I was reading trash online and stumbled upon "soaking". It's when a guy penetrates his woman but doesn't move. Neither orgasms.No. Not that!Have you ever heard of it or done it? Do you like it or want to give it a try?
This is something I've done a few times before I knew there was a name for it. My friends with benefits and I have watched TV with me inside of her. Another times we've had beers. Once, we just hung out talking. It's actually quite pleasant. Usually, it's an hour or two before we break the rules and starting moving. I think of soaking as foreplay. An appetizer before the main course. I'll definitely do it again.
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LazerBeanGuru
9 mo
Typically it's the Mormons I believe who do that, because their religion going doesn't allow them to have sex before marriage. Somehow the lack of movement supposedly means it isn't really sex. Because apparently their God isn't smart enough to know what they're doing.
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HatiVargrrrXper 4
9 mo
Never done this but have always wanted to try it
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SamIam96
9 mo
I highly recommend it.
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RobT312Guru
9 mo
No I have never done that. I think Im too hyper during sex to just sit still like that. however, after orgasm I have just left my dick inside for a few minutes just cuddling afterwards…that I like!
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slatybMaster
9 mo
It used to be called "tantric sex"
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SamIam96
9 mo
Thank you! I had no idea... lol. I prefer the term "soaking". It's so descriptive. The religious overtone is unfortunate, tho. Next time, I'll use "tantric."
slatyb
9 mo
I never thought of "tantric sex" as a religious thing, but I haven't researched it. When it comes to sex, there's nothing new. Anything anyone is doing today has been done for thousands of years.
SamIam96
9 mo
Sorry. I was referring to the Mormon overtones for "soaking".
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slatyb
9 mo
Oh. I looked that up. F'ing ridiculous. I have no patience for religious prohibitions against premarital sex, and searching for loopholes is absurd. If you want to do it, just do it.
"Us" meaning non-Mormons. The way you responded leads me to believe you're not. Neither am I.
ClowrXper 5
9 mo
Yes. We liike to sleep like that. Feel even closer and connected then when spooning.
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SamIam96
9 mo
Nice idea. Thanks for sharing.
LowiuYoda
9 mo
Like not realy I've had guy stop for a bit qhile thrusting while in me but not realy soaking
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SamIam96
9 mo
Do you know why he stopped? The part I enjoy is the literal and mental connection of being inside. It's obviously different from thrusting. It takes time. It isn't like a pause so I don't finish before my girlfriend.
Lowiu
9 mo
I think so he doesn't cum yet
mandyfire98Guru
9 mo
What's the point though? If there's no movement then there's no pleasure. Sounds dumb
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CloudMassacreYoda
9 mo
If she wanted, I would do it for her, but I don’t really feel the stir of “oh I would love that”
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Sparkie460Yoda
9 mo
I've never heard of it so never tried it either. It doesn't sound like much fun to me.
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TwalliMaster
9 mo
My girlfriend and I have done it occasionally because it feels good for both if us for me to be inside of her.
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