Guys, have you ever spanked a partner as punnishment if so why and what was the whole process?

[Anonymous]

I see some have "aftercare" is that something you do?

My ex would spank me if I had an attitude and if it esculated it would be bare bottom laying on top of his legs bent over.. it was so embarrasing. Sometimes he would insert an object in my butt/pussy till I begged him to stop in tears.. sometimes his fingers. And I'm TIGHT so it hurts baaaaad. He says I'm the tightest one he ever experienced.. and I had to show my face when he does it.

Afterwards I was so embarrased and in pain I just wanted to run and hide but he holds me down till I calm down while still naked showing everything clear.. Evan when I cried like a baby I'm not allowed to hide my face. He always said "believe it or not I don't like seeing you in pain". And that he does it because he loves me and cares about me. Thinking back I think I needed it but it was extremely embarrassing.. I did deserve it. I was nagging all the time at him.

Have you ever spanked a partner as punnishment? Why did you spank them and what was the whole process? Do you think spanking helps?

[Anonymous]

I have done it when she's forgotten to do something she said she would. I've accepted her apology but told her she's going to need to be punished for it. I have her pull down her pants and underwear and bend over my lap and spank her with my bare hand.

It's never hard enough to require after care. The punishment is more the embarrassment of having her bare her ass and take the spanking.

[Asker]

I see.. does it work do you think in correcting her behaviour?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, it does seem to work

[Asker]

Okay good. If she didn't want you to tell anyone about that part of your relationship would you keep it just between you two? And does she talk to you after the spanking? Cause I always wanna hide when I've been spanked by a partner for bad behaviour

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I keep it just between us and she does talk to me after.

[Asker]

Okay good for you two.

[VikingWarLord]

I spank just to spank, whether my BDSM Subs are bratty or not!

I did force one to wear a butt plug for an entire week. She hates anal but she lost a bet. It actually involved another female and a roleplaying wrestling game we did. Not only made her wear a butt plug but ONLY did anal for that whole week. She hated it but she was a good girl and took the punishment

[Asker]

I dont blame her.. i hate anal too lol. isn't it dangerous to wear a buttplug that long? I mean she has to take it out sometimes to use the bathroom and then push it back in.. damn How do you know she actually wore it for a whole week? She had to sleep with that thing in.. omg

[VikingWarLord]

I had leverage over her. At the beginning of the situation-ship she said she was NOT bisexual. Then she saw some of the females I was talking to. She wanted to be exclusive but she could clearly see I had hotter options, she eventually gave in. She not only played with other females, but became my BDSM Submissive. She said even though she hated being with other women or doing anal, etc.. she later told me it was hot that I wouldn't compromise and would get her to do it anyways.

[Asker]

Alright I see. Did you check if she put it back in after using the bathroom?