He doesn’t want to go down on me does this mean he thinks my pussy is ugly?

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  • First I'm going to start with some guys just dont like to do that, it seems kind of selfish to me, especially if you do oral sex for him, but it's a preference some guys have, they dont like it. If he dosent want to do it for you dont do it for him.

    I highly doubt you have an ugly pussy. Feel free to describe yours to me here or in a dm if your comfortable with it, but I doubt its ugly.

    If he has a problem with it that you could do something about he should man up and tell you, unless he's afraid to hurt your feelings.

    Let's talk about 2 things that you can change that may, MAY be the problem, I'm not judging, how could I be, i haven't even seen it.
    1 do you shave down there? If the answer is no rhat may be the problem, some people won't do oral if you dont shave.
    2 I feel like an asshole asking this but please believe me I'm trying to help ok, im not judging you, do you think your vagina has an odor? Some girls have an unplesent odor, even with proper hygiene. That is something no nice guy would want to tell you cause we all know women are sensitive to that ki d of criticism. I suggest you politely ask him if that's the issue, I know I would say if asked directly.

    No matter what it is let him know that this is bothering you and you would like to know why he won't give you oral.

    I have never seen an ugly pussy, You do not have an ugly pussy.

Most Helpful Guy

  • If a man doesn't want to go down on you, and he doesn't expect anything in return, then I suppose he's at least not selfish. But the fact is that at least some men expect fellatio without expecting to return the favor.

    Of course, cunnilingus is not the only way to stimulate a woman to orgasm, but it is an effective way and one that can lead to very intense orgasms for a woman, more so than stimulation with a man's fingers. What's worse, anecdotally at least, is that many men who do not want to perform cunnilingus also don't want to touch a woman's clitoris. They leave it to the woman to stimulate herself while he is penetrating her.

    Not caring about a partner's sexual pleasure and satisfaction is extremely selfish. I'm tempted to think that such men suffer from a case of narcissism unless there are reasons I haven't yet heard that can justify not wanting to give one's partner full sexual satisfaction.

    I welcome your perspective on this sensitive topic.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Some guys don't like doing oral on a girl but I doubt it's because of how you look down there.

  • No.

    Some boys don't like to go down on a girl.

    • Key word boys :P

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  • some guys dont like it, honestly i dont understand how anyone could not like it tbf, i mean sure if personal hygiene is an issue then yeah that makes sense but if not and they expect you to go down on them... then that's selfish

  • Could be he’s inexperienced and doesn’t know what to do so he makes an excuse like that.

  • Different possibilities.
    *Pubic hair grooming. What does he prefer?
    *Your personal hygiene. It is essential to be sweet and fresh.
    *His "culture" about it. Some men think it is too submissive and beneath them.
    Dump him of you need oral.
    *He's a Snowflake and thinks oral is "Ewww"
    Dump him if you need oral.
    *To me, aesthetics of your vulva is at the bottom of the list. Very few are pretty.

    Ask him why he declines and make a decision.

  • It’s more likely that he isn’t into it with anyone.

  • Pretty much

  • Some guys don't like eating pussy but I never done it but would do it in a heartbeat just my fantasy for quite sometime

  • Then don't go down on him

  • It meen he doesn't like to give oral.
    Or he think to thous partener that have been before in

  • maybe the smell?

    • It doesn’t smell bad I have good hygiene and after showering there’s only a light smell and it’s not fishy it just smells like me.

  • No, that is not what that means.

    • Ehhhh, well, I mean, it might? Hard to say.

    • @Thatsamazing Are people picky like that? I've never really thought about how the vagina looks...

    • Well I think that most guys have preference obviously, what most guys won't do is reject oral based solely on that, but it's possible is all I'm saying.

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  • Possibly.

  • 10 to 1 says it's the smell, not the appearance. If you're sure it's not that, then he probably just doesn't like the idea of going down on a woman, period.

  • I doubt that he thinks it's ugly (I personally don't believe there is such a thing). People just have certain hang-ups; most likely learned behavior. The sure way to know is to ask him.

  • Not sure

  • No he is a gentleman

  • Don't assume your pussy is ugly, because lots of guys don't like going down on women. But if you're giving him head, then simply stop doing that till be changes his mind. If he doesn't, then you need to think about dumping him.

  • This is a talk you should be having with him. The public opinion is never going to garner better results then a heartfelt or serious conversation with the person you're having issues with.

  • It could smell.

  • Pics would help us judge but... it could just be that he isn't sure he will do a good enough job

    • I completely forgot about taste... some pussys can smell good and look good but taste kinda acrid

    • Smooth 🤣

  • U would have to ask him that one he is truly the only one that would know that answer.
    God Bless

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