Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health He doesn’t turn me on sexually, what do I do?
Anonymous
So I’ve been dating this guy for a couple of months now. In the beginning, I did find him attractive and liked him and got sexually turned on by him. But he took things wayyy too fast with us when I told him I just wanted to casually date. The more we hung out, the more I got to know him and the less I became romantically and sexually interested. We got really close but for him he became even more interested in me and I’m the opposite. My interest has slowly declined and every time he would try to have sex with me I’m just not up for it. I’m sure he’s a little bummed lol but I can’t force myself to get with him like that. He’s still around though so it’s not stopping him but not only am I not sexually into him, I’m also not that romantically into him anymore. He’s becoming more of a best friend where he’s still looking at me as a potential girlfriend. I don't know if I should let him know this or wait a little more cause there are times where I am into him but not sexually. I miss feeling horny and he’s not doing that for me. I know I turn him on but when I reject him he’s probably feeling down or bummed. I know there’s ways out there to get turned on to make it work but I don’t know what. Or should I just leave and find someone who does turn me on?
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What Girls & Guys Said
4 45Teach him what works for you if with rewarding him to a nice food treat or doing something with him you hatd not like a foot ball game
You should make it clear you see him as a friend and nothing more.
I’m going to see if space makes me want him again romantically and sexually but if it doesn’t work out then I’ll know I’m just officially not into him
Speak to him and tell him how you feel. You may find a way to gain you sexual love for him back
You just don't click. It happens. But the sooner you let him know the better.
Time to bail out. It's obviously not working
Honesty is the best policy.
What are u thinking? 😂
Firstly, understand your self. Second, don't decide anything if u caught in emotional influences.
Last but not less, u can change anything with a re-action. Moment u feel not into him, reflect to him what u wanted him to do, show him a way, teach that lost soul. Your kindness+effort will change everything!!
Trust me with this one.
Maybe it will work out maybe not. Sounds like you will probably end up moving on.
Time to tell him the truth. Or, are you using him?
Welcome to reality. No one is ever going to find someone who is PERFECT for them. Something and somewhere along the line things will go south... and the bubble you were in will burst. Time to change your attitude.
INew Cock Urge. t's best to and things with him and move on to to a cock that gets your juices flowing.
Stop wanting. Your clit is probably too numb to feel anything lol
Try to get more romantic dialogues, change environment romantic, whenever want to have Sex
I hate girls like you
do the Honorable thing and break up with him ASAP
Find someone other who will turn u on don't waste your time with this present guy
So you become less sexually attracted to him when you got to know him
What is it about him that turned you off? Is it physical or personality?
Tell him openly and come out of the relationship
If you truly care about him confront him about this and try together some sexual therapy sessions
Yeah I do care about him so I’m just trying to see if having space will make me desire him again and if yeah then I wanna try to amp up the sexual part. I don't know how though
If your not in to him any more, do you both a big favor and tell him and move on to some one that makes you tingle in the right places