He blocked me after having sex?

[Anonymous]

Was i that bad in bed? What are some things i couldve done wrong that drove him to block me completely?

[Anonymous]

Sorry. It’s not about you, though. It never was. He’s a just a jerk who got what he wanted and doesn’t want to hear any more from you.

What you probably did wrong was assume that he wanted something from you beyond sex. It is a classic woman’s mistake to think that having sex will turn what you have into a real relationship. The opposite is true and now you have evidence of it. The only way to make a loving relationship happen is to wait for sex until you’re reasonably sure the guy sees you as more than a penis receptacle. Sorry for the harsh language, but that’s how lots of guys think, and you should be aware of it.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry he did that, but only he can say why. But my guess is that was all he wanted from you and he got it, that's it end of story. Had no romantic interest at all. Nothing to do with you or how you preformed likely, nothing at all. Simply 100% self absorbed, wanted sex and he got it, moving on. Sadly how some people are.

[Asker]

I'll keep telling myself that but part of me knows it was my fault he didn't stay

[Opinion Owner]

No it's not trust me. Even if the sex was not great, nobody should expect it to be the first time. Great sex comes from communication and getting to know each other and their likes and dislikes. If he actually liked you or had any interest, he'd simply talk to you and work on this, not block you. And blocking someone, that's just selfish, immature and cowardly don't you agree? Be glad someone like that is out of your life! You're hurting because I'm guessing you really liked him, but he's just 100% selfish and had no respect for you at all. And this would have happened regardless of what you did, because that was all he wanted. He didn't want anything else.

[Kabluie]

We could find out together, then have the block or not checklist before we end the date.

[magiusX26]

likely all he wanted was sex. he got that and doesn't want any backlash for casting you aside afterwards.

[leohholl]

honey you came across a female hunter, make sure she does it all the time

[Asker]

Female hunter sounds like a badass name actually

[leohholl]

My English this much i'm italian😀

[In_Trance]

probably nothing. That's all he wanted

[H8INCHES]

All he ever wanted was sex.