Have you had anal sex?

Any tips for someone wanting to try it?
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  • I am a gay man and an exclusive bottom who just loves getting fucked in the ass. If done right, anal sex does not really hurt, but can be a great source of pleasure for the person receiving it.

    The key to success is physical and mental preparation. The physical part requires a clean hole and a lot of lubrication where water-based lubricants often work the best. As for cleanliness, I would recommend making sure you have a complete bowel movement and a good shower before getting fucked. As you can guess, food that helps digestion will also work here to your benefit, like fibers, etc.

    The mental part is about relaxing your body and your asshole. Once your hole relaxes, it can stretch beyond your wildest imagination to help take your man's cock into you...

    A butt-plug may also help. This has been one of my biggest helpers to stretch my hole in order to be able to accommodate guys with really thick cocks. To that end, I'd recommend starting with a small enough plug that you can wear at the beginning. But, it should still be thick enough so you can feel the walls of your asshole stretching a little. After wearing that for a few days, you can gradually move to the next larger size, and then increase the size of the plug to really thick ones that you could not have accommodated at the beginning. This way, I've been able to enjoy really humongous cocks in my ass. I sure hope you will, as well!..

    Finally, the position of anal sex is also important, especially for the person taking it. That could depend on gender, but also personal anatomy. My favorite position getting fucked is the missionary position. Lying on my back with my man on top of me while raising my legs over his shoulders proved to be the most natural position for me where I always draw a lot of pleasure.

    Please feel free to write back if you have any more questions. Good luck!..

    • Thank you hun! Your opinion was very helpful

    • You're very welcome! I sincerely hope you will enjoy receiving anal sex as much as I do... I'm like a girl for all practical purposes, so write back or PM me as you wish... From a girl at heart to another!.. ;-)

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  • Well, what specifically do you want to know? How to be clean, or just how to take a dick? Because I could write at length about either.

    So, when it comes to being clean, I like to do the whole pornstar prep - this means not eating, or at least, eating very little the day before, then doing a few large enemas.
    I have a little 100ml syringe with a long nozzle I got off amazon - works great as a cheap, portable enema device.
    I usually try to go for about 2 litres of liquid, but your capacity will vary.

    You could do a quick 200ml clean if you're lazy, just rinse and repeat a few times until the water comes out clear. And leave it say... an hour until you engage in sex.

    Anything more than that will go up and around the bend in your gut, and you won't be able to push it back out immediately. Don't trust a fart for the next few hours. Do something to occupy yourself for a while, but be prepared to just drop whatever you're doing and run to the bathroom.

    Once you're clean and ready for fun -
    Take your lube, and if it has one of the squirty nozzles like a handsoap bottle, place it just inside your butt and squirt lube inside. Don't just apply it topically on your button like a basic bitch - that's not gonna help you.

    For penetration, there's not much else to say. Positions like cowgirl are harder, because muscles in your lower half are engaged as you're having sex. Instead, try laying on your back, lower half relaxed.
    When you squat, with your knees up by your torso, it's easier to take things in/out. So being on your back in this position with your partner doing all the work, is probably the easiest position for beginners.

    Yours faithfully,
    GAGs Resident Degenerate.

    • Thank you! Any lube or toy recommendations?

    • Well, my toys are... not for beginners. I own a couple of absolute monsters.
      But I would just say make sure you use water-based lube. It won't damage toys or condoms like an oil-based would.

      www.amazon.co.uk/Super-Slik-Waterbased-Lubricant-Pack
      Is the exact lube I've been using for years. Reasonably priced, discrete shipping.

    • I don’t have much experience with toys any recommendations for beginners?

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  • I've dine anal more than a few times now. I'm one who isn't crazy on anal as I don't really take much pleasure out of it and honestly only go through with it to please the S. O. that I'm with. An ex was crazed about anal sex and would seem to get off the quickest through anal. My current boyfriend will initiate it every now and then. In prepping for it I'd say to clean yourself, don't eat anything the day before that would cause unwanted bowels/or just eat lightly, make sure you aren't feeling bloated. Try using a toy yourself first to learn how to relax your spincer muscles and to get use to the feeling/idea of well something going inside you that isn't meant to be penetrated. Take the lead when you're trying anal by communicating what you want and how you want things paced. Lube up his penis, and lube up not just the outer part of your anus but inside as well by inserting a finger or two before taking it in with the guy's dick.

