any part of her!!
    Some have been clean-shaven, and tight little bits, like they are afraid to. . .
    Some are a little more like BEAUTIFUL BUTTERFIES, and have these delightfully large, beautiful pink lips!
    The first time I was with a woman that was so "GIFTED" I just loved being down on her, and teasing her, and making her laugh and giggle and just LOVE what she has!

    So many guys, younger guys, seem to HATE these, and reject them!
    Ladies, you are BEAUTIFUL with whatever you have, and anyone that doesn't just love what you have, and love wanting to make you happy, well, he's not worth your time, and maybe you need to find a better man!

  • I have never rejected a woman after seeing her intimate parts and when I am ready for some sexual intimacy. I mean, why would someone do that, thats just screwed up.

  • Does EVERYONE have sex during the day? Most of my encounters occured at night after a party or a nice dinner. The lighting was never so bright as to discern the shape of vagina. Breasts, on the other hand, is a different matter. Even in the dark one can tell if the lady is A or C cup.

    Only three things had me stop the foreplay with a lady: smelly vagina (usually means yeast infection or STD), pimples for breasts and no hair or too much hair in the pubic area. Not hair is only ok on children and I'm no pedofile! A bush so unkept, you can't find the entrance is also an automatic turn off.
    Thankfully, most women are healthy, have B cups or bigger and know how to trim the bush such that she still looks like a woman.

  • LOL, no.

  • Guys, yeah. But that’s because I don’t want uncut men. But I’ve never thrown out a lady because of color or appearance. If she’s clean, and disease free, I’m good with it

  • I have encountered vulvas like this...

    Have you ever rejected a potential sexual partner after getting your first view of her "parts"?

    And this.

    Have you ever rejected a potential sexual partner after getting your first view of her "parts"?

    And they were all good.

  • Nope also I don't have sex with anyone that I don't know well, so by this point I already care about her enough it doesn't matter.

  • details like that don't bother me. overall body shape may be a problem, but thankfully, you can see such things long before someone is stripped!

  • I've never seen a girl's genitals. But I certainly wouldn't reject anyone over that. I think all types of vulvas look attractive. I don't really understand the concept of not being attracted any woman's genitals. That's just incomprehensible to me. There's nothing better than a pussy. There just isn't. Such a thing does not exist.

  • Nope, never rejected a partner, it's rude, maybe young Guys might, because they have never seen a pussy before.

    • Actually I have, very strange, because it's a girl I spent years of my life, having sex with.

  • I never rejected any of them for that

  • It can happen. I lie to protect her feelings but they're always upset anyways

  • I don’t know what I’d do tbh. I’m too young ig

  • No but I've been rejected for it before

    • Too big, too small, or something else?

    • Too small

    • That seems like a stupid reason. Even if the girl thinks you are too small to satisfy her with PIV, she could certainly ask you for oral sex, and I would expect a smaller guy to be very eager to please a lady in bed.

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  • I was dating a chix, we seemed to alway fuq with clothes on, then one time she got naked... i did the deed... but was turned off there after...

  • When I was in college there was this cute guy who I would see at the pool at our apartment complex sometimes. We’d flirt with each other here and there but never really talked much. One day, he’s there with his friends, and when he was saying hi to me one of them snuck up behind him and pulled his swim trunks straight down to his ankles right in front of me, so I saw him fully naked. I always thought he was cute but he had a really small penis so I wasn’t really interested in him sexually after that. I tried to act like I didn’t even see it but he got so embarrassed that I could tell he knew that I saw it. It was pretty awkward between us after that

    • His penis was likey soft, are you aware they grow when they get hard?