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Having sex with my hands tied?

my boyfriend and I wanna try having sex while my hands are tied above my head. it's actually my idea cuz the idea of it turns me on to a whole different level and I want him to have some power over me. he was ready to do it even same night but I got nervous hahaha girls have you tried this before and is it really pleasurable? guys is it a turn on for you and what do I have to expect him doing with my body hahaha.. I'm kinda nervous since I won't be able to use my hands or anything also should he cover my eyes as well or not?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's a turn on for me. Expect a lot of teasing. I've done it with my girlfriend and kissed her all over her body, like from her lips all the way down to her stomach but skipped over her vagina before going to her thighs and all the way down her legs to her toes and back up. Only after taking my time on that, I went down on her until she orgasmed and then had sex with her. With a blindfold can be even more fun because you can't see what he's going to do so it helps build the anticipation.

    • it sounds just right 👍👍 bet you had so much fun hahaha. I've actually seen it only in movies and I am not really into bdsm but tying hands or handcuff turn me on for some reason

  • When I was younger and much thinner, I would hold my wife's hands above her head while I fucked her. She loved that and it turned me on since it was very dominate

    • Yeah he does that too, but I think tying my hands will be a different experience

Most Helpful Girls

  • It can be pleasurable if it is something that you are interested in. If it is something that you are doing just to make him happy, then I would say don't do it. If you are getting nervous about it, then I would wait as well because you freaking out while it's happening is going to be a mood killer.

    Only cover your eyes if you are ready to be deprived of two senses at the same time.

    • haha it's actually something he will do for me, cuz I'm the one who wants it but kinda nervous when it's about to get real. my heart skips 291718 beats hahaha

    • If you are nervous about it, then I wouldn't say you are ready for it.

  • Yes, I love being tied up while having sex, it's a big turn on. Also when he makes me deep throat while my hands are tied. Yummy.

  • I find it a massive turn on when we do it as I have no control and am totally vulnerable xx

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  • It is fun, yeah - entirely up to you as to whether you cover your eyes, but as for the rest, relax and let him do the work.

  • I love it but the wife doesn't cause of control issues.

    • what do you mean?

    • She has to be in control and if her hands are tied then it freaks her out.

    • wait? do you like your hands tied, or to tie hers up?

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  • is communication and Trust in make sure you talk about everything with him

  • Certainly sounds it could sparkle u your live life. Never done it though 😊

    • haha do you wanna try it though?

    • Love to try if my girl will allow 😊

  • Sounds fun...

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