Have you given or received a ruined orgasm?

[Anonymous]

[TemptedTerry]

Yes I have. I presume you are the same asker who asked about edging.

In that I explained about a year with an ex playing male orgasm denial.

While she chose to let me orgasm on average about twice a month. She adored watching ruined orgasms. Personally I hated them, but it turned her on so much I endured them for her.

Sometimes she told me in advance. I would have my wrists cuffed, and then she would stroke me. I knew it was coming, and I would try to hold off, but eventually the denial would take its toll and I would begin to cum. She got to read my reactions, and would know when I would start. At that point, she would remove her hand. Her eyes gleaming with delight as I started to cum. Though instead of that explosive volcano, it embarrassingly dribbled out. And usually only a small amount. I can't tell you how bad they felt. Zero friction on your cock means you had no dopamine release. While you physically ejaculated, kinda. You certainly didn't orgasm. And I would stay hard. Your mind wasn't told you orgasmed so you physically stay erect.

This allowed her to ride me to a few orgasms for herself.

Overall, having a ruined orgasm relieved a bit of the fullness your balls feel when you haven't cum for weeks. That one positive does not make up for the almost painful suffering you feel at the time of a ruined orgasm.

I can tell you, I will never suffer one again. I did it back then, as it was an experimental time in my life. Done it though, and I won't be going back lol.

[Asker]

Excellent answer thank you for sharing