He claims he doesn’t masturbate?

My boyfriend is 28 years old and he lives with his mom and dad and sister. He also has two cats in the house who sometimes jump on his bed. A couple of times I went to my boyfriends house and seen white looking stains on his blanket that kind of resembles cum stains. I asked my boyfriend if he masturbates and he says no he does not masturbate. Do you think he’s lying or does it sound like something else is going on? Please help
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Superb Opinion

  • It can be from a wet dream (called "pollution"). This can apply especially to a guy who does not masturbate and it is naturally messy.

    He may also release some cum still some time after sex with you, or precum when having horny thoughts which may well be about you.

    Before accusing him of cheating I would then still tend to think that he does masturbate after all. The next likely would be other sources of stains such as shaving cream or toothpaste.

    I think you can relax.

    Also, you may ask him not to masturbate, but I think it only makes sense if you want so much sex that he needs to be careful not to waste his energy, or if it adversely impacts his performance. Conversely, if he has the stronger sex drive between the two of you it can be useful to relax with a bit of masturbation once in a while.

Most Helpful Guy

  • The detail about cats is a nice touch.

    I agree with @Apple1996 most guys masturbate. He may think you'll judge him if he does.

    As for the white stains? He's a slob. Cum goes elsewhere... never on the blanket... guys figure that out young.

    @_Maya_

    • What a stud... two pussies in one bed. No wonder the stains...

    • I know women hate cum in their hair. What do the cats think?

    • Very true. We do. Betcha them hairless cats don't give af. Why I wax my pussy. She doesn't care then. I am lost what I am talking about now.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • He is 28, he should have grown up by now. I would hope he doesn't masturbate.

    • Does it sound like he may be cheating on me?

    • Or could it be his cats are leaving those stains on his bed?

  • 99% of guys masturbate. He's probably lying

    • There are some guys who don't masturbate.. I'm the one who didn't masterbate till age of 28.. recently only i did when I join gag who support of few friends in gag

    • @Prince_09 your the 1% lol

    • You are right Apple except I disagree with you on your percentage it should be 99.9 % of guys masturbate!!!

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  • He's lying

  • All younger guys jerk off frequently but most will never admit it. I do not know why he is ashamed to tell you. Are you two having sex? Maybe give him some handjobs if you are not having sex... guys love them!

  • He is most likely lying, as a man he need to get rid of cum, so he needs a masturbation.

  • I think that's highly unlikely, but I suppose it's possible.

  • If he did why does he feel the need to lie is the better question

    • So do you think he’s cheating, or the cats left stains, or he’s lying about masturbatinf?

    • It might not be cum if he doesn't masturbate but let's be realistic, he's gonna have sex with another woman at his parents house? It can be milk from a cereal bowl he was eating on his bed, I can guarantee you it looks quite similar or toothpaste, also looks very similar if it falls out of your mouth onto a fabric, the possibilities are endless