Have you ever wanted to give oral and expected nothing in return?

So for example, you go down on your partner. You make him or her cum and then you just go on with the rest of your day.
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  • Vote 'A' aka in my case 'ALWAYS'

    I don't have sex for barter, I do it for the pleasure. Especially when chemistry between her and me is great, her orgasm makes me feel satisfied alright :)

    My girl satisfied, is a different high and satisfaction by itself :)

    Ofcourse that cannot last a lifetime, there are times when I need a release too. The put off comes when I realize (luckily never happened lol) that she isn't ever interested in getting me off which is where chemistry will cease to exist :)

  • I voted A because sex is not a tit for tat thing, pun intended. Your job is to satisfy her sexually. How that happens for her is up to her. If she won't go down on you, it's your job to try to satisfy her other ways while you work on persuading her to fellate you. Every woman I've been with, and that's a sizable number, eventually grew to love fellatio. She can too but it's gonna require patience and persuasion without guilt.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I like being eaten out, but I really like giving oral better than receiving. Truly, I get more out of full sex than I do out of oral. I think that I would like it if he offered and wanted to return the favor, but I wouldn't want him to reciprocate every time. When I give him oral, it's a gift from me, not something that needs something in return. I like to give him pleasure.

  • It usually works both ways as in if I'm giving him head, he insists on returning the favour. However, I never really demanded to get something back. I hate the idea of looking at sex like that, you only get some if I get some.
    I give head or do anything for my boyfriend because that alone makes me feel good. :)

  • i give hubby head all the time and don't expect anything in return. its not a favor, its a sexual act. i get just as turned on from giving head as i do from getting it. its not a barter system or exchanging favors. its just something that i enjoy doing for him to make him happy :)

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  • It is something I do on weekly basis, when I can. Love to satisfy my girl... it turns me on so much that I can do that for her!

  • Yes. /// \\\

  • I'd love to get oral with no expectations of a returns favor.

  • there are times i just to please him without him having to return the favor

  • Yeah, I'd do that if I found her attractive.

  • I have done that a few times

  • Always, I like giving but don't like getting, at least I don't like the feel of teeth. Maybe things will be different when I get to the old folks home.

  • No but I've had sex lots of times without expecting anything in return

  • If she doesn't give me a BJ, I would expect at least a sandwich, a beer or my shirt ironed!!!

    • lol that sounded so misogynistic

    • jk! I can't help myself on GAG...

  • I give oral to my lover without conditions. She loves it and I love giving it.

  • Definitely. I often imagine going down on a woman but I've barely ever thought of receiving for some reason.