He couldn't stay hard but giving me head?

He couldn't stay hard but he was insist on giving me head/licking my pussy. Am I the problem? Isn't he attracted to me?

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  • He is probably suffering from erectile Disfunction and is embarrassed to admit it , Sadly ED is a very common thing for a lot of guys more than you can think it’s very common these days He should honestly go to the doctor and get it checked out , ED is caused from a lot of things , could be from the foods he eats , it can be stress , or it can be caused from alcohol or smoking if he does those things , so he is best to go get it checked out. know most girls’ just assume it’s her but that’s probably not the case what so ever , Most guys’ won’t have sex with a girl he isn’t attracted to so don’t think it’s you , His doctor will more than likely prescribe him viagra or Cialis etc. depending on what is causing him to go limp. The best thing for you to do , if you really like this guy , is to support him and don’t make him feel bad for suffering from this , sometimes girls’ can say the wrong things and make a guy more nervous and stressed out that she is going to leave him for someone else or h make him feel like she is going to cheat on him , because he can’t stay hard , so my advice to you is to support him , and don’t make it about yourself, you can also tell him to purchase generic viagra like blue chews and HIms , to see if that fixes his problem , and trust me you won’t complain if it does work for him , you more
    Than likely won’t be able to last as long as he does in bed lol

    • He's doctor himself (but ER doc ) so I don't want go give him medical advice and piss him off. He said "He's not good at bed he knows" maybe he knows or he just doesn't care about me.

    • Then you are dating a selfish man that only cares about himself , especially if he doesn’t care about pleasing you in bed , so if that’s the case , kick him to the curb where he belongs. When a guy loves a girl or Really likes a girl , his instincts are To have her by his side as much as possible , to make her feel safe and protected and loved , he also does his best to keep her satisfied in bed because he wants her Coming back for more and more , so if he isn’t trying to be better for you , then that’s your answer that he is just using you and doesn’t care about your feelings what so ever. So yes tell him TGF himself if that is the case

    • Opposite. HE was super INSINST on satisfying me. He kept licking my vagina for so long. I was stressed he wasn't hard so I couldn't enjoy and didn't fake it either. Then he thought I don't want him. He said "He's not handsome enough for me" "He's not good at bed he knows etc." But I know he really tried make me cum. But I don't know why he said those things?

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  • No, you are NOT the problem... I had the same problem....

    Forgive me for being crude... I had been going with a girl from work for many moons, and had been wanting to FU%% for the whole time...

    We had a session of deep kissing, French exchange of tongues etc one Sunday, and she said..."You are a great kisser... we need to get together" soooooo

    We were supposed to fuck on New Years, Eve at my place... we went out to eat, and celebrated... and came back to my home.

    When we got in the bedroom... and got naked, I fingered her, and it really weirded me out! Her vagina was TIGHT on my middle finger... and I never had that before.

    So guess what? I went down on her. and she had a SCREAMING orgasm, that scared the hell out of me!!! ... and I could not get hard to save my a**.

    So... ya see... that crap happens to us guys sometimes.

    • She had orgasm and did it turn you off? Weird? What was wrong with her? Maybe you weren't attracted to her? Also, in my story, he wasn't attracted to me?

    • I was honestly disgusted because she did nothing to help me get hard, and that really showed me how truly selfish she was, although generous to a FAULT otherwise. Very hard for me to understand her behavior

    • LOL? So he was not attracted to me, it was my fault?

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  • No I don't think so, he was probably uncomfortable and tried to please you

    • Why you think he was uncomfortable?

    • Because he couldn't get hard

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  • Is because is Faster for us to loose Momentum, as we have a part of the body 🍆, that needs "to get hard" before we can do anything. As for "you" is All There! All it needs is arousal and get lubed/wet! So for us Vision, Taste, Traction counts a lot before getting to "business". 🤷‍♂️

  • When a guy has a problem with ED, it is rarely related to a lack of attraction to his companion. ZHe may have a physical condition which causes this problem, be taking a medication which causes ED, or perhaps he suffers from anxiety about his performance. Despite this problem, he wanted to satisfy you so that sounds like he does care about you.

  • ED

    tries to compensate with oral.

  • It’s not your fault. What makes you think that. I’m normally as horny as hell but there’s been times I couldn’t get an erection with my wife. It happens. The little man has its own mind

  • A common way for a guy to deal with (occasional) ED is to do oral.

  • Nope, it can be common in men at any age.

  • I doubt it’s you. It‘s almost certainly not you, in fact. If it was your first time together sometimes the anxiety can get to a guy. Some guys get so focused on giving oral that without stimulation they lose an erection. He might have ED, but I wouldn’t assume that’s the problem. The best way to handle this is to not make a big deal about it unless it keeps happening. If it comes up make sure you emphasize what you enjoyed too.

  • Why would he want to eat you out if he didn't find you attractive?

  • Wouldn't know the reason, but he sounds nice.

  • Did he bring you to climax?

    • He didn't but He tried

    • Have you tried deep throating him?

    • This doesn't answer my question. He was so insist on giving me oral but he was soft so I was frustrated if he wasn't attracted to me so I couldn't climax either

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  • If he wanted to snack on you, he's pretty attracted to you.. Many times it's in a man's head if he doesn't stay hard.. Probably ED from jerking the chicken too much.. Or performan anxiety..

  • Can you give more information? Like was he fucking you then going soft?…are you sure he didn’t cum?

    was he unable to get hard?

    • Yes. We slept 4-5 times before. This time he invited me over, he tried to fuck me then going soft, I tried to stop him but at least he looked like insinst on giving me head, making me cum? But I was upset he was soft so I was frustrated, I couldn't cum either

    • Has he ever had performance problems before? Does he go soft when taking a break (so he doesn’t prematurely cum)?

    • We only had 4-5 times had sex before. He doesn't really taking a break, he wants to see me naked all the time

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  • no enjoy what he gives a tell him later the it was nice,

  • Nah Def not you. There's a lot of factors with guys that could cause that. Main reason most likely body not healing itself enough. Brain says yes but body say nu uh type of thing. Him wanting to do that for you means a lot really

  • Maybe you just need to find the right foreplay or fantasies. Have you ever asked him what turns him on?

    • We slept together 4-5 times before. We're not even officially dating. I think It's early to "try to spice things up" which is a red flag

    • Right, most guys get hard just seeing a woman in a bra and panties or definitely naked

  • This happened to me a few weeks ago. She was ready to go but I wasn't in the mood. Also I'm new to sex, it's very different from masturbating. While masturbating I just focus on my own pleasure, but with sex I focus on a lot and forget to be aroused, it also could've been it was my first sexual experience and I wasn't in the mood.

  • Highly doubt it most likely he is

    • He is what?

    • The a Problem

    • Did he at least eat pussy good to make up for the limp dick

  • He might have ED issues

    • He might not attractted to me?

    • No. Like he may not be able to get hard.

    • If he wouldn't attracted to me would he lick my pussy?

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  • Happens to guys all the time. Dicks get erect when you don’t want them to and stay soft when you need to get hard hard.

  • Good for him

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