Having sex with a virgin?

Question

I started dating this amazing guy, and he told me that he never had sex before. Do you have any tips on how can I make it easier for him? And how I can make sure he's having a good time?

bzcxx · Accepted Answer

firstly, don’t expect much. he’s not going to last anywhere long enough compared to what you’re expecting. most virgin guys cum in a matter of minutes, and even ejaculating after a few thrusts is not uncommon.
try to go slow (and easy) on foreplay. you don’t want him cumming before you even get to the good part. virgin guys aren’t used to the intense pleasurable sensations that we typically experience during sex or blowjobs.
they may be masturbating often (even with sex toys), but it feels really different from sex. yeah masturbation is good and all, but compared to sex? don’t even try comparing.
i’ll be honest. i didn’t long very long the first time - 7 minutes at most. the feeling that we get inside a warm, tight pussy is incomparable - it’s literally heaven. unlike masturbation, we can literally feel the wetness and walls of our partner grip and “milk” us of every drop. each thrust is filled with pleasure and all i can think of is “how much longer will i last inside her?”.
if you want him to last long enough for both of you to experience the wonders and pleasures of sex, id recommend that you get him to masturbate (and ejaculate - this is important) about an hour before. this will allow him to last significantly longer in bed and will prevent disappointment to a certain degree.
if you can spare the time and want him to experience new and wonderful things, then don’t get him to masturbate beforehand. instead, spread out his “first time” into three parts. maybe you can allocate the first session to blowjobs - this is every guy’s dream. we fantasise about cumming in a girl’s mouth every time we jerk off, and virgin guys always wonder what it feels like to have a hot girl suck them off. trust me - it feels so amazing and i personally prefer them over sex. though take note that there’s a high chance that he’ll cum in a minute or two of you blowing him. you could use the second session for sex - let him finally experience the joys of sex and how wonderful it feels like to be inside a girl. i asked you to set aside time for a third session because i know for a fact that he’ll be cumming deep inside you within a minute or two, so the next session can be set aside for you to get some pleasure and satisfaction, and for him to have another shot at it.
if you really want him to jump you the moment you undress, or give him the most mind-blowing orgasm he’ll ever experience, then make him resist temptation and not abstain from masturbating (or any form of sexual release) a week prior to losing his virginity. trust me, his legs will be so jelly from that orgasm, he wouldn’t be able to stand up straight.

GingerGuy · Accepted Answer

Communicate. Just like if it was you (or if you remember your first time), you want to make him feel as relaxed as possible and comfortable with you. He's going to be nervous of course, have anxiety, self conscious probably etc. And if he orgasms quickly (which is very likely), don't make him feel bad for it. Say something like "yay! I did my job" or something like that. Worst thing is silence, or showing disappointment (even if you are) because that only increases his insecurities. The goal remember is to make him relaxed and comfortable. And if/when he orgasms, if it's (too) quick, don't let the sex stop there. Go for round 2. You can make out, massage, etc until he's hard and ready to go again (which won't be long likely) and he'll go longer the 2nd time. And by then he'll be feeling pretty relaxed with you also probably.

Sweepthelegjonny · Answer

Expect him to be nervous! Other than that, try to not put so much emphasis or pressure on a first time.

boggboss · Answer

He will have a good time either way with the exception off a women foing absolutely nothing its hard for a guy not to enjoy sex just be patient and understand the sex will not be the best or the longest