He doesn't like blowjobs?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend goes down on me, we have been dating for some months now and i know he really likes it, but he doesn't want me to go down on him, i must confess i don't have any kind of experience when it comes to blowjobs, i'm not young but i just never really got to be sexual with anyone untill now, and it's certainly not because i suck at them since i never gave him one. I know it's not a rule to like blowjobs, a friend of mine told me once he doesn't like them either, the problem isn't even him not liking them, i personally would love to give him one, i just wonder why he doesn't like them. Did anyone ever come across a guy like this?

[GingerGuy]

The only way to know for sure is to ask him (and tell him how much you'd like to give him one). There could be a few reasons. He may think mentally it's degrading to women and it's a turn off for him? Or it's possible they just don't do much for him (they don't really me either but I wouldn't turn one down lol). Maybe he's worried about STD's (a lot of bacteria in saliva). Again, the only way to know for sure is to ask and talk to him about it. Maybe he's just never had a good one ;) If he decides to let you do it, talk to him about that as well. Different guys like different things. Have him tell you what he likes and doesn't like to make it the best it can be for him.

[God_of_Thunder]

I'm the same way, actually. I absolutely love going down on a girl, but I'm not a fan of blowjobs.

I don't know how common it is, but apparently we are out there, lol.

[oboeyoudidnt]

Does he have previous experience that makes him not like him?
Why doesn't your friend like them? That'd be a good place to start to get some solid advice. But if it really concerns you ask you boyfriend. He could be shy, or not like being the center of attention. He could just like giving more

[Anonymous]

I guess it's rare to find a guy who doesn't like to get blowjobs. Your boyfriend is part of a minority.
But, I would feel so lucky if I had a boyfriend who didn't like them! It would make my sex life so much easier and better.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you should ask him why he doesn't like it.

[vampireelf]

I hate blowjobs ;) the blowjob itself and also this hype about it everywhere. Why would it make your sexlife easier without blowjobs?

[Opinion Owner]

@vampireelf It's good to know you hate blowjobs. I wish I could meet a guy like you, he would be perfect for me. It would be easier because I wouldn't have to give him, since I don't like the idea of giving blowjobs.

[vampireelf]

Im sure there are more guys who doesn't like blowjobs, too. I think a girl who doesn't like it should never do it. But i totally need to go down on a girl haha.

[Opinion Owner]

@vampireelf I'm not sure so sure about that, it seems like almost all guys like it. You're right, she should never do something she doesn't want to, but some guys force girls to give them BJ's. It's horrible. Haha, interesting! You don't want a girl to go down on you, but you do want to go down on her. Some people would think that's not fair.

[vampireelf]

Many guys are pretty obsessed by blowjobs, mostly because of porn i think. I could never cum in a girls mouth, i would be too disgusted ;) i hate blowjobs and love cunnilingus. It would be unfair to force me to get a blowjob and not go down on the girl instead! :D

[Opinion Owner]

@vampireelf You're right, it has to do with porn. I guess some guys think that everything that happens on porn also happens in real life. Yes, cumming in a girl's mouth is disgusting. I would never be with a guy who wanted to cum on my mouth. ". It would be unfair to force me to get a blowjob and not go down on the girl instead!" - That sounds fair to me. :D

[vampireelf]

I sometimes feel like girls are even ashamed to say they are disgusted by eating cum. Or that they dont like blowjobs. I hope you never have to give a blowjob again 😊 and i think that blowjobs and cunnilingus can't be compared, they are soo different in nearly all aspects

[Opinion Owner]

@vampireelf Can I message you? I just want to tell you something about this. And if we keep talking here, the asker won't stop getting notifications.

[vampireelf]

Ok, my message box is open ;)

[Opinion Owner]

@vampireelf Great! :)

[ChanelD]

all boys are crazy about getting head.. i feel bad saying this but if he doesn't like it it may just be cause you aren't very good at it.. prolly just a little practice tho and you'll be good (:

[theharlequin]

I'll eat my girl without restraint, but I have no interest in her going down on me. There are a lot better things to do with a girl's mouth

[reptocarl]

I'm not a big fan of them either. I'd much rather be in a pussy

[Intraluminal]

Some guys just don't care for them. I'm not a fan either. It really has nothing to do with technique.

[vampireelf]

I dont like blowjobs, too. I can't tell you why. Its just a turn off. But going down on a girl is super hot :)

[tflo95]

Okay I just have three words. What duh fuck? He doesn't appreciate the true nature of a blow job. I'll make the sacrifice if I must...

[AUTiger7222]

This isn't the first time I've heard about it. It's just weird to me because I can't get enough of a woman going down on me. Feels so damn amazing!! I can't think of any reason a guy would deny himself that kind of pleasure.

[YourLucifer]

i can't stand eating pussy but i can't get hard without a good bj im just glad i have a great wife and im very good with my hands and i love sucking titties

[KnightCross]

i am not a fan of blowjobs, first time a girl did that to me i got a bit "wtf" lol but after that i got used to that now i would not be surprised

[rocsteady12]

man your boyfriend and friend is diffently a new era of dudes. cause i love head especially when a girl is great at it. all my friends love head to man these young bucks TODAY

[chris_987]

Yeah chances are you suck at it so bad that it's actually painful, some girls use there teeth because they have no idea what to do, my advice to go watch porn and take notes because if you're doing it good then he would never refuse

[Alexander101]

It's very common for girls to 'cheesegrate' in other words scrape with their teeth, even the slightest contact can be painful to a guy.

[Mr-Kabuki]

LIAR!

[CT_CD]

Then don't give him any

[Anonymous]

the thing is women aren't that good at it. the best pleasure for me is penetrative sex. but sometimes it's nice to be the center of attention

[Rissyanne]

Are you saying men are better at it?

[Opinion Owner]

I just know I'm better at pleasing myself manually than when girls do the same

[Rissyanne]

So you have had every woman in the world give you a blow job assume? So you can speak on this from experience?

[Opinion Owner]

I sense I've triggered you a little. I've explained why I'm not a big fan of blow jobs and obviously generalised to get my opinion across so I could put forward a prospective of some use. there are of course other views that may help and of course I cannot possibly speak about all women

[Rissyanne]

You haven't triggered me lol. Don't be ridiculous

[Opinion Owner]

you just seem defensive is all. there are people out there who rant on, misinformed. I am not one of them

[Rissyanne]

What ever dude