    • Have you ever sucked the dick immediately after it’s been in your butthole?

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  • Not anal sex, but I do enjoy prostrate orgasms with a butt plug.

    The key is lubricant and go slow, entering as the anus opens up.

    Do it correct there is zero pain, only pleasure and orgasm.

  • Douche, lube, relax and on all fours. Have a pillow or something to cuddle so you can relax more. And have a partner you can trust.

    • Thank you

  • I did it twice, and had a lot of girls ask me to. I just can't get over the mental block of omg there's shit on my dick! so I go limp as a noodle, on your end, preparation. Make sure you poop beforehand, wipe well, if you have flushable baby wipes, good on you, have some lube, and someone who will go slow. Also not go limp like me lol

  • It hurt like hell the first time, but then it went better. Now it is only a bit uncomfortable when my boyfriend fucks me anal. My advice is to try it simply with a lot of lubricant and then very carefully and make your man widen your anus with his fingers in advance.

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  • Yeah I acutally had anal before I lost my virginity

    • What’s your advise?

    • Lots of lube, go slow. In my experience it is painful but it feels good at the same time

    • @_uck_uckGoose you should have him lick you back there first

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  • I have. Use lots of lube and go slow. It’s also really important that you relax and get really warmed up. If you aren’t turned on and relaxed, you’re more likely to clench up, and then it’s gonna hurt.

  • If you want to try it that's already "half the battle." How easy or difficult it is from there depends on how much control you have over your body. If you can loosen up consciously, then it'll become very simple indeed. Otherwise methods exist for it. They just take patience and lots of lube. I suggest a half-glass of wine to get things moving in that direction.

    • Don’t drink

    • Well, alchohol is kind of a "cheat," anyway. It's better to do it without the training wheels. So, you'll want to figure out if you prefer to be on top. This gives you more control over the pace of things, but I'd imagine it's harder to relax when you're expecting yourself to keep things interesting. If you're fairly certian that won't be a problem for you, maybe taking top is something to consider. If you don't want to be on top, I've found the spoon position works best for those new to anal. It still gives you some control and the angle makes it slightly difficult for the guy to get too aggressive. Plus it allows his hands access to more of your body, which is critical to the success of anal. However, if you are certian in your submissiveness, then face down is my favorite. He'll still have an acceptable amount of access to you with his hands and the position allows for total relaxation on your part. Don't do this unless he knows what he's doing, though. And don't just take his word that he knows what he's doing. Ask him to describe it. If he seems to think that with a little bit of stimulation you'll be aching to have it in you, then he doesn't know what he's doing. Regardless of how into it you are, for the first couple of attempts it takes time to stretch it out comfortably. If he doesn't seem to get that, you should consider taking top or spooning.

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  • LUBE I love it now but lube helped me to get use to it

  • Take some lube and practice with your finger first to get comfortable with it I guess?
    It took my last partner a few tries before she was happy with a penis in there.
    I was indifferent to doing it.
    I never asked.
    Eventually she was very into it and she would start initiating it.

  • I highly recommend that you read the myTake on "Soft Anal" that @purplepoppy wrote and posted. You can find it by going to her profile and scrolling down a bit in her myTakes section. If you've never had anal sex before I think what she describes in her myTake is what you want to experience. And even aside from the content it's a very good piece of writing.

    • Thanks you

  • Use lots of lube as there I no natural lube produced in there. Go slow and enjoy.

  • It’s not for everyone. Relax relax relax. Use lube make sure he’s gonna be very gentle. It’s a very emotional act

  • Yep been w a few babes who liked it. Have your boyfriend start w fingers. LOTS of lube once you are ready. Tell him first time just insertion. You'll need to work upto the full meal deal.

    • Thanks

    • No prob.

  • Well I'd have to say I have never had anal sex so I couldn't help you out there I would like to try it sometime I think

  • Lube is your best friend lol and go slow at first so you can accomodate it

  • Yes, I had it once and the orgasm I experienced was intense! It was more intense than even a prostate massage and oral/vaginal sex.

  • Yes. Relax use lube make sure he know to go slooowwwew

  • Shower before hand giving it a bit penetration too. Use lots of lube. Be on bottom in a position you feel comfortable and safe. Don't do it with someone you don't trust. Start small and slow. Simple really.

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