He couldn’t finish and made several excuses now this. Porn addict?

[anonbrunette99]

His excuses where

• it’s not you, I’ve been practicing my stamina, it’s usually bigger than this I usually don’t last that long so this is new to me, it’s medication I’m on, it’s my ptsd, it could be because we known each other when we where younger, all the guys in my family last long…
• he was hesitant to try anything with me again blaming it all on ptsd
• he told me I can get it down far during oral and how most people can’t (but he’s a virgin and never has had head before so how would he know.)

I blocked him because I made me feel terrible knowing he was able to ejaculate this much but couldn’t with me and the several excuses makes it seem like he’s hiding the embarrassing truth

[dudeinohio]

His medication likely is a *big*factor. Antidepressants are widely known to have sexual side effects. I'm on three and it's a major performance killer.

Blocking him was a mistake. Honestly, it seems you have self confidence issues.

It is *extremely* rare that a woman has anything to do with a guys performance.

[anonbrunette99]

What makes you think I have self confidence issues I understand meds have side affects but this is a 22 year old virgin we are talking about here

[dudeinohio]

Doesn't matter if the guy is a virgin or not. You don't know how a guy's body functions. Insofar as your lack of self confidence, I've read a lot of your questions and it's quite obvious.

[Havthrills]

If he's a porn addicted, maybe join him in watching some? You said he's a Virginia, yet are you trying to have sex with him for his first time? He may be addicted to jerking off instead of sex.

[holdem4884]

Probably porn

[ArtemisSilver]

Sometimes a guy just can't relax enough to cum. Why do you have to make negative assumptions?

[anonbrunette99]

Because of all the other info listed

[ArtemisSilver]

Imagine a man shaming a woman because she couldn't cum. Pretty fucked up whatever you're reasoning is. Maybe the poor guy is on anti depressants or something sheesh.

[anonbrunette99]

I was not shaming him!

[ArtemisSilver]

You're right you ghosted him instead well done

[Rudon00]

Nah the dude is on games. Totally wrong.

[anonbrunette99]

You think so? I was honestly disappointed I can’t look passed all that I tried to but I just can’t so he can cum all day to porn but can’t to a real girl when he’s a virgin

[Rudon00]

Yeah that is the issue there. He is ejaculating to some false sense of intimacy when he cannot express that same desire and energy with you in you guys intimacy. I will advise you to break that off with him and look for someone better.

[anonbrunette99]

Thank you I explained the issue to him and how I believe him to be a porn addict. I hope it doesn’t make me sound insecure but the reality of the situation is every woman deserves a man that can finish properly

[Rudon00]

Yes your so right anonbrunette99. You're not insecure for feeling that say.. It very true that every woman deserve to be fulfilled sexually in bed and to be loved and cherish by a man.

[Dantezam]

I'm sorry you had such a bad experience, there's nothing wrong with you

[anonbrunette99]

Do you think he’s a porn addict

[Dantezam]

Most likely!

[anonbrunette99]

It wouldn’t be a bad thing if it didn’t affect his performance to such extent. No use wasting my time on a dead end he needs help

[Dantezam]

At least he made you cum?

[nudeNhorny]

Yes, most likely a porn addict

[eagle1951]

damn

[anonbrunette99]

Damn what? It was correct to leave him be right? Clearly he has issues?

[eagle1951]

that he does, you did right

[Anonymous]

Did you try titty fucking him?

[Anonymous]

Porn addicts make the worst lovers.