He choked me during sex from behind and said it was because he got so turned on. Is this abuse?

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He’s my coworker by the way
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  • Well that all depends. Did you tell him to stop if you did and he kept going then it's abuse but I think you liked it and it's okay if you did a lot of girls are into that

  • Hell yes it is

  • Is this something you wanted? If not, it would be closer to assault

  • If you didn't liked it just tell him to not do it again!!

  • Yes if u didn't consent it was abuse..

  • Its depend upon you like it or not?

  • its hard to describe the way it turns us on to see the female in complete misery and in total control

  • Depends on how hard he choked you? LOL if you're like blacking out yeah that's obviously an issue but for me personally I think it's fine.

  • don't have sex with your co-workers

  • I wouldn't jump the gun and call this abuse. If you don't like it then tell me not to do it again. If he continues to do it then yes that's abusive. Some women do like to be choked during sex.

  • If you feel it was then yes it is. Some people like that in a sexual relationship. So that all depends on you. How did it make you feel? If you choose to continue to do such things I’d say use a “safe” word.

  • It's abuse if you tell him you don't like him doing it and he does it again. Choking is actually pretty common these days because of porn. But yeah it can be a turn on sometimes with the right guy.