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Have You/Would You Ever Have Anal Sex?
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Thank you all for the detailed responses.💭 I enjoy reading and really appreciate all the tips! Here's what I learned: 🤓 1. Needs lots of lubricating 2. It *can* be enjoyable if done correctly 3. It *will* hurt, that's unavoidable 4. It's an exit not an entrance 5. Good hygiene is imperative 6. Many people are grossed out by the thought 7. I still don't know if I'd ever try it but I'm a bit more open to the idea after seeing what the girls had to say.
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What Girls & Guys Said
20 74I'd hit the vagina behind
Giggles 😂
@secret6620 Awww cute 😂🤣
I experience Anal sex (as a giver only) with my ex girlfriend in the past and I enjoy it so much because the sensational pleasure increases the male sex drive and she had a major orgasm. There is a way to do it without experiencing pain and without accidents but it's very true that it is taboo; and most women doesn't want to tryout because of the complaints like it's painful (hurt) and it's disgusting as well as its uncomfortable because of bad experiences or what they heard; and Most Men won't do it because they considered as Male gay sex, Pride, and it's disgusting. I am engaged now to my woman and she said that she is willing to try it when we get married, although Vaginal Sex will always be number 1 but the experience is to show her that she should have no shame, and I enjoy every part of her body.
Yes! It's not for everyone. There's a saying "don't knock it till u try it." If u are curious, u can try it. Once u try it, u can make the decision no more or go again. It's up to u. It's ur body, u do whatever u want. Just as long the significant other is respecting ur decision. It all depends.
Not really interested in that. I just don't want anyone in that area of my body.
I feel the same way! It just seems like a bad idea.
If someone went too hard, I just don't want to deal with butt injuries.
That's EXACTLY what I was thinking. The hole is so small, I fear that anal would cause painful rips and tears. 😣 Doesn't sound fun at all.
Yeah and I'm too squeemish to deal with medical treatment or problems down there sooo... yeah especially with newer guys who are less experienced... no thank you.
Yes & it's amazing <3 any girlfriend i've introduced to anal sex has said it's unreal, the intensity in much stronger,
Anal sex is about being relaxed in that situation & that can only happen if both party's have trust & are in agreement of boundaries, Don't lose out on the experience for fear of it not fitting ;-)
3 key ingredients; 1/ water-based lube, 2/ More water-based lube, 3/ plenty more water-based lube ;-) when you start applying the lube around your partners anus using a circular motion, this act's as a stimulant & Lady's you'd be very surprised exactly how wide it can open, inserting 1 finger, then 2 fingers so on, eventually when he start pressing the first part, guy's tell you girl how hot & sexy she is reassuring her all the way, this is the tricky part, as he pushes the rim will open & then you'll get a pop as the head of the penis enters, LOADS MORE LUBE & MORE, now girls you take control now & push back at your own pace, keep topping up with lube...
i'm sure the tales that women of have little "fairy poo's" aren't true, i can only imagine the gurt of some specimens exiting in other situations ;-)
Give it a shot, you won't regret it x also while we're on the exit comment above, always remember hygiene is key x
I typically prefer oral or vagina sex but will do anal if my partner enjoys it or wants to try it. however it typically required cleaning the area before hand, foreplay and lube to reduce the pain and increase the pleasure.
Oh okay! Thank you for explaining your answer for me. I appreciate the help.
if a person is interested in trying anal it's wise to get a verity of toys in different sizes and slowly grow used to the idea of having something though that hole.
enter though that hole*
oOoOO! That makes sense. Thank you for sharing some tips for me. It was VERY helpful feedback!
np and yw
I might if someone I liked really wanted it, but I haven't before and don't want to in the least.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! 💭
I don't really get the appeal, I like my dick fresh and clean please
Giggles 😁
Not in a hurry to get penetrated either LoL
I will never stick my penis in anyone’s butthole. I don’t want an STD and I don’t want to hurt them or tear their butthole so that they need to wear diapers.
You can only get an STD if the person you're with is infected with one. Anal sex doesn't create STDs. But IF your partner is infected, anal sex increases the chance of you contracting whatever diseases they have.
Update your sexual education. You don't just get STDs/STIs from anal sex. You can get STDs/STIs from ANY sexual contact - oral, vaginal or anal. Condoms can protect you and lower your risk of getting an STD/STI. If you want to be sure, get tested for STDs/STIs and have your partner do the same. And stay with ONE PARTNER. As for anal, you'll only hurt them if you aren't doing it right. Use plenty of lube, engage in plenty of foreplay and communicate. Go slow and you'll be fine. You won't cause tearing and the whole diaper thing is BS. You won't put your partner in diapers by having anal sex lmao
I’ve never had vaginal sex or anal sex with anyone. My penis never touched a vagina and one girl and I just used our hands when playing with our genitals. My penis went in between her breasts and I’m going to lose my virginity on the wedding night so I’m not going to use condoms.
Congrats, you're waiting til marriage. That doesn't make a difference. I wasn't saying YOU had to. I was saying condoms are how you can help protect yourself from diseases.
Nope never done it. Me and my wife read up on it and I said that looks like that would hurt you! She said you would have the worst of it. I said in what way? She said you want your penis to be covered in shit? I said no way so that was that.
Giggles! Thank you for sharing your story and experience with this topic.
Few occasions
Hopefully it was an enjoyable experience
No although I'd love to explore stimulating the g-spot with a toy, I even bought a fox tail if the occasion ever presents itself. I pride myself on my skill as a lover. I'm very selective in a partner though so may take some time for this fantasy to become a reality.
Great feedback! Thank you for explaining your answer for me.
Oh it will Fit
You can do Exercises To Make your asshole Bigger. I ounce Hung out with a Girl that could Stick her entire hand and Her arm in her asshole.
OMG 😱😱😱
Yess I have and its great
Thank you for sharing some of your experiences!
I have, it has to go real slow though, anal fissures are probably a good way to fuck your week up.
I just used lots of her favourite lube, and moved at a pace she dictated.
And in the end I didn't enjoy it much, so I never asked her to let me knock on the backdoor again.
Thanks for your help!
Yes I have and I would do it again. Some women love anal sex. A few have even had orgasms from it. You just have to take time to prepare for penetration. You can't just stick it in like you do a vagina
That makes a lot of sense! Thank you for your help
You're welcome. Love seeing your questions again.
Yay! I wish I had more leisure time so I could post more though. I have a lot of questions I still need help with. 😭
I know how you feel. There isn't enough hours in the day
I agree 100%
I have done it, on both ends. But not with the person I want to, but if they ain't up for it, then we won't
That makes sense!
I tried it couple of times but I don't know if I’ll be doing it again tho 🤔
Completely understandable!
I love anal sex but my wife hates it and says it hurts so we don’t do it.
I've had it in the bum
Was it terribly painful?
It's just a very weird, uncomfortable feeling
Not painful tho
Oh I see! Thank you for taking the time to respond. I appreciate the help.
Np, although I've never had anything bigger than a butt plug, but I'm sure a big dick would hurt
I have and received "pegging", and it's enjoyable just got to start slow and plenty of lube. Also preferably the guy isn't huge.
Thank you for explaining your answer! And for sharing your experiences with this topic 💭