He blocked me after I told him that Sex was a mistake?

I told him today that the sex we had yesterday was a mistake. And he blocked me because I said that I didn't feel anything for him and that I am stupid for giving in.
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  • 1. You two have sex.
    2. You tell him you “didn’t feel anything for him, you were “stupid for giving in” and that sex with him was a “mistake.”
    3. He blocks you.

    I’m not sure how else to explain it. What you said to him was pretty cold and heartless. It’s best for the both of you to go your separate ways.

  • Were you able to explain that, or did he let you? Because he would've took it personally (as would've you right if it were reversed?). It wouldn't make him feel good in any way, so he probably just figured you wanted nothing more to do with him maybe?

    • Well kindaaa

Most Helpful Girls

  • It’s probably for the best for both of you. If you don’t have feelings and believe being intimate with him was a mistake, I’m not sure why you care he blocked you.

    Sounds as if this is the best outcome, given there are no connective feelings to him. Take it as a blessing in disguise and move on.

    • I agree thanks Priya

    • Most welcome! Have a lovely Sunday 🙂

    • Thank u, u as well

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    what a snowflake

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  • Sex before marriage is a mistake.

    • If you get pregnant don’t make a mistake. See parent please.

    • We had condoms

    • Okay.

  • Well he just showed
    You how immature and exactly who he is what he's all about he's just pissed off because he can't have his way with you he would have done it to you sooner or later I say good job you got your whole life ahead of you don't be in such a hurry
    I can also tell you this is probably a good thing that you did that because sooner or later he's going to hurt you one way or the other

  • He just wanted you for sex. Stuff like that is going to happen a lot when you sleep around.

  • Why are you having sex under the age of 18? That's illegal.

  • It was little too late to say that, now you end up being fucked and dumped.

  • He more than likely took it as an insult towards him, like you didn't enjoy it with him, and that's why you thought it was a mistake, without giving you a chance to explain anything.

  • What did you expect he would do? You dumped him.

  • That sucks but I’m not surprised. He sounds like a dick.

  • Perhaps you should have known him better.

  • I don't see a reason to cut off contact but I guess some people are just easily offended

  • You did the right thing being straight up about it. Next time don’t have sex with a man unless you really want to.

  • What an odd reaction 🤔

    So what's your question?

    • Why he blocked me instead of just talking to me or trying to keep me with him? He just said if you dont want to then okay i am not holding you back or keeping you...

    • I'm sure that what you said hurt him deeply. Out of curiosity, did you tell him all of this over text?

    • Yesss

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  • What a baby.. It's not like you crushed his soul... Oh no wait.. I think you did xD

    • Lol yess but blocking me was actually awful. I lost my virginity to the wrong person...

    • Yeah.. It's a very awkward situation

    • Yeah You can't even imagine how much

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  • Sounds to me like you did the right thing.

    • Don't beat yourself up for it. Just learn and move on.

    • He also openly told me he is a playboy and he had many girls with whom he had sex

    • He's probably full of shit. I hope you blocked him.

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  • Hey, imagine if he had told you exactly what you told him, wouldn't you feel awful? By blocking you, he feels he still has a little respect. And by the way, why do you care? If he was a mistake, why do you want any kind of contact with him? And you didn't give in, you willfully participated in an act. Its like fat people in a diet saying they gave in while eating a pizza, they aren't giving in, they are doing something fully knowing.

  • Well... Yeah?
    If he blocked you he's hurt and don't want you to change your mind and keep hurtig him. Besides, what's the problem if you meant what you said?

  • Don't second guess your decisions especially when they are heat of the moment so to speak. Don't ruin a friendship because of a heat of passion mistake. I think that we all have done that.

  • Where’s the question?

  • Are you surprised?

  • You must be a real Bitch for doing that to him.

    • He told me no one knew about me that hurt me tbh like his parents didn't know and he wanted to have sex outside and he didn't even try to impress me and that was a huge mistake i deserve better

    • He didn't deserve me losing my virginity to him i was just dumb

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