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2 mo

He comes back to fuck only. Why?

He leads me on, ghost me, running around for someone better and when he is unsuccessful at finding someone new or every time he breaks up, needs a rebound, or feels horny or bored or in self doubt, he comes back to me. Generally for booty call. Why? Everytime he goes through a tough time he comes to me.
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We seperated after i found him cheating on me. Since then it's been four years... he has been reappearing and also getting consistently rejected by me. Yet he again reappears
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Superb Opinion

  • He is a narcissist with no viable options. However, because you would at least talk back to him he believes his chances with you are better than zero, as opposes to women who he speaks to that don't even acknowledge his existence enough to reject him.

    • Makes sense. I have been suspicious of him to be a narcissist

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  • Because it's easy; you're his backup plan. He knows that you'll give him physical pleasure and comfort when he wants it, but he doesn't value or really appreciate your feelings for him.

    • But he never gets physical pleasure at all since we separated four years back. All he gets is blunt and clear rejection. How can he possibly think I'm his back up plan.

    • I wouldn't know. That's something you'd have to ask him.

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  • And you accept him knowing all that.

    • I reject him every fucking time for the last four years. I love him but i ain't stupid. Inspite of consistent rejections he comes back

    • Then why it matters you. He came. You say no... he came back you say no... he is annoying you, you blocked him

    • Because I love him. I am not stupid that's why I reject him cuz i don't trust him. But isn't that what you do when you love him, you try to understand why they do whatever they do. I'm not in denial and i can accept that I'm in love with a man who doesn't want me... cuz everytime I reject him he starts looking somewhere else... but why come back every time after every rejection

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  • You are seriously asking WHY? Uh... because you are easy pussy...

    • That's the point. I'm not. It's been four years everytime he comes each time gets rejected yet appears back

    • You must have said yes at some point.

    • Yes when we first started hanging out. One cheating caught five years back and I was out. Now it's been four years.

  • Because he doesn't really respect you. He sounds like a peach of a guy...

    • I do believe he doesn't respect me.

    • Ya, don't let guys like that be a part of your life, they do nothing but make your life miserable/dramatic. I am sure you can find someone that'll treat you much better.

  • He comes back for the booty call because you like him. When he wants rebound sex you give it to him. If it works, why would he stop?

    • I get it that you’re saying it doesn’t always work with you. But, trust me, it always works. One of his past girls always gives in. Probably more than one. That is a proven formula. And as long as you’re leaving the door cracked open, it’s going to keep including you in that process. …because it works.

    • He doesn't get sex ever since I found him cheating. It's been four years. He always gets rejected. Which is why his plans doesn't work yet he returns back

  • He likes to fuck?

  • Why not?

    • Because he is getting rejected for the last four years consistently. He knows i don't do hook ups and nor do I trust him at all since he first cheated. Inspite of every rejections why?

    • When you say you don't you mean you haven't so far correct?

    • Yes. I caught him cheating on me five years back. Since then I've always rejected him... and even removed each n every mutual of ours.

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  • Well, you always accept him back. It's the same as a girl coming back for a guy to spend money on her.

    • I don't accept him back.

    • Oh, I misunderstood. Do you not shut him down very hard then?

    • Yes. Very bluntly

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  • Because you let him

    • I never let him for last four year. Everytime all he hears is a big fat No. Yet why?

    • How does knowing why help you at all?

    • Cuz i love him unconditionally... doing it from afar silently for the last four years for the reason being... I don't trust him and I'm not stupid enough to let myself get used or strung along. Perhaps even next time I won't accept him but because I love him, i have tried to understand his dilemma, why he does whatever he does.

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  • Because that is all he really wants.

  • That is all you are is a booty call to him. He only wants sex from you and that’s it because he was unsuccessful having sex with a girl he was with or liked he’s probably not gonna have sex.

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