Have you ever tried bondage?

So I talked to my boyfriend about it and he wants to give it a try but I just love the thought of being restricted and him being in control. Have you ever tried it? What kind of rope did you use? Did you enjoy it? Also I'm not into the humiliation thing. Just share your experience ☺
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  • Yes, it is a main part of my diet LOL

    You have to be careful though: don't do it with someone you don't completely trust! Agree on a safeword.

    Rope is nice (if you pick one which doesn't itch) but it takes a while to apply, which means the sexual tension can crash down.

    For a first try I would recommend velcro fabric cuffs instead. Yes, you can remove them if you try hard enough, but that's not the point, you'll be a good girl and stay tied up. He can remove them in a second if you get a cramp though, and that's REALLY nice.

    Padded leather cuffs are nice too. Pick well-padded and comfortable ones, you don't want chafing and blisters. Link them with a carabiner, which can be removed quickly.

    Once you've practiced this, tried a few positions, got a few cramps and figured out how to avoid them, you can graduate to rope. Rope is kinky, but you have to keep some blunt-end medical scissors handy in case you fuck it up and lose blood flow or get a cramp. That's why cuffs are a lot more beginner-friendly...

    • Thanks for the advice I'll follow exactly what you say

    • Is a whip smart to use for a first timer

    • velcro saves your life when you get a cramp ;)

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  • Yes, I am well known for that, I even used to do some stage work, tying people up on stage etc. I currently use hand processed hemp rope cut into 25 to 30 foot lengths. The process is pretty complicated, and hemp is relatively expensive. Rather then that look at the following two factors, 1 how much friction does it create run your hand over the rope and see if it causes a lot of heat, and second how strong is it? Lastly be aware of pinch points and nerve bundles, it is possible to really hurt someone by tying someone up. The rule is use the fleshy parts not the joints. So tie above the wrist, not on the wrist. Lastly also get yourself a pair of safety shears like the kind that rescue people use, in case of emergencies.

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  • Look around and you will find things that you can use, no need for rope.
    Scarf, belt, dressing gown rope and a tie.
    I didn't like being tied up but blindfolds are okay.
    Make a agreement with each other and have good communication during the session.

  • Yeah but not the super hardcore stuff that you see on porn. But we've done things like restraints, light choking and hitting, etc. I won't be super specific.

    We didn't use a rope though. We used padded handcuffs.

    • Yeah because its our first time I'm kinda iffy butty on the ropes.

    • Yeah it's better to get something that will feel more comfortable and ease into it. No reason to scare either of you out of it.

    • Yeah that better

  • Haven't tried it but I feeling we'll try it in the future. He likes to tie me up when we wrestle or put me in different holds if I tease his back too much

  • Yes! It’s amazing if you’re into that kinda thing! There’s all sorts to use, not just rope :)

    • Otherwise from rope what?

    • Handcuffs, whips, leather ties, leashes, belts, choker balls (can’t remember the name but they gag you lol) there’s a lot of things, go exploring it’s very exciting!

    • Ohk thanks I will 😃

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  • Rope? I suggest something that is not abrasive like scarves or even old men's ties. Light bondage is definitely a kink. I had a partner in the past that was into that. It was kind of cool. After she was tied up she then told me to have my way with her. That worked for me.

  • Yes, it's so good.

    • No but I really want to just haven't found anyone who wants too

    • Well hopefully you'll find someone who wants that or care for your pleasure enough so they'll do it for you

  • Lol I'm a kinky muhfucka but this BDSM shit has never been up my avenue... What is in all that dungeons and horny dragons shit that gets people off?

    • It's just the thought of him dominating me and being restricted.

    • I get the physical domination part, but the image I always have is the gimp suits and cages and that - each to their own but me being a fairly heavily tattooed and bearded kinda man... I'd find it easier just choking her out in bed and making her cum all over the place there.

    • Plus I'm pretty damn strong if I don't mind saying so - there's sexual domination and then there's physically hurting the gal, don't wanna be doing that!!!

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  • I absolutely love to try this out once i find the right partner.
    Although ill start simple and instead of doing all kinds of difficult ties we will likely start with handcuffs.

    • I don't think that handcuffs will have the same effects Also will you be the one who's being tied up or the other way around?

    • I like both! :)

    • Great

  • Make sure that you have a safe word, whatever that word is means everything stops if you say it.

  • My girlfriend and I have tried it both with her tied up and with me tied up. It was a lot of fun. I bought straps and a blindfold from a sex shop and we used those. They were specifically designed to attach to the bed frame with the other sides attaching to your wrists and ankkes. We didn't do any humiliation things either, just gave oral to, kissed, licked, tickled, and had sex with the person who was tied up.

  • I know I want to.

  • Yep, tried it and it's fun... blindfold, cuffs...

  • 1. Go to home depot for your rope needs. Basically you can get everything you need at home depot.
    2. If you feel strange about being tied up then maybe you should tie him up

  • Twine rope is strong yet not too rough on skin. I am an experienced Dom, so I have experience with giving women bondage

  • Don’t use rope use something softer - I used rope on my ex girlfriend and the rope burns were horrible

    • You should have tried silk rope. It can be dyed any color, It won't leave rope Burns or damage your skin, It looks beautiful up against any skin.

    • I've never knew that there's a rope called slim rope but I'll check it out

  • No never tried but will love to do it

  • yes tried many time.

  • Yeah , with a scarf arrond hands legs and eyes mmmm

  • I agree on the humiliation part. and YES! Its lovely and perfect. So many new levels of sexual pleasure introduced with it. Also, just use household items to tie each other with. Ties and such. Im happy to talk more. Feel free to follow me.

  • Yeah, when allowed I've beat a few girls.

  • Yes, that is a very active part of me and my girlfriend's sex life and we both love it.

  • Light bondage is fun.