He asked for my brutally honest opinion about his penis size, and I said I thought it was average. Now he is mad. What do I do?

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We are not in a serious relationship, it’s just casual. He is 47 and I’m 39. He brings it up in every conversation, that I think he has a small penis. I never used the word small! I told him that I would never ask him that type of question. He’s been with over a hundred women, and several strippers! I know I’m average in looks. I don’t need to ask. I’ve only been with 8 guys but yes, one or two were bigger than him. I tried to explain that bigger penises are not all they are cracked up to be, most women would not do anal with a bigger one (which is his favorite thing.) He just won’t let it go and I’m getting fed up.

joeshi · Accepted Answer

If it’s nothing serious then drop the dude! No sense of getting frustrated over someone who isn’t real to you. Easily you can find casual sex with someone else who may have a bigger penis 🙃 and he can go a head and continue having sex with strippers , easy. Or if your already comfortable everytime he talks about some problem leave. Train him to only be sexual and not emotional / problematic 👍🏽

Js138 · Accepted Answer

A lot of men have this problem. I know it's counterintuitive, as honesty is always the best policy in relationships, but I tend to stretch the truth just to make a man feel better. I wouldn't like hearing about how one of his exes were better than me in some way, so I feel its better to give them a little confidence boost... even if they are average.

Flower-petal · Accepted Answer

What a big baby. Besides does he know how to use it? That's the important thing well besides his use of mouth and hands

Underduress · Accepted Answer

Chalk it up, lie next time and put yourself down as #101. It sounds like this insecurity is deeper than just a dk and that just triggered it. And we wonder why women lie about penis size so much. Basic rule of thumb I would say is if a guy ever/even asks you about his dk you are on thin ice and this guy probably is insecure about it so lie.

PoliceLivesMatter · Accepted Answer

Over a hundred women? Geez
If he’s insecure it could be that he was ALWAYS this way and it unfortunately never left him OR he just likes you and cares about your opinion more, either way, tell him he feels good and that he’s more than enough to please you.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Ask him if he is looking for an excuse to "break up" with you.

matheus_mb · Answer

He's paranoid about size, there's nothing you can do about it.

QueenofCups · Answer

If it's just casual, you should find a different guy.

Pegases · Answer

This sounds a lot like the reverse situation where a woman asks a man if she looks fat in that dress. The way you would want your man to answer you in that situation, is the way you should answer him in this situation.

outsidecurve · Answer

He trapped you. It's the same as when a girl asks a guy if she's fat. Even if she is fat, you never say that. If he's this old and still can't get over his insecurities he never will. Good luck getting him to let this one go.

Dougan1980 · Answer

Honesty is best

scuff1986 · Answer

if its not serious then let his wallow and move on, he asked so he should be man enough to accept the answer

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

Absolutely nothing. If it's not a serious relationship and he's that upset, just walk away. He asked for it, and you were honest with him. You've fulfilled any obligation you may have had to him.

MiamiMadness · Answer

Are you sure he'e even been with that many girls? He sounds very insecure

SebShaw82 · Answer

Tell him that he has only himself to blame. Anyone who asks for a brutally honest opinion should leave their ego at the door and be prepared for an answer they don't like. I have no sympathy for him.

breatheinout · Answer

Seriously? If he asks you to be honest and you are then he should expect you to be, well, honest. This guy and his ego are unnecessary in your life and I would say you could do better. Find a different guy. Please.

es20490446e · Answer

Do nothing, is his penis as it is.

Wi_Fi · Answer

Yeah your relationship is over.  He obviously was very insecure about his size and you made his biggest insecurity a reality by confirming he's "average " . I don't know how you come back from that.