He "accidentally" took a picture of my vagina?

I was naked with my boyfriend and he was admiring the tattoo on my leg. He snapped a picture of it but you could also see my vagina in the picture. He told me he'd delete it but admitted to me later that he never did. Why would he keep it after I asked him to delete it? Should I be worried?
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Why would he want to take a picture of my vagina though? It's just a vagina
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm pretty sure knotme is right and he lied when he said he took it by accident. Which makes the uncomfortable feeling increase by a lot, even if you're not worried in the first place.
    If my boyfriend wanted a vagina pic, all he'd have to do is ask. If I'm sleeping with him, I trust him and love him. There's no reason not to make him happy.
    But if he's being dishonest and taking it "accidentally", I'd feel played and wonder why he feels the need to decieve me like this. I'd be very saddened and uncomfortable with it if I suspected him.

    If you feel the same way, just tell him all I wrote above.
    But if you ALREADY don't trust him even though you're sleeping with him, that's a problem much bigger than the picture taking itself. It can crush your relationship before it even starts.
    And if the relationship is ruined because he is a scumbag, then that picture could ruin you as well.

    Try to establish trust by communicating openly, before you go around worrying and sneaking into his technology to find the pic.

    • Yeah, I mean I trust him, but the fact that he would be so sneaky about taking the picture makes me a little uncomfortable.

    • Ok, then you have a starting point. Tell him that honestly. Talk to him and tell him how bad it makes you feel. Tell him it's not about the picture, but that you feel deceived. Not to mention him having deceived you during such an intimate act. Don't keep this in not to look paranoid, you won't be a better girlfriend for it. You can only be good if you're honest about what you feel and think.

  • I doubt it was an accident, if he won't delete it after you ask him too, there's an issue there. You need to draw the line and let him know you would like it deleted very sternly so he knows boundaries.

  • First of it's not an accident lol. second, puttung myself into his shoe, if I snap a picture of my bf's penis, I wouldn't delete it. Why? Becauseeeeeeeeeeee. Duhhhh!!

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's a vagina, Guys like vaginas. Having a pic from a naked girl that i've seen in real life is way more "naughty" than seeing some random girl's vagina on the internet.
    He knows you and that pussy pic makes him feel special.
    If you should be worried about the pic itself? Yes, a bit. Even if your boyfriend doesn't have bad intentions, those pics could easily get on the internet by different ways: phone is hacked, phone is lost, his friends might search through his phone, find the photo and share it.
    The fact that you've asked him to delete it but he didn't comply with your request, that's what should make you worry too.
    And you don't seem to trust him enough. So my advice is: if you don't trust him, don't get naked with him.

  • Its not just a vagina its your vagina and he likes to see it when your not there. If you want it erased make him erase it while your standing there. noone has the right to keep a picture of that nature if you dont want him to. good luck

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  • It's on the INTERNET now!

    • which site? :)

    • LOL, probably 5-10 of them by now!

  • This was no accident! He now has forever a pic of your pussy to show his buddies

  • Yep there's no accident to that and even more encouraging it can easily be all over the web really quickly

  • It was no accident

  • That was about as accidental as a prison shanking.

    • lmfao!!!

    • Lmfao!

    • Omg I needed that

  • Yeah, it's highly unlikely that it was an accident. And him keeping the picture is a breach of trust, which is not cool.

    I'd just tell him that he needs to delete it and never do it again, as that kind of behavior won't work for you.

  • Why would you position yourself to so he can see your pussy?
    I don't blame him your to blame for showing your body off and
    sounds like your being bit immature , If the guys a perv get rid
    of him Judas Priest

    • If he is nice guy and careless takes pics of you than don't worry unless he got your pics out there surrounded the whole world gees

  • Because it is *your* vagina, and therefore quite charming to look at. :p And don't worry about it. Even if he posted a sex tape of you two, someone could watch 10,000 sex videos and never come close to seeing it.

    • Yeah, he always talks about how "beautiful"My vagina is so I guess I know why he'd keep it... it just makes me angry

    • You do know that literally like half the internet is porn? Even if he took a hundred pics of your vagina, odds are no one you ever meet will ever see it.

  • because he want to look at it later, and guess what. It was not an accident

  • Its YOUR vagina. The center of his world. If your face is not in the picture, worry not.

  • That has happened to me like a million times. Total accident ;))))! LOL!

    • So that must mean there are a million pictures of your goodies on the internet. Just raised the odds of being able to find your pics among the millions. ;-}

    • Lol. Happy hunting!

  • I don't think it was an accident. if you are uncomfortable with him having the picture on his phone, make sure he deletes it.

  • because taking a picture lasts much longer

  • He keeps it cuz he gonna jerk off to it later on when u aren't here with him. Its a perrty nice sight tbh x)

  • "Why would he want to keep it?" Is he gay? Cause if he's not I think u know y

  • Yeah that wasn't an accident, talk to him about that because he clearly broke your trust.

  • because guys love girls, and desire them and their body, and guys are just different than girls

  • I'd snatch his phone and delete it

  • Accident my butt lol. He knew what he was doing.