He always says he never wants kids but we have unprotected sex?

The guy I’m sleeping with always says how he doesn’t like or want kids (not pertaining to me, just in general) but we never use protection when have sex. He pulls out everytime but we don’t use condoms and I’m not on birth control so it’s still risky. Why would he be so lax about it if he is so against having kids?
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  • No the question you should the asking is why are you allowing this to happen when you he says told you he doesn't want kids and he's being selfish and basically flipping you the bird as he sticking his dick in you because you know damn well if you were to get pregnant he's not going to be there or he's going to want you to get an abortion or something I mean this question is more for you you are the boss of your body why would you allow a man to do that this is a question you need to be at answering 100% honestly because you're the person is going to get hurt

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  • He incorrectly believes that pulling out (coitus interruptus) prevents pregnancy, which it doesn't. That's been shown to be only around 50% effective. Why, because there is sperm in precum,; and because sometimes the guy doesn't pull out in time; and even if he does pull out in time, the semen often goes near the vagina and some of it can go inside.

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  • I haven’t met many guys who like to wear condoms. I messed around with a lot of guys when I was younger who didn’t want kids either but pulled out instead of wearing a condom because it feels better. They don’t think about the consequences until you’re late. Then they panic.

  • He is so not care about your body. If you accidentally get pregnant, taking plan b or abortion are both coming with bad side effect on girls body. Be responsible and wear condom.

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  • you're both idiots. Why aren't you on birth control? Are you trying to get pregnant?

  • He obviously doesn't understand that pulling out isn't a method of birth control. You'd be surprised at the number of people who actually think it works as birth control.

    Some day he'll cum a cropper!

    Sorry for the pun, actually not sorry, that was hilarious 🤣

  • First, if you do not want to get pregnant, don't let him go bare back again.
    Tell him that id he wants that, you will expect 18 years of child support and maternity expenses.

  • Pull and pray things.

  • He probably just hates condoms, but you are both taking risks.

  • I think if you become preggo, good chance hell step out for smokes and forget to return

  • Because he is irresponsible like you and doesn't care about the consequences.

  • that means if you get pregnant he will leave you or want you to have an abortion. He wants you on birth control so he can have his cake and eat it too. He is using you and you should leave him or tell him no more sex without him wearing a condom...

  • will soon he will be having a child and it will be with you precum makes you pregnant also so if you continue this way enjoy, your baby

  • Sexy with out protectionis so horny

  • Um BCP time, IUD hello?

  • Condoms suck because they don't feel anything and it's impossible to stay hard unless your uncircumcised or something. Still not worth the risk though because having kids mean you can't have sex as often