He can only tell me he loves me during sex?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend says he loves me EVERYTIME we have sex, but yet he can't say it when we are not having sex. I start thinking that he loves me for sex and when he says that I means he loves the sex and not me. When I tell him I love him he stares at my eyes and most of the times hide his face after a couple seconds looking into my eyes. And last night when I said that (I feel stupid for even keep saying that) he said "I want to be with you forever" How can he say all of these things but not "I love you"?

[Anonymous]

Girl he loves you. It took me 3 long ass years to tell my boyfriend that I loved him, I said it everytime we were texting but never to his face. Meanwhile he kept saying it for 3 years! Just because it's easy for you to say it out loud everytime doesn't mean it has do be easy for him as well. Maybe he says it during sex cause that's when people get more emotional and maybe it's just easier for him. Guys are simple. If he only wanted sex he would tell you know straight away and wouldn't say those things

[Seawoman1]

yes he loves you he loves having sex with you it's a sucker's play yes I want to keep having sex with you forever he does not say the words because he does not love you but he will say the words when you two were fucking because that's what he loves doing

[CHARismatic110]

Maybe he's just more comfortable saying it in the heat of the moment.

[Azgeda]

Let me put it this way.
If he says
"You filthy fucking slut , suck my dick" in the middle of a brutal romantic conquest , he doesn't actually mean you are a filthy fucking slut.
So in converse if he says "I love you" when he's balls deep. Probably wise to take whatever he says then with a grain of salt.

[MrAssHat]

haha i have had a lot of women say they love me during/after sex even if i just met them.. for some reason its becomes one of those go to words to try and make the sex better

[Asker]

I feel like crying everytime he says it

[MrAssHat]

the word love has lost its true meaning.. Its more of a tool these days at least to men so dont get to worked up by it

[BellePepper]

Hve you asked him?

[Asker]

If he loves me? I want to but at the same time I don't want to make him feel like he owns me that. Like I want him to say it because that's what he feels not because I'm pressuring him to say it

[BellePepper]

Well just like ask him why he only tells you those things after sec

[NJ_Casanova]

If he only says it during sex... he doesn't really love you.

[Rick_Woodlands]

The best way to get a man to admit he loves you is to let him show it. Stop trying to beat it out of him.

If he doesn't show it in his actions, that really is a problem.

[Asker]

I'm not trying anything honestly! I just don't get what's his problem. I will let him say it when he feels like it's about that time. He shows me in actions everyday and call me crazy for that but I get confused cause during sex he says it but not out of it. Thank you so much for your advice!