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He choked me during sex from behind and said it was because he got so turned on. Is this abuse?
Tinytina09 Xper 5
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He’s my coworker by the way
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12 44This is something girls generally like so if he does it and you hate it, make some noise!
if it's not approved by you first
No, some people like rough sex and the more they're turned on, the rougher they get. If you don't like it then tell him that you don't. Maybe you can start by him being slightly less rough and you being more accepting of it being rougher. It may not be as soft/loving as you want and may not be as rough as he wants it, but you may find a middle ground in-between what you want and he wants.
Yes. Physical harm without consent is assault.
"Abuse"... unreal.
rape fantasy. hard sex
How is this abuse?
yes it is and he needs to know that is not what you are into...
If you enjoyed it, then no. If you told him to stop, then maybe.
Quite common thing in sex, but he should have talked to you before doing things like that
If you feel abused, thats usually the evidence.
That's a bit aggressive omg. It may be borderline abuse. Definitely have a conversation with him
Did you consent to him choking you or if you didn't did you tell him to stop because it made you uncomfortable?
If you don't like it, why do you fuck him?
Did he do it with consent?
No he just did it out of the blue
i mean you consented so no it’s not abuse
Certainly if you said that was a no go.
If you didn’t like it and told him to stop and he didn’t then yes,
no, just say your not into that and dont do it again
Absofuckinglutley it is