Having Great Sex Means Knowing Whether You're Dominant or Submissive

[TravDog321]

I've always been naturally dominant in the bedroom and always craved naturally submissive girls. I just never click for that great sex if they're not interested in me enough to be recognizably submissive.

Luckily, 2 years ago amidst the whole 50 Shades fad, I discovered BDSM and kink lifestyles as well as friends living them, and found out that there are millions who have come before me and articulated my exact desires and how to match with an equal but opposite Yin to my sexual Yang. I am glad things are getting more liberal, but it still is not something anyone can be completely open about without facing severe judgement. I'm not a weirdo. I don't like hurting women. If a woman likes a little pain and manhandling because it turns her on like nothing else and gives her better and more frequent orgasms, it's very hot to me. If she was actually in discomfort I'd be nauseated. It's all about context, so examine in your own mind which you are. Do you like to manhandle and be in charge, or be commanded and roughed up? There is a spectrum and I'm a lot further on the dominance side as I have an enormous sex drive and therefore it's a much bigger issue for me. Some people are even both. Find out which you are and you will have much hotter sex :)