Having sex with an innocent looking person?

I started seeing a guy recently and he told his best friend (who's also my friend) that he really likes me but he's scared to have sex with me because I look "innocent and pure". I don't know how to take it, is it bad that I look innocent?
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  • That’s the most sincere compliment a girl can get, he basically means that you are so beautiful and girly that he’ll “ruin” you with sex, he still thinks you’re sexy but you’re so damn cute.

    its a common thought that come across our mind when we like a really sweet/cute girl, it’s a a very positive thing that he thinks this way about you, don’t brake his heart

    • Thank you for your helpful reply. But do you think it means that we will never have sex? Or is it just a compliment? Thanks again <3

    • lol of course he still wants to have sex with you, he just thinks you’re not just raw sexuality, just behave normally with him, I wasn’t complimenting you, he really likes you, but as I said he would still want to have sex with you

  • No, it's often a good and appealing thing. But it can make us hesitant at times. I assure you that our hesitance is not an indication that your innocent-look is a bad thing.

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  • sounds like it be getting in the way of the sex stuffs. but i think u can counter that if u become more assertive. for example say a guy want 2 have sex with a chicken. but he is afraid he will corrupt the chicken. so he try to talk to it and talk about the sex stuffs but the chicken is only like, bawk bawwwkk! then he feel like he can't really connect to this person. and now if he has sex with the chicken it almost feels like he is raping the chicken, even if the chiken is like ooooooh! aahhhh! u know. cuz its very pure

    • but lets say the chicken is like, i like 2 watch porno and rub my clit all night long thinking of u. then the guy is like, okay this chicken not so pure. its been around. im not taking anything. im not gonna traumatize it. might as well go anal. sounds like she is ready

  • Are you virgin? if no then tell him, because it means that you not truly innocent and pure. :)

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TheFakeCutie

  • Hell no! I wouldn't think so. My ex looked like this shy, demure, sweet little angel. Looks were definitely deceiving! This girl was a freakin wild cat! Sure, she was all sweet and innocent in public around people but you get her alone away from others and watch the f--- out! If you like this guy and want to rev up his engine then show him you are not too innocent. A little naughtiness can go a long way.

  • My girlfriend is what would be an "innocent looking person" until she met me😂. Tbh I think your friend is tripping with not wanting to have sex with you due to how innocent you look. Sex is normal after all. Looking innocent isn't bad, to me it's cute.

  • You picked a boy.

  • It is rather a compliment. Friendly and frank talks with him will pacify his mind.

  • i don't understand that one

  • No worries, just physically show him that your not innocent and pure.

  • Freak in sheets that's my kinda woman

  • No, it’s just a way for a guy to say you are probably out of his league!

  • Innocent looking ones chicks are the freakiest.

  • May that guys preference.. He may doesn't like innocent girls..

  • it is an offhanded complement. just prove him wrong

  • My boyfriend enjoys that since he has a corruption kink, but maybe its just not his thing